Ingrid Koehler, Counsellor, couples and Iindividuals
I have had a private counselling practice in Totnes since 2011 and continue to practise in central Totnes. I have a background in nursing in the NHS having worked in the specialty of cancer for many years.
It takes courage to recognise that we need help when we are in distress and help to deal with a problem that we can't work out for themselves. Counselling can help us see the bigger picture. Distress ranges from stress and anxiety about things in life: feelings of being out of control; feeling a sense of being overwhelmed or confused, depressed or sad, even for no definable reason; feeling hurt or vulnerable, angry, frustrated, desperate, or needy because of particular circumstances or our life history. It can also show up as being very emotional all the time or just as a feeling of flatness and pointlessness and as a ‘nervous breakdown’. Guilt, shame and regret also can deeply affect us and having physical pain, chronic ailments and poor health take their toll. All forms of distress can affect our well-being and relationships.
Counselling is very effective for trauma. More is known now about the long-term effects of trauma, whether it be from emotional abuse and protracted neglect, or by being shocked, horrified or terrified. We can be impacted by a particular event, which may even be in the distant past. Also, the effects of long-term grief and loss and can damage our wellbeing.
My approach is of unconditional acceptance and non-judgemental understanding of all that you are, and want to talk about at your pace and according to your level of comfort, in a safe space of caring, trust, confidentiality and safety. Counselling brings new insights and awareness of our problems, behaviour and distress, and it can help us to develop compassion and empathy for ourselves.
I work with individuals and couples in order to help them to look at relationship difficulties. I want both women and men to understand one another in order to create loving partnership. I believe that understanding the differences between women and men is critical in order for healthy relationships. My work with couples is based on the model of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), as developed by Dr Sue Johnson. It is a collaborative, structured, usually short-term therapy approach.
Training, qualifications & experience
- Advanced Diploma in Humanistic-Integrative Counselling, the Iron Mill Institute, Exeter, 2009
- Registered Nurse - cancer nursing and Oncology Research.
- Volunteer counsellor - Devon Partnership Trust (NHS mental health service provider), 2008-2011
- Member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP).
- Completed the Women's Initiatory Journey in 2014, facilitated by Elisabeth Josephs-Serra, Culture of Honouring/Social Alchemy
- Counsellor for Torbay Care Trust's Carer Support scheme from 2014-15.
- Trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) - Externship London 2018
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Anorexia nervosa
- Attachment disorder
- Avoidant personality disorder
- Binge-eating disorder
- Bipolar disorder
- Borderline personality disorder
- Bulimia nervosa
- Carer support
- Child related issues
- Domestic violence
- Drug addiction
- Eating disorders
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Feeling sad
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Narcissistic personality disorder
- Panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Physical abuse
- Postnatal depression
- Relationship problems
- Seasonal affective disorder (SAD)
- Separation and divorce
- Sex problems
- Sexual abuse
- Suicidal thoughts
- Work-related stress
£40 per hour-long session for individuals
£60 per hour-long session for couples
Concessions available for those on low incomes. Introductory session is half price.
I have full Professional Civil Liability Insurance.
Free parking is available in Totnes and in Exeter there are numerous car parks in the area.
Unfortunately I do not have access for wheelchair users. The Exeter venue is on the third floor.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
|Face to face counselling:||Yes|
Types of client