Pam Custers

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Relationship TherapistSW19 MA Pg/Dip (RELATE)
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Wimbledon, London, SW19
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This professional is available for new clients.

About me

Welcome to the Relationship Practice. I run a busy psychotherapy private practice based in Wimbledon SW London. My practice has clients from across SW London and the Uk and abroad.

I see clients facing relationship issues including communication difficulties, arguments that seem impossible to solve, parenting, divorce, family dynamics, and mid life challenges. Working with couples after affairs requires a particular expertise and I have had experience working with a breach of trust. Moving on after heartbreak or being single and wanting to move into a committed relationship all require a relational approach.  I also work with individuals around stress anxiety and depression providing a way to navigate life challenges. I bring a solution focused positive approach to life complex challenges. 

"The difference between a good or bad relationship is the difference between thriving or simply surviving " Pam Custers

Since obtaining my Masters degree in Relationship therapy I have worked in a number of organisations including RELATE, an Addiction Clinic, School Family service and GP's surgery. I now focus on my busy practice which compliments my work in the city where I provide workshops and run seminars. 

For those who wish to make fast progress.I also provide a unique process in my Couple Intensive. https://www.pamcusters.co.uk/couple-intensive/  

I provide a flexible approach and am happy to do Skype and telephone sessions for busy individuals and for those that travel. I work on both a short term and open ended basis drawing from both Systemic and Psychodynamic approaches.

I have a particular interest in elite sports people and those who are constantly in the public eye. My clients are successful individuals who value the discreet and private practice that I offer.

Please call for a no obligation chat to see if I will be of help.

Training, qualifications & experience

 Masters Degree in Relationship Therapy (RELATE).                                        Honours degree in Psychology,                                                                    Postgraduate Certificate in Attachment Theory                                             

- MA Relationship Therapy (University of Hull)
- Post Graduate Diploma RELATE
- BA Hons Psychology (University of Cape Town)
- MBACP Accredited Member of British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists

 Creating Connection. Trained in Proff Sue Johnsons attachment based process "Hold Me Tight",Working with Affairs, Gottman Leader  

I am a highly experienced counsellor and psychotherapist. My areas of special interest include relationship issues, couples work, family issues, divorce and separation, affairs, panic stress, anxiety, self esteem depression and addiction. Single people who wish to have a relationship.
I have a particular interest in elite sports people and others who are constantly in the public eye.
I run A Couple Intensive programmes for couples wishing to reconnect, recalibrate and rekindle their relationship.
I am fully insured and am an Accredited Member of BACP . I come from a corporate background and have worked in the Film industry. I provide a discreet and compassionate solution focused service.

Member organisations

BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

BACP is one of the UK’s leading professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy with around 60,000 members. The Association has several different categories of membership, including Student Member, Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP, Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Accred) and Senior Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Snr Acccred).

Registered and accredited members are listed on the BACP Register, which shows that they have demonstrated BACP’s recommended standards for training, proficiency and ethical practice. The BACP Register was the first register of psychological therapists to be accredited by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).

Accredited and senior accredited membership are voluntary categories for members who choose to undertake a rigorous application and assessment process to demonstrate additional standards around practice, training and supervision.

Individual members will have completed an appropriate counselling or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but they won’t appear on the BACP Register until they've demonstrated that they meet the standards for registration. Student members are still in the process of completing their training.

All members are bound by the BACP Ethical Framework and a Professional Conduct Procedure.

Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).

This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Couple Retreats are a transformational process that re connects couples.

The powerful personal development program re connects and puts relationships back on track rekindling the connected feelings that were there at the beginning of the relationship.

This one hour a week six week program can be done in the privacy of your own home. This can either be done live or can be re watched at a time that suits you both. This is not therapy but a deeply successful approach to how to build and keep a loving relationship

If you are wanting your relationship mojo back or are fed up with the same arguments that don't seem to go away, then this program is for you.

This program is also perfect if you have a partner who is reluctant to go to counselling.

Curious? Give us a call and we can tell you more about this cost effective program.

Fees

£80.00 - £140.00

Additional information

Please contact me to discuss my fee structure for Counselling

And

Couple Intensive Connection.

Impact of Menopause on Relationships. on line workshops

When I work

Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun
Morning
Afternoon
Evening
Night

On line and in person day time and evening sessions available. We provide flexibility in order to fit into your busy schedule.

Further information

Couple Retreats are a transformational process that re connects couples.

I run couple intensives where I work with a couple over a two day period.

https://www.pamcusters.co.uk/couple-intensive/

The powerful  process re connects and puts relationships back on track rekindling the connected feelings that were there at the beginning of the relationship. Rediscover how your unique relationship dance works and rediscover that emotional connection.

If you are wanting your relationship mojo back or are fed up with the same arguments that don't seem to go away, then this program is for you.Curious? Give us a call and we can tell you more about this cost effective program.

Featured In
Pam Custers has been featured in many magazines newspapers and television shows. She is often called on as an expert in the field relationship psychology.

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Wimbledon, London, SW19

Type of session

In person
Online
Phone
Home visits

Types of client

Children
Young people
Adults
Older adults
Couples
Families
Groups
Organisations
Employee Assistance Programme

Online platforms

Skype
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