Sonica Mushi

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MBACP (Reg), BA (Psych) L4(DIP)

About me

Inner Child Healing, Reparenting & Nervous System Repair

Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck repeating the same painful patterns — especially in relationships?

Perhaps you find yourself overthinking, people-pleasing, criticising yourself, or shutting down when emotions become too much. Many people I work with say they understand their behaviour logically, but still feel trapped in the same cycles.

Often these patterns began much earlier in life. When childhood experiences involve emotional neglect, criticism, or unpredictability, the nervous system learns survival strategies that can follow us into adulthood.

My work focuses on helping clients understand and gently change these patterns through inner child healing, reparenting work, and nervous system regulation.

How Therapy Can Help

I offer a warm, compassionate space where you can slow down and explore your experiences without judgement.

Clients often tell me therapy becomes a turning point — where the past finally makes sense and they begin to respond to life differently.

Together we work toward:

• calming an overactive nervous system
• understanding emotional triggers and patterns
• healing childhood wounds and unmet needs
• developing self-compassion and inner safety
• building confidence and healthier relationships

My goal is not only insight, but lasting emotional change.

My Approach

I work integratively, drawing from psychodynamic therapy, person-centred counselling, schema therapy, CBT and EFT.

This means our sessions are tailored to you — your pace, your needs and your personality. Some clients prefer practical tools and exercises, while others focus more on exploration and reflection.

Much of my work focuses on inner child healing and reparenting, helping clients build the emotional skills and self-support that may not have been available earlier in life.

I also write about these topics and share articles and free resources on my website, alongside my Inner Child Healing course for those who want structured tools to support their personal growth.

Areas I Work With

• Inner Child Healing & Reparenting
• Anxiety & Emotional Overwhelm
• Emotionally Neglectful Childhoods
• Abandonment Wounds & Fear of Rejection
• Repeating Relationship Patterns
• Trauma & Transgenerational Trauma
• Confidence & Emotional Resilience

Qualifications

BA Psychology (South Africa)
Level 2 Certificate in Counselling Skills
Level 4 Diploma in Integrative Counselling

Registered Member of the BACP
Fully insured and licensed

Additional training includes: EMDR, Compassionate Inquiry, Inner Child & Inner Critic work, trauma treatment, and healing emotional neglect.

Sessions

50 minute sessions – £80

50 minutes couples - £100

In-person:
• Hammersmith (Fridays)
• East Sheen (two Saturdays per month)

Online sessions: Tuesdays

Booking

To arrange a session you can contact me through Counselling Directory, my website, or by email:

https://visit.crossroads-services.co.uk/home

To sign up to receive free and downloadable resources or register for my Inner Child Healing course Freedom within, please follow the link below: 

https://visit.crossroads-services.co.uk/freedom-within-276252

You are also welcome to explore my articles via this directory. 

Training, qualifications & experience

I have BA degrees in Journalism and Psychology through RAU (South Africa) and UNISA (South Africa). I also have an AIM awards Level 2 Certificate and a Level 4 Diploma in Counselling Practice. I am a registered member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy).

I have experience in women’s group facilitation, one to one counselling and couples counselling. My training was in integrative counselling which included training in:

  • Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) for couples,
  • Schema Therapy
  • Humanistic approach
  • CBT
  • Psychodynamic therapy
  • Bereavement
  • EMDR
  • Trauma therapy

I have worked for non-profit organisations and in Private Practice including:

  • CPT in Covent Garden
  • MIND,
  • Headstrong
  • Crossroads-Services (which is my Private Practice)

I also have an extensive history in volunteering with people in later stages in life, children, and families of people with chronic or terminal illness.

I provide face to face, zoom, WhatsApp and phone sessions and have clients in several countries.

As part of my CPD, I am undergoing further training in Schema Therapy, Attachment Therapy and therapy for Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

I have worked for a daily newspaper in South Africa before coming over to England. I have also worked in the legal field for 12 years. When I'm not seeing clients, I write articles and parenting book reviews. My Instagram page is @crossroadsservices.

Member organisations

BACP
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Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Areas of counselling I deal with

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Fees

£80.00 per session

Additional information

My standards fee is £80 payable on the day of the session. However, I can offer reduced rates for those in real need. 

My standard fee for couples is £100. 

When I work

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Early morning
Morning
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Published articles

Sheen Therapy Centre, Upper Richmond Road West, London, W6 8AF

Crossroads Counselling Services Ltd, 77 Fulham Palace Road, London, W6 8AF

Type of session

In person
Online

Types of client

Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)

Key details

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Paid parking on surrounding roads during week days and free street parking from 5pm.

Additional languages

Afrikaans

Online platforms

Zoom

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