Kim Philbey. Borderline Personality Disorder, Anxiety, Depresson
8A Ray Park Avenue
Kim Philbey Dip.Couns.Metanoia - Registrant.MBACP
Hi, I'm Resident Psychotherapist at Rosemead GP Surgery in Maidenhead Berkshire.
Group creator and facilitator of Maidenhead Borderline Personality Support Group.
As a person who has lived for many years in the spectrum of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) , I have an insight into the chaos and disruption this condition creates.
I treat patients individually, and offer a group experience with other sufferers, where people can share listen, support and learn together ways to reduce emotional dysregulation.
I specialise in the following conditions
Personality Disorders through Clusters A - C, in particular Borderline Personality
Disorder (BPD) , Acute Anxiety, Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Obsessive Compulsive Behaviours (OCD), Narcissism, Avoidant Personality Disorder, Transgender Issues, and LGBTQ.
Self-Esteem and Confidence, Couples Counselling, Addictions (Drugs / Alcohol) , Panic Attacks, Work Related Issues, Grief and Loss.
Rape, Trauma and Domestic violence
I work with patients who are victims of severe traumatising events. Often these experiences leave a post traumatic disturbance on the the individual, family or group. Those affected frequently have a feeling-memory of the event that can invade their life on a daily basis. Using Integrated Psychotherapy and Counselling, I am able to work with people sensitively, in order to help them begin work through their critical experience.
Relationships and Sex Therapy
I also specialise in Sex Therapy and Relationships, working with an individual or couple sensitively in order for them to work towards feeling free to experience the pleasure of sex, intimacy, feeling happy and confident.
Generally people experience intrusive thoughts. To what degree they experience them can depend on a number of factors, though a prior lived experience, a now experience, or a projected and believed future experience.
The intensity of these thoughts can be overtly distracting, and become life changing.
Working constructively and applying an integrative Psychotherapy approach and CBT, can reduce the thinking and physical behaviours that have formed over a period of time.
Anger and Grudge Keeping
This is an area that affects many people. Learning to understand these behaviours and explore how or where they may have originated, can enable a person to begin to reduce stress and anxiety that sits in the background of each day.
I work with patients practically with this subject, and encourage and support a learning experience in the consulting room, the home, workplace, and during leisure time. This approach can lead to further understanding of self, and provides an opportunity for change.
As an Integrative Psychodynamic Therapist, I use a variety of therapeutic models when working with patients. I practice Relational Psychotherapy, and incorporate the models of Existentialism, Psychodynamic Transference Focused Psychotherapy, Humanistic Therapy, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Transpersonal Philosophy, and Mindfulness Therapy.
My private practice assists both attending and non-attending patients to Rosemead Surgery, I work with patients both in the consulting room, work place, home and community.
I work with patients from age 16 upwards.
Visit my website for more information: Kimphilbey.com
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Training, qualifications & experience
Regents University London - Psychodynamic Psychotherapy and Counselling Training.
Centre for Counselling and Psychotherapy Education London. Transpersonal Philosophical Training.
Metanoia Institute - Ealing (In association with Middlesex University) Integrative Psychotherapy and Counselling.
My awarded qualification is a Clinical Diploma in Integrative Psychodynamic Counselling.
I belong to the BACP accredited professional counselling register.
I am part of a collective group of Psychotherapists known as The Relational School.
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality disorder
- Asperger's syndrome
- Attachment disorder
- Attachment disorder in children
- Avoidant personality disorder
- Bipolar disorder/Manic depression
- Body dysmorphic disorder
- Borderline personality disorder
- Child related issues
- Dependent personality disorder
- Depression and anxiety in children
- Domestic violence
- Drug abuse
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Gender dysphoria
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Hearing voices
- Histrionic personality disorder
- Internet addiction
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Narcissistic personality disorder
- Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder
- Panic disorder
- Paranoid personality disorder
- Passive aggressive behaviour
- Personality disorders
- Physical abuse
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Postnatal depression
- Pregnancy and birth
- Relationship issues
- Schizoid personality disorder
- Schizotypal personality disorder
- Separation and divorce
- Separation anxiety
- Sex addiction
- Sex problems
- Sexual abuse
- Suicidal thoughts
- Work-related stress
- Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT)
- Behavioural therapy
- Cognitive and behavioural therapies
- Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)
- Cognitive therapy
- Compassion-Focused Therapy
- Couples counselling
- Dynamic Interpersonal Therapy
- Existential therapy
- Family/systemic therapy
- Group therapy
- Humanistic therapies
- Interpersonal therapy
- Person-centred therapy
Individual clients £55 per session (50 - 55 minutes)
Couples / Families £90 per session (1h:30 minutes)
Concessions for those claiming benefits, students, and single parents can be negotiated.
I follow the traditions of Tibetan Buddhism and took refuge in this philosophy in 2002.
The way of Buddhism weaves through my practice, and assists new theory where personality disorders and depression are concerned.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
|Face to face counselling:||Yes|
Week days and Evenings
Types of client
|Employee Assistance Programme|