Matilde Tomat

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The Resting Tree - MRes / MBACP / APCCA + BHMA
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location_on Blackburn, Lancashire, BB2
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About me

As a BACP eclectic existential psychotherapist and Jungian enthusiast, I bring a unique approach to therapy that not only focuses on modern existential concerns but also explores the deep roots of human consciousness through the lens of #paleophenomenology. This innovative framework invites you to connect with the ancient wisdom embedded in our collective unconscious, offering pathways for transformation, creativity, and deeper meaning in your life.


Welcome to The Resting Tree: A Psychotherapeutic Alchemical Lab

My name is Matilde. I am an artist, an MBACP + APCCA + BHMA holistic and eclectic existential psychotherapist, a writer, a researcher and the creator of paleophenomenology, a framework exploring the origins of human consciousness through ancient wisdom and phenomenological experience. I am intrigued by hidden connections, synchronicities, the uncanny, and the mystical, with a shamanic approach to life. I see sessions as an alchemical process: we start with what you bring—whether you feel anxious, depressed, lonely, unheard, misunderstood, or unfulfilled—and together, we transform it within the lab of self-exploration.

The goal of our sessions is to awaken your inner awareness, providing tools for personal individuation while learning to listen and trust your inner voice. Paleophenomenology brings a deeper layer of understanding to this process by inviting you to connect with the primal forces that have shaped human consciousness for millennia, offering insights that transcend individual experience and tap into the collective wisdom of humanity.

With years of experience in recovery, coaching, mentoring, therapeutic, philosophical, and existential work through a creative and Jungian lens, I strongly believe in empowering people through education and exploration. My sessions are tailored for clients, PGR students, creatives, and professionals seeking development through self-enquiry, transformation, and connection with deeper, ancient elements of human experience.

The sessions integrate various models, including:

Therapeutic – Analytical, supportive, and explorative, grounded in Rogerian core conditions with an existential perspective, while incorporating a Jungian approach that includes archetypes and the unconscious mind, along with paleophenomenology's focus on primal consciousness.
Coaching and Mentoring – Skill implementation, stress management, and goal setting, with the added benefit of applying a paleophenomenological perspective to understanding life challenges through a more ancient, human lens.
Pastoral – Exploring moral, existential, and spiritual questions with insights from shamanic traditions and ancestral knowledge as viewed through the lens of paleophenomenology.
Professional – Guiding professionals and creatives, incorporating ancient wisdom and Jungian thought into their practice to encourage deeper connection and effectiveness.
Academic – Encouraging self-reflection and learning through journaling and reading, with paleophenomenology offering a unique perspective on human origins, creativity, and consciousness.
Philosophical – Addressing life puzzles through self-examination, enriched with an exploration of how our ancient ancestors made meaning and navigated existence.
Artistic – Using artistic practices as a creative means to explore one’s world through the lens of ancient rock art and the need for human beings to leave their mark, a key element in paleophenomenology.

Working holistically in this profound way may not be easy, but if you feel like therapy alone isn't enough, and you’d like to explore deeper "personal development therapeutic tutoring" (PDTT) with a focus on the intersection of psychotherapy and paleophenomenology, I am here for you.

Tailored Services for the Inquisitive Mind

My work is designed for those seeking more than traditional therapy. Academics, creatives, professionals, and curious explorers—this approach is for you. I offer different tiers of services, from existential psychotherapy sessions grounded in a holistic framework, to paleophenomenological journeys for those who crave an in-depth exploration of self and world. Through these methods, clients are empowered to explore their own lives in new ways, guided by a practice that is both reflective and forward-thinking. This is a truly bespoke experience, where no two journeys are alike.

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Re. SUPERVISION : currently I am enrolled in a L6 Diploma in Clinical Supervision course. My approach is the same as my therapeutic one and I am accepting supervisees during my training following the legal and requested guidance, at a discounted fee until the end of my course in MAY 2024.

Re. COVID and Regulations: I am following the Government's latest regulations and I am offering both face-to-face and online sessions.

Part of the work I do can be found in my blog here: https://www.matildetomat.com/latest

Training, qualifications & experience

Member of APCCA [Association For Person-Centred Creative Arts] 
Member of BHMA [British Association for Holistic Medicine & Health Care]
CPD : Anti-Oppressive Supervision & Practice
UN CSW68 UK delegate MAR 2024
PhD at Bangor University from Jan 2024
MA by Research in Fine Art at York St. John Univ 2023
L6 Advanced Diploma in Clinical Supervision – NCS
Fine Art Dissertation Award 2022
BA (Hons) Fine Art at York St. John Univ
Working Online with Couples
Ayurveda Diploma Course (online)
Using Mindfulness to De-Stress, Reduce Anxiety and Stay Present during These Challenging Times—and Beyond
Who’s Responsible for Our Collective Mental Health? An Exploration of Current Strategies and the Post-Pandemic Landscape
Helping Clients Heal Trauma and PTSD During the Pandemic
Using Neuroscience to Pull Through the Current Mental Health Crisis
Moving Therapeutic Practice Online
Demystifying Mindfulness - Leiden University (online)
Introduction & Practice: EFT / EFT Energy
UAL FAD Art & Design - finished June 2020
Evening / Half Day / Full Day workshops on Shame - ongoing
Introduction to Family Therapy
L4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling – CPCAB
L3 Certificate in Counselling Studies – CPCAB
L2 Certificate in Counselling Skills – CPCAB
Grade 1 – Nichiren Buddhism
RRR – Recovery Coach
Celebrate Recovery Leaders Training (with John Baker)
12 Steps : Christian, Buddhist, Zen, Mindfulness
Perfect Daughters – Adult Daughters of Alcoholics
MindMapping for Happiness
Branding & Lovemarks : a new you
Art Therapy, Journalling, Scrapbooking
Quality Decision Making
Therapeutic Journalling
Public Speaking
Chaplaincy – course sponsored by the Buddhist Healthcare Chaplaincy Group including hospital placement hours
In-house L1 – Eating Disorders
In-house L2 – Eating Disorders
Book: "Rebeltherapy: a therapist journey through addiction, trauma, and Nichiren Buddhism", is now available on Amazon, both as ebook and paperback.
Book: "a thousand names" is now available on Amazon and it explores existential issues connected with death and suicide.

Member organisations

BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

BACP is one of the UK’s leading professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy with around 60,000 members. The Association has several different categories of membership, including Student Member, Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP, Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Accred) and Senior Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Snr Acccred). Registered and accredited members are listed on the BACP Register, which shows that they have demonstrated BACP’s recommended standards for training, proficiency and ethical practice. The BACP Register was the first register of psychological therapists to be accredited by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA). Accredited and senior accredited membership are voluntary categories for members who choose to undertake a rigorous application and assessment process to demonstrate additional standards around practice, training and supervision. Individual members will have completed an appropriate counselling or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but they won’t appear on the BACP Register until they've demonstrated that they meet the standards for registration. Student members are still in the process of completing their training. All members are bound by the BACP Ethical Framework and a Professional Conduct Procedure.

Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Areas of counselling I deal with

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A Unique Path to Self-Discovery: Paleophenomenology Meets Therapy

At The Resting Tree, I offer a unique blend of psychotherapy that goes beyond conventional methods. My approach combines traditional existential therapy, Jungian analysis, and a one-of-a-kind framework—paleophenomenology—to guide clients through an extraordinary process of self-discovery and transformation.

Paleophenomenology invites you to explore your inner world through the lens of ancient human consciousness, tapping into the same impulses that first led our ancestors to create art, leave their mark, and make sense of the world around them. By integrating this deep exploration with traditional therapeutic models, we create a space for profound insight, creativity, and personal growth.

This approach is especially suited to academics, creatives, professionals, and those drawn to philosophy or existential inquiry. I offer a tiered service model, from standard psychotherapy sessions to more immersive paleophenomenology-based journeys for those seeking to delve deeper into the mysteries of self and consciousness.

Whether you are navigating life's challenges or seeking a new way to engage with your inner world, this practice offers a tailored, bespoke experience that empowers you to reconnect with your authentic self. Together, we will explore the hidden connections and synchronicities that define your journey, offering not just solutions to present struggles, but a transformative path to long-term well-being and growth.

Therapies offered

Fees

£50.00 - £100.00

Concessions offered for

  • check_circle Students
  • check_circle Trainee counsellors

Additional information

FEES:  : Fees per 50 or 80 classic therapeutic minutes

  • SINGLE one-off / top up / emergency sessions - £70 [60 min] or £100 [90 min]
  • RECURRING - £50 [60 min] or £70 [90 min]
  • 10-SESSION PACKAGE : £440

Integration of Paleophenomenology sessions [60min] :

  • SINGLE : £100 
  • RECURRING : £70
  • 6-SESSION PACKAGE : £400

SUPERVISION

  • SINGLE one-off/top up / emergency sessions - £50* [60 min] or £70* [90 min]
  • RECURRING - £50* [90 min]

GROUP SUPERVISION

max 5 ppl - £100 [90 min]

Please, enquire re. fees for workshops and visiting lecturer

ALSO NOTE:

  • Counselling / Therapy / PGR students : 10% discount / single recurring session [max 10 hours]
  • * supervision fees are until final accreditation. Fees will be increased accordingly thereafter
  • one session pre-paid in advance to cover for late cancellations, no-shows and final session
  • other options of workshops / lectures / tutoring / coaching available
     

Telephone / Local Outdoor / Remote Counselling: fees are as per in-person

(these new fees are in place from Mon 11 NOV 2024; old fees were unchanged from Mon 20 Sept 2021)

Availability

  • Mon - Sun > 8am - 2pm [whole year]
  • Mon - Thu > 5pm - 8pm [some availability from OCT to MAR only]

Pls, get in contact to know the latest availability. Thank you

When I work

Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun
Morning
Afternoon
Evening
Night

Mon - Sun > 8am - 2pm [whole year]

Mon - FRI > 5pm - 8pm [some availability from OCT to MAR only]

Pls, get in contact to know the latest availability. Thank you.

Further information

I do work with adults and on a one-to-one basis, from home, unless otherwise agreed (see telephone and written counselling, or walk&talk):

  • I see clients only if they have previously pre-booked and pre-paid for the session with me; please, be mindful of the time which is dedicated only to you and arranged in a way to protect both your privacy, other clients, and my family members;
  • My fundamental values follow BACP’s ones. These are defined to protect both of us, in our therapeutic relationship, and also my own premises

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For anyone interested, I do offer outdoor counselling sessions grounded in psychogeography and hence assisting you in exploring your story and pain while immersing in nature (fees to be agreed upon depending on location); and walk&talk experience, especially when coupled with mindfulness breathing and walking, mostly along the Leeds/Liverpool Canal. I also offer telephone and written counselling. All sessions are always paid in advance.

Should I not be able to answer the phone, please do send a text and I will contact you as soon as possible. I will then send you via email directions and a contract.

I am available to be booked for weekend workshops or group work.

As a member of the BACP I do abide by and deeply believe in its Ethical Framework in working with you, for your own wellness, at your pace, and within those well-defined boundaries, creating a safe island where healing can take place. I am fully insured, supervised (both on a one-to-one basis and also within a group / peer supervision). I am also CRB checked, and I do respect my own Continuing Professional Development.

For any information or to book a session, please send an email to info@therestingtreelancs.com

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Blackburn, Lancashire, BB2

Type of session

In person
Online
Phone

Types of client

Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)
Couples
Groups
Organisations

Key details

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I share my space with two cats. They do not participate in the sessions but pls be aware if you are allergic. I use candles and incense before the sessions. There is one step to enter the premises and no access to a bathroom.

Additional languages

Italian

Online platforms

Whatsapp
Google Meet

Supervision

In person
Online

I am currently training as a supervisor doing a L6 Advanced Diploma in Clinical Supervision. and I am accepting supervisees at a discounted rate.

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