About me
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Now those things are out of the way...
Hello, and thanks for taking time to look at my details. Hopefully you will find a fair bit of general information below, not only about how I work, but what you might need to know before choosing a professional who might be best placed to help you move forward with your current concerns.
I am an NHS experienced ex-Psychological Therapist / Specialist Counsellor / Clinical Supervisor and for ten years worked for the Acute Mental Health Team. I now have moved away from offering therapy and use a CBT oriented coaching approach to help people recover from anxiety in a forward focused way. I have a private practice in Southsea and on the Isle of Wight. Whilst my profession is ticked as ‘counsellor’ I am no longer registered as such, and offer CBT oriented coaching - informed by over 20 years of psychotherapy practice.
I have great and varied practice experience and have endeavoured to become as qualified and well practiced as I possibly can as I have an extremely strong ethic toward giving my clients my very best practice, whatever their concerns might be.
So if you are looking for support for issues like (and not only):
ANXIETY (PANIC ATTACKS, HEALTH, GENERAL ANXIETY DISORDER, PHOBIA, SOCIAL, HOARDING, SKIN PICKING, HAIR PULLING ETC.)
LOW CONFIDENCE, LOW SELF ESTEEM
EATING DIFFICULTIES
DEPRESSION, LOW MOOD
OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE DISORDER (OCD)
DISTRESSING INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS - USUALLY ABOUT YOU BEING REALLY BAD
WORRY, UPSET, FEELING LOW
CONFUSION, SADNESS, LONELINESS
RELATIONSHIP ISSUES
WORK STRESS, BULLYING
- OR JUST WANT TO TALK ABOUT YOUR FUTURE - TO WORK A FEW THINGS OUT
...then don't hesitate to call to discuss what it is that is troubling you, and how you might be able to move forward.
So what kinds of approach are there... what happens?
If you choose Counselling, this helps you to look at problems you are facing now. You might focus on a specific problem, process, decision or crisis for example. This is usually an in depth process that takes time.
Whilst many counsellors and therapists like to work in their own way, actually different approaches suit different people and/or issues in different ways. That is why it is important to choose a practitioner who can work in a way tailored to your precise needs. Because of this an initial ‘assessment’ session is really important. I am happy for you to ‘test drive’ coaching first - before committing to sessions!
It shouldn’t be difficult to work out what sort of therapy you are being offered. Ask what experience potential professionals have with your type of issue. Look for Accreditation and long years of training! Most important to your progress is the strength of the relationship you have with the person you choose. You should feel safe, mutual trust, equal, empowered and not judged, patronised or feel like you are being told what to do.
A couple of different approaches:
You may have heard about Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. CBT practitioners aim to help people change patterns of thinking or behaviour that are causing problems. Changing how you think and behave also changes how you feel. It is a structured approach – you agree goals and try things out between sessions. You work collaboratively toward where you want to be.
EMDR. If you are experiencing trauma, for example like an attack, domestic violence, accident - in it or witnessed it, war zone stuff, traumatic near miss, fire, flood, crash etc., EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) can help. Google it!
Psychodynamic Therapy explores your experiences and identifies connections between present feelings and actions and past events. We might make more sense of the ‘cause and effect-ness’ of your past on your present.
I do not work as a counsellor or psychotherapist at all but offer CBT oriented coaching to help people with life issues and anxiety, OCD etc. I help them quickly understand how they became this way - enough to help them move forward, focus on their future and come to an understanding of what they want and need in their lives and how to move toward it.
I do not work with addiction, families, or clients with mental health concerns who would be better served with a psychotherapeutic approach. I am happy to recommend determined and professional clinicians through my practice at 34 The Mall where we have a community of counsellors and therapists all coming together under one roof.
What sort of things do people ask for help with?
I have encountered all of these presenting issues and client groups and coaching is an evidence based intervention with proven 'success' in many instances:
Depression Work Stress Negative Thinking Uncertainty Worry Relationship issues Phobias Anxiety LGBTQ issues Couples Violent or disgusting unwanted intrusive thoughts Family difficulties Fear Loss Low Confidence Self Esteem Sexual Problems Panic disorder Guilt Social Phobia Workplace Bullying Anger. Illness Obsessive Compulsive Disorder OCD Sexuality Health Anxiety Moving forward after Relationships Breakdown Affairs Betrayals Divorce Grief Bereavement Obsessions Debt Stress Adults Students Young People Problems Confusion Redundancy Unhappiness Cultural issues Sadness Pregnancy Termination Violence Men's issues Ageing RAGE Personal Development Terminal Illness Unwanted thoughts Love Disgust Isolation Meaninglessness Groundlessness Death!
And my CBT informed coaching approach lends itself perfectly to working with my specialism of Anxiety, Depression, OCD, making change happen, identifying choices and life coaching.
I have been an associate lecturer in counselling at a local university and facilitate men’s groups for men affected by cancer, and also co host 34 The Mall in Newport Isle of Wight which offers a home to a community of counsellors, coaches, psychotherapists and all manner of physical and complementary therapists under one roof, in a beautiful Georgian townhouse just a few moments stroll from Newport's busy centre.
I have supervised all level of counselling work including counsellors working in private practice, the NHS, third sector voluntary and GP referred organisations both on the mainland and the Island, Primary Care therapists, NHS Drug & Alcohol counsellors, Psychologists and Community Psychiatric Nurses and bring this experience to my coaching practice.
Training, qualifications & experience
Until 2015 working in the NHS as a Psychological Therapist / Specialist Counsellor and Clinical Supervisor in an Acute Mental Health setting, I hold a:
- Masters degree in Counselling Supervision
- BSc (Hons) degree in Integrative Counselling
- BSc (Hons) degree in Psychosocial Interventions for Psychosis
- Post Graduate Diploma in CBT Advanced Level
I love to integrate CBT into how I coach and recognising the value of helpful tools, I often customise or design disorder specific help sheets with, and for my clients, that help them to understand their problems better, and what maintains them. Some of these have been published on the now mainstream CBT website of downloadable tools for CBT therapists: www.get.gg.co.uk; one dealing with anxiety tolerance and the other, OCD repetitive symptoms. I'm sure there will be one or two more out soon. I recommend the website to you for many helpful concepts. It is free to check out and use.
One of my specialist areas (real geek mode) is dealing with OCD. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. If you have it - or think you do and are struggling with obsessive thoughts and compulsions to repeat meaningless ritualised activities like checking or cleaning - or experiencing any kind of distressing unwanted thoughts (probably really disgusting, terrifying or revolting in nature) then there is a good chance that you have OCD, and hence ideal for treatment. (Most people think OCD is about cleaning and germs, and only sometimes is) so if this is you or you are getting any distressing unwanted thoughts or compulsions to repeat senseless actions - call me! I can help you make sense of it very quickly, and help you overcome your anxiety.
Member organisations
school Registered / Accredited
Being registered/accredited with a professional body means an individual must have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by their member organisation.

The National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society This Not For Profit association of counsellors and psychotherapists aim to support the counselling profession, members and training organisations. In 2013 the NCS register was accredited by the Professional Standards Authority under the Accredited Voluntary Register Scheme. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.
Accredited register membership

The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).
This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.

Areas of counselling I deal with
Other areas of counselling I deal with
Unwanted upsetting intrusive thoughts that form part of the Anxiety Disorder OCD (though many people experiencing them do not realise this) usually falling into the following categories: disgusting thoughts, abusive thoughts, violent thoughts, thoughts of hurting or killing others - thoughts of hurting or killing loved ones, any horrific, or anything that makes you really anxious, really quickly.
Fees
£80.00 - £150.00
Health Insurance/EAP
Additional information
My fees start at £80 per session for new private clients. Couples for relationship coaching is £140 (longer session).
I allow a space for two clients at any one time to see me at reduced fees if appropriate. Call to see.
If we meet and you can get a similar service elsewhere free then I will refer you to it if required. If one of us feels that CBT coaching with me would not feel quite right then there is of course no commitment to any further sessions and I will happily refer you to a suitable colleague or specialism.
Like all other professionals however, I do charge for missed sessions, but endeavour to rearrange wherever possible.
When I work
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I work Tuesday, Thursday, 10.00 am - 6.00 pm in Southsea.
My Newport, Isle of Wight clinic is 10.00 - 6.00 pm on a Wednesday and Friday. I currently have a space for new clients.
Thank you!
Further information
How do you choose a therapist?
Well we all have a lot of qualifications and letters after our names so you'd be well advised to find one with an actual degree in counselling or psychotherapy; be accredited to one of the main credible professional organisations and have years of experience. Ask if they've completed an accredited University course that included their own personal therapy as this can make a vital difference to your therapy. I'm guessing you wouldn't want a therapist who had never experienced having therapy themselves? Or a dentist who had never had a filling?
Some counsellors train in one core model and believe that this will work for everyone.
Others have experience and training in many and can tailor their therapeutic interventions to suit not only the person, but the problem itself.
Be advised, the NHS National Institute for Clinical Excellence (NICE) recommend certain evidence based therapies for certain problems or disorders and do not recommend others. You may be well advised to check out what you're worried about and see what approach they advise. They have a website www.nice.org.uk
Meanwhile... POSSIBLE QUESTIONS TO ASK WHEN YOU ARE INTERROGATING A POTENTIAL THERAPIST! (Warning - if they are not sure about their answers, try someone else!)
- What kind of therapy do you offer and what is it trying to achieve?
- Have you had your own personal therapy as part of your training? (You're looking for a 'yes' here!)
- How long are sessions and how often are they held?
- How long might therapy last for and how does it end - is there a set number with regular reviews?
- How long before I should expect to feel some benefit from therapy?
- Can I contact you between sessions if I need to?
- What training have you had, and how many years have you been practising?
- What professional organisations are you accredited with?
- Have you had experience of working with people with similar problems to mine?
- Is therapy confidential and when might confidentiality be broken?
- Might you refer me to, or contact other health professionals involved in my care - and is this something you are experienced in? Can you discuss my medication needs for example?
- How much do I pay per session, and is there a missed session fee?
- Do you work from home or from a professional office or rooms?
- Do you keep notes about me and are they kept confidentially? What will happen to them if you drop dead!? How will I know?
- What if we don't get on?
That said, research shows that generally, the most important influencing factor linked to therapeutic 'success' is the strength of the relationship you have with him or her. So choose someone you like!
If at any time you experience any difficulty with any therapist, if it cannot be resolved once you have discussed it with them, I would encourage you to contact their registering body for information and support. The BACP being my primary registration, at www.bacp.co.uk
If at any time you feel pressured into doing something you don't want to by your therapist, the chances are it is not right. Your therapist should be very much 'on your team' and as such NEVER tell you off or be judgemental about what you tell them! If they do, contact their professional body for advice.
If you have a long standing problem it is not automatically the case that it will take ages to address - but beware the 'magic' or 'quick fix' for any upset as it is unlikely to be an effective intervention. (EMDR is sometimes an exception to this as it can work really quickly on simple trauma).