Eva Nogales

Hi!! my name is Eva and I am the person behind EN sexology. I am a psychosexual and relationship therapist.

Sex therapy can be helpful for an individual or couple who feel their issues are affecting their quality of life, or just want to learn more about their sexuality. It can improve relationships and the erotic life in the broadest sense. We don’t just want you to solve your specific problem, we want you to grow sexually, unlearn bad patterns, rethink unhelpful misconceptions about sex and relationships, dismiss common myths and relearn a healthier model of sexuality. We want you to face sex with more self-confidence, less fear, and a greater sense of self-esteem.

Sexual therapy is very satisfying and clients can notice positive changes within just a few sessions. Consultations do not involve any physical examinations or any sexual acts, but it does require you to openly talk about sexual feelings and concerns. It also requires a level of self-awareness. We’ll talk, we’ll try to figure out together what is the root cause of any difficulties, and we’ll give you some homework between sessions. You will have to work with your mind and body, both as an individual and/or as a couple.

Sex therapy can help with many different issues, lack of sexual desire both male and female, painful intercourse, difficulties with orgasm, arousal disorders, erectile problems, involuntary (premature or delayed) ejaculation, sexual difficulties following abuse, fear of sex, sex avoidance, general lack of sex confidence, and so on. We can also work on poor body image relating to intimacy, jealousy, sexual orientation or identity struggles and alternative sexualities (see the list below).

Sex involves the body, the mind and the emotions, you’ll learn to understand how it all works together. Sex therapy is a meaningful process of unlearning and relearning. And is not a passive experience, you will be invited to participate by thinking, doing and feeling.

All of the work you do in the therapy room is based on talking, however, you are also given some practical activities/ homework to do at home.

I strongly believe there’s no ‘right and wrong’ when it comes to sexuality. No matter how you identify, what you’re into, your relationship status, or how you approach sex and intimacy. You’ll be able to talk about yourself in a safe and confidential environment, free of shame and judgment.

Areas of work:

Loss of desire - Differences in libido

Difficulties with orgasm - Involuntary ejaculation

Erectile problems - Arousal difficulties

Out of control sexual behavior

Fear of sex - Avoidance - Phobias - Pain

Rape - Sexual Assault

Sexual difficulties following abuse

Trauma / Sexual Trauma

Sexual education, information and orientation

Body image - Self-esteem - Sexual confidence

Sexual shame, guilt and other negative emotions

Sex orientation or gender identity struggles

Improving sexual communication

Exploring alternative sexualities: Open relationships / Polyamory - Kink...

Erotic growth - Emotional intelligence

Creating a healthy relationship - Communication

Jealousy - Lack of trust - Infidelity - Breakup

Reinvigorating a long-term relationship

Dating and relationship skills

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