Lindsey Whitman

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MBACP accred - BA (Hons)

About me

I provide counselling and psychotherapy for individuals and couples in person, with options for walk-and-talk, creative sessions available upon request, and remote for existing clients. My approach is client-centred, and relational rooted in trust, authenticity, and understanding. I am also trauma-aware and recognise that anxiety, depression, compulsive behaviours, numbness, and other reactions can often be natural responses to distressing circumstances and events.

Furthermore I understand how different events and environments—including social contexts and relationships—can empower or disempower. When disempowered, these factors may contribute to distress and adaptations that obstruct authentic connections with ourselves and others. Therapy can create a safe space to explore these challenges realistically and authentically.

Together, we may address shame or guilt, including the belief that you’ve let yourself or others down. My role is to support you in cultivating self-awareness, a space for you to take proportionate responsibility, and foster a clearer understanding of yourself within your context.

With eight years of reflective group work experience, I have a deep appreciation for relational dynamics in both individual and societal settings. This background informs my practice, allowing me to notice the complexities of your relationships and experiences with greater insight and compassion. 

Additional Information  
I am a cis female with mixed European and North African heritage. I am a qualified teacher and serve as a supervisor and couples/group therapist. Currently, I am studying Psychological Trauma at the University of Chester.

I am registered with Health code - AXA, Bupa, WPA, Aviva. 

Location

Memorial Hall, 2 The High St, Hamble, Hampshire, SO314JE
Email: lindsey@flourish-therapy.co.uk
Mobile: 07552828611 

Sessions 

Individual £60 (50-min) in room

Walk and talk £50 (45-55 min) 

Couples £75 (60-min) £100 (90-mins)

EMDR £70 (60-min) 

Who & how long

I meet with individuals, couples, young people, families and groups. Individual sessions are 50 minutes, 45-55 mins walk and talk, couples or more than one, duration, 60-90 mins. Sessions are face-to-face, outdoors, or remote.

Outdoors

If you have restricted mobility, we can meet at an agreed outdoor location or walk and talk along the wooded pathways towards the shoreline. Duration 45mins-55-mins.

Creative

I can facilitate creative expression through arts and sand tray.

Experience

I met the person-centred counselling profession in 2011. Since then, I have gained experience in charities, education and private practice. I also facilitate training and supervise. I am trauma-aware and in further psychological trauma training. 

I am committed to continued professional development (CPD) to revisit and learn more about client characteristics and concerns. This includes (but isn’t limited to) understanding the impact of societal deprivation, differing abilities, neo-conventional family structures, and discrimination based on race and ethnicity. Gender, Sexuality, Relationship, Diversity (GSRD) and Neurodivergence.

The Initial Session

For individuals, I offer an initial 30-minute session (£30) in-room or via phone or video link 30-minute (free). For couples, this is a full hour; initial (£35). Walk and talk initial in room (£30).

If sessions are in person, meeting 'in the room' can be helpful. The room is bright yet cosy, located on the first floor of Hamble Memorial Hall. It offers a lift, parking, accessible toilets and disabled parking. I will ask if you need further adjustments. Unfortunately, due to fire regulations, I can only offer in-room sessions to those who have the mobility to exit via the stairs. 

The initial session is your chance to see if therapy with me is something you'd like to pursue. It's also an opportunity to explore what you'd like to achieve and provide insight into how I work.

The counselling agreement contract, including the boundaries and limitations of the sessions, is also explained. If we agree to continue, we will find a mutually agreeable time/day to meet, ideally regularly.

Duration - Initial Session 

Face-to-face (initial) - £30 (30-minute)

ZOOM (initial) - free (30 minutes)

Couples (initial) - £35 (1 hour)

Planning

In the initial session, it can be helpful to discuss a realistic amount and frequency of sessions. Bear in mind that there is no normal; rather we establish whether what you present can be aligned to the number of sessions - as there may be ethical implications. However, following the opening of 'Pandora's Box' a reassessment of the number of sessions could be necessary. Meaning that without the veil that may have afforded protection, you may have more to unpack. 

When it isn't wise to continue  

This includes: If we have someone in common, or you are currently experiencing something that in the present moment could be harmful for you to open. If there is violence towards the partner you are seeking counselling with, or you want to be given tools to manage. I also cannot take responsibility for substance withdrawal, rather, this is something that I can work alongside other professionals with. Finally, major limits to my understanding or connection– as such, it could be better to refer to a colleague more informed by lived experience or another profession. 

Do reach me with any questions you may have.....

Please do let me know if any adjustments on Zoom, or in-room are required - I will be happy to accommodate.

Training, qualifications & experience

BACP Accreditation

BA 1st Class Hons in Person-Centred Counselling and Psychotherapy

BA Hons Business Administration 

*PGCert Psychological Trauma - in progress 

Diploma Level 5 in Teaching 

Certificate in Buddhist-informed Ecotherapy

Certificate in Applied Polyvagal Yoga

Certificate in Clinical Supervision

Certificate in Couples Counselling

BACP – 288439

ICO – 2025

DBS – 2025

Member organisations

school Registered / Accredited

Registered / Accredited

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BACP
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Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Areas of counselling I deal with

Therapies offered

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Fees

£55.00 - £75.00

Concessions offered for

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Health Insurance/EAP

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Additional information

Please contact re-pricing, as circumstances are very much considered.

*Initial 30-minute session face-to-face/in-room - £25- £30 (free via Zoom). Couples (initial) £35.

Fee rate

*Individual 50-minute session £60

*Couples (initial 1 hour £35) ongoing sessions 60-mins £75 (or) 90-minute session £110

*EMDR (1-hour) £70

I can offer fee flexibility, meaning a lower rate where required. The number of clients I can offer this service to is limited. 

When I work

Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun
Morning
Afternoon
Evening
Night

Please contact regarding session times. 

Further information

Regardless of where we meet, I am vested in your direction and promotion of authenticity, as well as simply, yet powerfully, being a companion for where you are.

Fourish, Hamble Memorial Hall, 2 High Street, Hamble-le-Rice, Southampton, Hampshire, SO31 4JE

Type of session

In person
Phone

Types of client

Young people (13-17)
Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)
Couples
Families
Groups
Employee Assistance Programme

Key details

DBS check info

In England and Wales, the Disclosure and Barring Service (DBS, formerly known as CRB) carry out criminal records checks for individuals working with vulnerable groups, such as children. To find out more, visit gov.uk , or contact this professional directly

The premises I use are on the 1st floor, it has a lift, accessible toilets and disabled parking. Currently, due to fire regulations, in the event of a fire, in-room clients need to be able to walk downstairs. The room is nut and food-free.

Online platforms

Zoom
Microsoft Teams

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