Irma Tarlarini

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Orpington BR6 & Bromley BR2
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About me

I specialise in working with Relationships as I strongly believe we need a good relationship with ourselves to help us build healthy relationships with others, helping us to relate better to the world we share. I provide an integrative therapeutic approach for Individuals & all relationships. Our work will help you gain deeper understanding on your life story, so understanding your depression or anxiety, or addictive behaviours or suicidal thoughts, maybe self-harming, or suffering traumatic effects from abuse, or perhaps you’re feeling sad or lost & would like support to work out what’s going on. Clients have worked with me through the loss of their relationship after a break-up, finding a new way of believing in themselves as an individual. 

I support Couples with understanding individual experiences affecting your unique relationship, including your Sexual experiences, and how to understand your relationship with new insight. I work with monogamous, as well as "open" & "poly" couples & am able to support you in exploring the unique concerns & issues you have.

My cultural background has given me insight into unique identity, how we feel about who we are, who we identify as & the childhood environment affecting us into becoming the person we are today. I can support you to find strength in your unique identity & also the unique couple you are, understanding yourself more and gaining more secure relationships with those around you.

Some of my clients also like working with the effects of experiences held in the body from childhood into adulthood, how anxiety can be held like a tight spring. I explore ways to support you to move forward to find your rhythm and balance within your body, for that sense of physical freedom in your life.

Training, qualifications & experience

  • NAOS Level 7 Advanced Diploma in Relationship Psychotherapy (accredited by COSRT & NCIP)
  • CPCAB Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
  • BSc (Hons) Psychology with Counselling (Yr1) 
  • An Attachment-Aware & Trauma-Informed Perspective on Resilience
  • Understanding & Treating Chronic Shame 
  • Mindfulness
  • Understanding the Basics of Psychosexual Therapy
  • Compassionate Inquiry: a Powerful Approach for Healing Anxiety, Addictions, ADHD and more..
  • Chronic Suicidality & Self-Destructive Behaviour
  • Creating Safety with High-Conflict Couples: A non-verbal approach
  • Integrative Trauma Treatment Masterclass
  • Couples Counselling: Relationships & Attachment
  • Supporting Clients with Body Dysmorphia 

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

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NCPS
National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS)

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In 2013 the NCS register was accredited by the Professional Standards Authority under the Accredited Voluntary Register Scheme. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.

BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

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Accredited register membership

National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society
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National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Couples & Relationship Psychotherapy

Fees

£70.00 - £105.00
Free initial online session

Additional information

  • Initial phone consultation 10-15 mins - free
  • Individual Adults (50 mins) - £70
  • Couples, Relationships & Sex therapy (1 hour) - £105

When I work

Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun
Morning
Afternoon
Evening
Night

Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday & Thursday

from 1pm to last session 8pm in Bromley BR2

(near Locksbottom, Orpington off A21)

Orpington, BR6

Unit 23, The Beechwood Centre, 40 Lower Gravel Road, Bromley, Kent, BR2 8GP

Type of session

In person
Online

Types of client

Young people (13-17)
Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Couples

Key details

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