Eva Nogales, Sex therapist (EN-Sexology)
Hi, my name is Eva and I am the therapist behind EN sexology. I offer psychosexual/sex and relationships therapy via videoconference (online) and in person.
Sex therapy can be helpful for an individual or couple who feel their issues are affecting their quality of life, or just want to learn more about their sexuality. It can improve relationships and the erotic life in the broadest sense. We don’t just want you to solve your specific problem, we want you to grow sexually, unlearn bad patterns, rethink unhelpful misconceptions about sex and relationships, dismiss common myths and relearn a healthier model of sexuality. We want you to face sex with more self-confidence, less fear, and a greater sense of self-esteem.
Sexual therapy is very satisfying and clients can notice positive changes within just a few sessions. Consultations do not involve any physical examinations, or any sexual acts, but it does require you to openly talk about sexual feelings and concerns. It also requires a level of self-awareness. We’ll talk, we’ll try to figure out together what is the root cause of any difficulties, and we’ll give you some homework between sessions. You will have to work with your mind and body, both as an individual and/or as a couple.
Sex therapy can help with many different issues, lack of sexual desire both male and female, painful intercourse, difficulties with orgasm, arousal disorders, erectile problems, involuntary (premature or delayed) ejaculation, sexual difficulties following abuse, fear of sex, sex avoidance, general lack of sex confidence, and so on. We can also work on poor body image relating to intimacy, jealousy, sexual orientation or identity struggles and alternative sexualities (see the list below).
Sex involves the body, the mind and the emotions, you’ll learn to understand how it all works together. Sex therapy is a meaningful process of unlearning and relearning. And is not a passive experience, you will be invited to participate by thinking, doing and feeling.
All of the work you do in the therapy room is based on talking, however, you are also given some practical activities/ homework to do at home.
I strongly believe there’s no ‘right and wrong’ when it comes to sexuality. No matter how you identify, what you’re into, your relationship status or how you approach sex and intimacy. You’ll be able to talk about yourself in a safe and confidential environment, free of shame and judgement.
Areas of work:
Loss of desire - Differences in libido
Difficulties with orgasm - Involuntary ejaculation
Erectile problems - Arousal difficulties
Out of control sexual behaviour
Fear of sex - Avoidance - Phobias - Pain
Rape - Sexual Assault
Sexual difficulties following abuse
Trauma / Sexual Trauma
Sexual education, information and orientation
Body image - Self-esteem - Sexual confidence
Sexual shame, guilt and other negative emotions
Sex orientation or gender identity struggles
Improving sexual communication
Exploring alternative sexualities: Open relationships / Polyamory - Kink...
Erotic growth - Emotional intelligence
Creating a healthy relationship - Communication
Jealousy - Lack of trust - Infidelity - Breakup
Reinvigorating a long-term relationship
Dating and relationship skills
Training, qualifications & experience
Master in Sexology and Sex Therapy (MSc)
Sex and relationship therapist
Member of College of Sex and Relationship Therapist (COSRT)
College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists
COSRT is the UK’s leading membership organisation for therapists specialising in sexual and relationship issues.
All members must abide by their Code of Ethics and the performance of accredited members is regularly monitored.
Areas of counselling I deal with
£60 per session