Christopher Clow MA B.Sc PG-Dip BACP Reg Senr Accred member FDAP AFT
The Balham Family Centre Building
91 Bedford Hill
231 Lavender Hill
02075851399 / 07791 833 279
Anxiety, Anger Rage, Relationships, General/Social/Work Anxiety and Stress, Worry, Depression, Despair, Sadness, Bereavement/Loss, Missing, Affairs, Betrayal, Alcohol/Addiction(s), Substance abuse, Internet Pornography other addictions, Couples, Families, Shame, Guilt, Self esteem, Self worth, Low Mood, Trauma, Crisis, Self harm, Suicide, Confidence, Self Belief, Discontentment, Depletion, Alienation, Homesickness, Adolescents, Post Natal Depression, Separation, Divorce, Childhood Suffering, Sexual Abuse, Violence, Crime, Coaching, Assertiveness, Parenting, New families, Co-dependency, Childhood Trauma , Irritability, Edginess, Wretchedness, Unravelling, Disintegrating, Relationship Abuse including-emotional-physical- and sexual- both in childhood or adulthood, in same or opposite gender relationships ...... and many other concerns that can affect you today.
- When we keep things locked up inside.... that's where they stay.
- We often worry about things that haven't .... and may not happen.
- The way to solve problems... is to live a life in a way that makes them disappear.
- Coming to therapy can be an enlightening process of discovery.
- Understanding the story behind you....can help you make sense of your story today.
- Happiness isn't always about getting what you want.... It's about wanting what you get.
You may be feeling down, nothing left, wretched, sad or worried about something, you may be hoping to make changes in your life and behaviour. Perhaps you are looking for reasons and meaning, feeling unfulfilled, unproductive, trapped or alienated from work, family and friends.
You may be considering counselling for something specific such as Anxiety, Depression, Anger, Relationships, Bereavement and loss, self esteem and confidence, Alcohol and Addiction and/or you may be looking for longer term psychotherapy.
Often the two, Counselling and Psychotherapy, go hand in hand.
I have been working as a counsellor and psychotherapist in clinical settings since 2001 and Private Practice since 2005. BACP Accredited in 2006, BACP Senior Accredited in 2012 and working as a Consultant and Clinical Supervisor since 2005.
I can provide counselling/psychotherapy appointments to adults, adolescents and in some circumstances children. I work 1-2-1, with couples and with families.
To fit in with your busy schedules, telephone and/or Skype sessions are also possible.
I also am able to work with a Philosophy and Egan based personal coaching model.
My practice is set in comfortable and secure consultation rooms accessed by entry phone systems in Balham (Bedford Hill)
Please see photograph of consultation room below.
Sessions are 50-minutes in length and are usually weekly.
If you are looking for twice weekly or fortnightly sessions please let me know when you contact me. I can offer flexible appointments to fit in with your changing schedule.
I provide appointments in the daytime, evening and some Saturdays.
During your first appointment we can discuss what brings you to counselling, what's troubling you and on your mind. Then we can discuss what you are looking for and how to develop a way of working that integrates and blends appropriate useful therapeutic approaches that best fit you.
Over the years, I have developed an Eclectic/Pluralistic approach.
In other words I am non-dogmatic to any particular way of working. We can work in response to your needs in short-term or longer-term therapy as well as personal consultation/coaching.
You will be able to work within Humanistic, Integrative, Family-Systemic, CBT, Mindfulness, Psychodynamic and Existential models as you focus on what it's like to be you and on what's going on in your life today.
Perhaps you feel like you are unraveling, things are disintegrating, find yourself over worrying, feeling low, or maybe you are feeling unfulfilled, unproductive, discontent or maybe trapped in a corner.
Then we can find the best way to cope in the 'here-and-now' and we can explore how you got there and where you are going.
If appropriate, I am able to use hypnotherapeutic tools involving grounding and relaxation exercises alongside guided and/or creative visualisation techniques.
I have trained and have workplace and private practice experience of using Trauma Incident Reduction (TIR) techniques and tools if required.
If required we can integrate an Egan model of achieving change through coaching in a personal consultation context.
I have robust training and experience in working Systemically with individuals, couples and families in private practice, within an NHS Family Therapy Clinic, Local Authority Child and Family Services and a Charity Counselling Service.
My practice includes working with new parents finding things challenging, bereavement, addictions, and mental health concerns in families.
I am able to offer an integrative behavioural model for couples with any specific problem such as depression.
For more information please visit my website by clicking on the link at the top of the page.
I am registered with and take clients/patients covered by BUPA, Pruhealth and AVIVA
To avoid my reply emails going to junk mail, please call 07791833279.
If you prefer to email to discuss what you are looking for, I will reply as soon as possible.
All contacts are held as confidential.
For more information you can also access my website at the top of the page.
Training, qualifications & experience
UK Registered Counsellor and Psychotherapist (UKRCP)
British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP-Registered & Senior Accredited)
Health Code Private Practice Register (HCPPR)
British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP-Registered & Senior Accredited)
Federation of Drug and Alcohol professionals (FDAP)
Association of Family Therapists (AFT)
AXA Healthcare PPR, BUPA, AVIVA and PRU Healthcare recognised counselling and psychotherapy provider.
MA Counselling & Psychotherapy (2008)
Systemic Couples & Family Therapy Level (I) & (II) (Equiv. Post Grad. Dip) (2010)
Foundation in Psychoanalysis (2009)
Dip. Counselling Supervision (2005)
Adv. Dip. Therapeutic Counselling (2003)
B.Sc (Hons) Soc. (1976)
I hold individual membership and have Senior Accreditation with The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), membership of the Federation of Drug and Alcohol Professionals (FDAP), and am a member of the Association for Family Therapy (AFT)
My practice includes integrating personal coaching.
ORGANISATIONAL based experience:
Blenheim IDAS Battersea, Clinical Supervisor
Blenheim Community Drug Project CDP Vauxhall
Crime Reduction Initiative Hammersmith & Fulham (Alcohol Services), Clinical Supervisor
RAPt (Rehabilitation of Addictied Prisoners Trust) Programme Manager, Senior Therapist
Ealing Drug Intervention Service, Clinical Supervisor
KCA Foundation young peoples addiction therapy, Clinical Supervisor
Freedom Recovery Centre 12-step programme, Clinical Supervisor
The Awareness Centre Clapham Addiction Recovery Programme, Clinical Supervisor
The Awareness Centre External Psychotherapist
Equinox Alcohol Service, Psychotherapist
Turning Point Addiction Services, Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor
TRAUMA RELATED WORK:
Missing People. Charity helping families of people who are missing. Clincal Lead telephone counselling service.
Vicitm Support London, (Trauma, Crisis, Homicide, Rape, Assault, Domestic, Homophobic Violence, Race crime, Suicide, Robbery...) Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor
The British Refugee Council (Imprisonment, Torture, Trauma, Rape, Displacement, Violence, Seperation Loss, Genocide, Homicide, War, 'Ethnic Cleansing'...), Clinical Supervisor
Alongside my counselling and psychotherapy practice, I work as a qualifed clinical and consultancy supervisor and am involved on a consultancy and clinical capacity with a free/low cost counselling service in SW London.
My portfolio includes developing, managing and supervising a counselling service in a charity based setting for victims of crime (2001-2014).
From 2010 to 2011, I practiced as an Honorary Therapist at the Prudence Skynner Family Therapy Clinic within the SW London & St Georges NHS Mental health Trust.
This has given me considerable statutory and non-statutory workplace and private practice experience in working with depression, low self esteem, anger/rage, shame/guilt, bereavement/loss, trauma/crisis, and specialist experience working with domestic violence, homophobic abuse and sexual violence including male and female rape, post traumatic stress, recovery from crime, life crisis and motivation, alcohol and drug misuse, binge drinking, gambling, co-dependency sex and love addiction.
I also have 3 years experience of tutoring/lecturing and teaching trainee counsellors.
I am a qualified counselling and consultancy supervisor and am providing/have provided Counselling and Consultation Supervision for qualified and trainee counsellors and psychotherapists in many settings including:
Lambeth Mind, Equinox, Ealing DAIS, Turning Point, Various Victim Support Schemes, The Her Centre, KCA, Freedom Recovery Centre, The Awareness Centre NHS and General clinical practice, The British Refugee Council. Safer London Foundation, Gang exit.
Salaried, Non-salaried and Honorary Statutory and non Statutory Clinical Work experience:
Age UK (Formerly Age Concern) Consultant Supervisor
Awareness Centre Addiction Recovery Programme Senior Therapist / Programme Manager
Awareness Centre Counselling/Psychotherapy and NHS Service Clinical Supervisor
Balham Community Counselling Service (BCCS) Therapist
Blenheim CDP Community Drug and Alcohol Agency Clinical Supervisor
Chanel 4 Film Productions Support Psychotherapist
Criminal Reduction Initiative Hammersmith & Fulham (CRI) Clinical Supervisor
Dovedale Employee Assistance Programme (EAP) Psychotherapist
Ealing Drug Intervention Alcohol Service (DIAS) Clinical Supervisor
Equinox Alcohol Service (EAS) Psychotherapist
Family Adolescent & Child Team, SW London & St Georges Mental Health NHS Trust. Psychotherapist
Family Adults Clinic, SW London & St Georges Mental Health NHS Trust. Psychotherapist
Freedom Recovery Centre (FRC) Clinical Supervisor
ITV Family Conflict Programme Support Psychotherapist
KCA Foundation (Bypass) Young Person's Addiction Service Clinical Supervisor
Lambeth Local Council Child Protection Services, Psychotherapist
Lambeth Community College
Lambeth Mind Consultant Supervisor
Lavender Hill Association of Community Psychotherapists Clinical Supervisor
LEAP, Confronting Conflict External Clinical Supervisor
Mayors Office for Policing and Crime. (MOPAC) Domestic Violence Outreach teams. Clinical Supervisor
Merton Social Services Child and Family Team, Psychotherapist
Missing People Clinical Lead
British Refugee Council Clinical Supervisor
Rehabilitation of Addicted Prisoners Trust (RAPT) Programme Manager/Senior Therapist
Safer London Foundation. Clinical Supervisor
SPACE Community Counselling Service Clinical Supervisor
Space Kensington & Chelsea Counselling Services Clinical Supervisor
Stirling University Psychotherapy Research Support
Turning Point Adult Alcohol Service (ACAPS) Clinical Supervisor
Victim Support, Homicide, Rape, Domestic Violence Teams Clinical Supervisor
Wandsworth Council, Child Safety Services, Psychotherapist
Accredited register membership
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality disorder
- Asperger's syndrome
- Attachment disorder
- Avoidant personality disorder
- Bipolar disorder/Manic depression
- Body dysmorphic disorder
- Borderline personality disorder
- Child related issues
- Dependent personality disorder
- Domestic violence
- Drug abuse
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Gender dysphoria
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Histrionic personality disorder
- Internet addiction
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Narcissistic personality disorder
- Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder
- Panic disorder
- Paranoid personality disorder
- Passive aggressive behaviour
- Personality disorders
- Physical abuse
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Postnatal depression
- Pregnancy and birth
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal affective disorder (SAD)
- Separation and divorce
- Sex problems
- Sexual abuse
- Suicidal thoughts
- Work-related stress
Other areas of counselling I deal with
Crime, homicide, suicide, sexual assault, rape, physical assault, trauma, relationships, race, sexuality, sexual orientation
Same and opposite gender retaionships.
Coaching, Training, Workshops, Therapeutic & Support Groups
Counselling and Consultancy Supervision, Mediation
- Behavioural therapy
- Cognitive and behavioural therapies
- Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)
- Cognitive therapy
- Couples counselling
- Existential therapy
- Family/systemic therapy
- Humanistic therapies
- Person-centred therapy
- Psychoanalytic therapy
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£70.00 - £80.00 Individual (50-minutes)
£85.00- £95.00 Couples (50-minutes)
£100.00-£145.00 Families (depending on length of session)
I am registered with and take clients/patients covered by BUPA, Pruhealth, AXA and AVIVA
Some concessions for counsellors in training and lower cost sessions may be available. Please ask me about this when you first make contact.
To discuss what you are looking for, please call or text on 07791833279.
If you are sending an email to firstname.lastname@example.org please supply a mobile number as sometimes my emails end up in junk or spam mail boxes.
For more information you can also access my website below or at the top of the page or go to U-Tube, Greatvine, Christopher Clow
As you have found your way here, it might be safe to say you are searching for answers, something is bothering you or you are considering making some change in your life.
Perhaps you have decided it’s time to talk to someone other than a friend, family member or work colleague and to share things about yourself that you wish to be held in a professional, non-judgemental, confidential and safe manner.
Maybe you are concerned about some behaviour that’s affecting you, your friends, family or work. Perhaps you wish to get away from or find a way to adapt to a difficult situation you find yourself in.
You may be in crisis or have experienced a recent trauma, loss of a loved one or are unsure why you are feeling the way you are.
You may have memories, thoughts and feelings that are bothering you.
Perhaps you feel trapped and things are unravelling.
Dreams and poor sleep may be affecting you. You have already had therapy and wish to start up once more, are looking for something different or wish to give yourself further time to talk about your life.
Counselling and psychotherapy can help. Before you decide to go further, however, please be mindful that therapy can be challenging, and takes time and commitment.
Revealing things about yourself to a stranger may be unfamiliar to you at first and it may take a while for you to settle. Or that neutral space may be just what you need.
What you can learn about yourself, how you can come to accept your experience, make changes in your perception of your world, find understanding of your thoughts, feelings, emotions and behaviour and can be deeply rewarding and profoundly life-changing.
There are no guarantees in this work and it will be up to you how far you wish to go and at what pace. We will work together in response to your needs and this can involve short-term or longer-term therapy.
It is important that you know that all our contact is treated with confidentiality as a sacred part of our engagement and when we meet for the initial appointment meeting we can discuss this further and I will answer any questions you may have.
Please call or email to dicsuss what you are looking for.
For more information you can also access my website below or at the top of the page.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
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Monday 2pm-9pm Tuesday 2pm-9pm Thursday 2pm-9pm Friday 2pm-8pm Saturday 9am-1pm . Please call 07791833279 or email email@example.com for a faster reply
Types of client
Supervision & training
I offer individual or group supervision.