Dafiny Alves

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MBACP| NCPS| Neurodiversity and Culturally Affirming

About me

You are neurodivergent or think you are, and often find yourself people-pleasing, struggling with intrusive thoughts and persistent negative thinking. You may feel overwhelmed, self-critical, or disconnected from your own needs after years of adapting to others’ expectations. You are seeking understanding, relief from distress, and practical tools to build boundaries, trust yourself, and develop a more compassionate relationship with your thoughts and emotions.

These are the main issues I can help you with, what a typical treatment plan may involve, and the benefits you can expect. I specialise in working with neurodivergent individuals and, as someone who is neurodivergent myself, I bring both professional training and lived understanding. Many clients seek support for anxiety, depression, intrusive thoughts, and OCD. Therapy focuses on understanding your experiences, reducing distress, and developing practical, sustainable strategies that support emotional regulation, self-compassion, and long-term well-being. 

 I love what I do and find it extremely gratifying to work with young adults, as I learn so much from them. I don’t believe therapy is magic, but it is powerful and somewhat magical when I see my clients becoming more confident and compassionate towards themselves in the sessions and slowly seeing the changes they were looking for when they began therapy. (Therapy works, I have seen it working.)

As I mentioned, I am neurodivergent. This means that if you identify as neurodivergent as well, we will likely connect on a deeper level, as I have noticed this positive dynamic with many of my past and present clients. 


Things to know about me: Others experience me as quirky or peculiar, and I am funny (I was also told I  have an accent). I am easy to talk with, and I don’t judge. Ah!  I am not the greatest with numbers because of my dyscalculia, but I get there eventually.


If you resonate with any of these challenges, I would love to work with you. Together, we can explore your experiences and work towards finding the relief and understanding you deserve.


 

Training, qualifications & experience

  • CPACB - Counselling & Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body - Diploma in Integrative Counselling 
  • Counsellor Tutor - Advanced Certificate in Clinical Supervision Including Online and Telephone Working Level 6
  • HSC Oxford Home Study Centre - CPC accredited - Diploma in Life Coaching Level 7
  • Counsellor Tutor - Certificate in Online and Telephone Counselling 
  • PESI UK - Certified Clinical Anxiety Treatment Professional (CCATP) Training Course: Applied Neuroscience for Treating Anxiety, Panic, and Worry
  • PESI UK - Anxiety, Trauma & Self­Harm in Children and Adolescents ­- Essential Regulation and Restorative Practices
  • PESI UK - Advanced Trauma Treatment for Children and Adolescents: A Certified Child and Adolescent Trauma Professional Training Course
  • PESI UK - CBT Training for Anxiety and OCD
  • Hillingdon  SCP - Initial Working Together to Safeguard Children (level 3)
  • Mindful Society Global Institute - Neurodiversity - Informed Mindfulness
  • Mental Health First Aid 
  • ADHD Clinical Services Provider (ADHD-CCSP) Certification Course: Strength-based Interventions to Thrive with ADHD from Childhood to Adulthood
  • Oaklander - Sand Tray: Using the Oaklander Model

  •  Carolyne Spring - Working with Trauma 

  • Counsellor Tutor- Autism and ADHD Awareness 

  • PESI Uk - 2023 Autism Symposium: What's New & What's Next in Treating Clients on the Spectrum (Online Course)

 


Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

Registered / Accredited

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NCPS
National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS)

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BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

BACP is one of the UK’s leading professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy with around 60,000 members. The Association has several different categories of membership, including Student Member, Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP, Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Accred) and Senior Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Snr Acccred). Registered and accredited members are listed on the BACP Register, which shows that they have demonstrated BACP’s recommended standards for training, proficiency and ethical practice. The BACP Register was the first register of psychological therapists to be accredited by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA). Accredited and senior accredited membership are voluntary categories for members who choose to undertake a rigorous application and assessment process to demonstrate additional standards around practice, training and supervision. Individual members will have completed an appropriate counselling or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but they won’t appear on the BACP Register until they've demonstrated that they meet the standards for registration. Student members are still in the process of completing their training. All members are bound by the BACP Ethical Framework and a Professional Conduct Procedure.

Accredited register membership

National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society
Accredited Register Scheme

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National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Areas of counselling I deal with

Therapies offered

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Fees

£65.00 - £120.00

Concessions offered for

  • Students

Additional information

Please email me, and I will contact you as soon as possible to book an initial informal chat. 

Online sessions are available, and my online sessions cost £65

Couples therapy sessions cost£120

When I work

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Early morning
Morning
Early afternoon
Late afternoon
Evening

Further information

People often ask me how my sessions look like and if I verbalise my thoughts in the sessions or just sit in silence nodding , if you are wondering this as well the answer is : Yes! I will be honest, reflective, open and curious in our work.

As I am a creative person In my sessions we can use a range of techniques such as: grounding, mindfulness, breathing exercises, psychoeducation, solution focus exercises (CBT), with my younger clients we can play games, do some role play, drawing, crafts, use blobs/ feelings cards, videos or music; etc as long as you are comfortable to use them, as the base of my work is client -centred - I strongly believe that You know what is best for you even if right now you do not feel that you do.

London, Greater London, W4

London, Greater London, SW5

Type of session

Online
Phone

Types of client

Young people (13-17)
Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Couples
Groups

Key details

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Additional languages

Italian
Portuguese

Online platforms

Zoom
Microsoft Teams

Supervision

Online
Phone

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