Dr Frances Toynbee MBACP
I offer one to one support to people who are struggling with life. I am qualified to work with children, adolescents and adults.
I worked in education for many years specialising in adolescents who struggled with their behaviour. I have a deep understanding of the pressures of school life, exams and relationships. I am happy to visit children and young people at school if that is practical.
I have a therapy room in Holgate, central York.
I believe that by building a therapeutic relationship of mutual trust, it is possible to find ways of coming to terms with any difficulties and possibly learn new ways of managing these troubles.
We all need help sometimes, and having someone who really wants to discover what it is to be you, and to help live life to the full can really make a difference.
Drop me an email with your contact details and the best time to call, and I'll give you a ring if you think I can help.
If you are looking for support for your child, we can meet first to discuss what is worrying you and your child (free of charge) as I believe working in partnership with parents/caregivers is essential.
Training, qualifications & experience
- Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling, Children and Adolescents (Northern Guild for Psychotherapy and Counselling 2017-2019)
- Awareness in Bereavement Care (Cruse Bereavement Care 2016)
- Bereavement in Children (Winston's Wish 2013)
- Advanced Diploma in Interpersonal and Counselling Skills (Institute of Education, London University, 1990-1992)
- Introduction to Counselling Skills (I.L.E.A. Schools Psychology Service 1987-1989)
My experience: I have been a volunteer for Cruse Bereavement Care since 2016 working with adults and children. I have also had clients in Primary and Secondary schools working with anxiety, attachment disorders, and behavioural difficulties.
My teaching experience included setting up and running small schools for children with a range of difficulties including school phobia and social, emotional and behavioural problems. I worked in mainstream schools too, with Special Educational Needs. I conducted research for my PhD on how children labelled with behavioural difficulties experienced school.
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Attachment disorder
- Attachment disorder in children
- Behaviour problems
- Carer support
- Child related issues
- Childhood bereavement
- Childhood bullying
- Children’s learning difficulties
- Depression and anxiety in children
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Feeling sad
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Learning difficulties
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Pregnancy and birth
- Relationship problems
- Separation anxiety
- Young carers
First session free.
My approach is humanistic and person centred, this means that if you are my client, your wants and needs come first, and I will give you space to explore what troubles you at your own pace. I believe that with my support, you can find ways to come to terms with whatever troubles you.
I use a range of strategies, if it helps to be creative, to draw or paint, or play games to build the relationship, this is what we can do. Sometimes it is easier to look at difficult feelings through play, particularly for younger people and children. The choice is yours.
The core of my work is the understanding that if strive for the deepest possible understanding of your experience, I can help you process your difficult feelings and find ways of being happier.
As the first time we meet will be free of charge, you can decide if you think I can help you or your child, this process relies on mutual trust.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
|Face to face counselling:||Yes|
Week days and early evening, I will also visit clients in school, with the school's agreement.
Types of client