Carol Patel MBACP : Counsellor & Psychotherapist
Are you struggling with everyday life at the moment? Do you feel you need some time and space just for you?
Working with me, you will have time and space to examine and untie the tangled knot of thoughts, fears and emotions that might be creating a blockage in your life at the moment. Once we start, you may find that each 'strand' leads to another and often these are deeply embedded and painful to untie. I will tailor our working relationship to what suits you as an individual. I will be flexible in my approach, so that you choose what you want to explore and work on' we go at your pace. I walk alongside you. You are unique and you will be met without judgment and with respect for that which makes you unique...the key to successful therapeutic work is the relationship between the client and therapist.
My experience has included private client work and voluntary work (most recently with 'MIND'). Clients have brought a variety of presenting issues, including depression, bereavement, anxiety, relationship issues, sexual, physical and emotional abuse, stress, anger issues', redundancy, general 'not being able to cope' and feelings of sadness and despair. Clients often find that the issue they come to talk about, leads to others that they may not have dealt with in the past, or may have kept hidden. Sometimes a short period of a few weeks of counselling is sufficient, for others the therapy takes much longer.
We are all unique and see the world through our own eyes and from own personal experience; everyone deals with challenges in life differently. Often we think that "there are people far worse off than me...it's nothing really" and bury our pain and anxiety .....but those buried issues have a habit of coming back and biting us from a different angle - again and again.
That's where I come in, really. To help you find out exactly what's at the root of the issue, break it down and put it back together where you are able to see it, put it in it's proper place so it doesn't keep taking you by surprise - and then you can move on.....
Training, qualifications & experience
I have an Advanced Diploma in Humanistic Integrative Counselling (a BACP accredited qualification from CPPD Counselling School, N8), which covers a variety of counselling models, including psychodynamic, person centred, gestalt TA, CBT, and so on. I also have a Diploma in Person Centred Counselling from 'metanoia'.
My own counselling journey has been a long one and life has taken me along some different paths, however, I have always found that warmth, empathy and an ability to really hear what someone is saying has allowed me to become a person that people turn to. Apart from the professional skills that I possess, I have gained experience from the many challenges that life has thrown in my way and continue to be open to new ones.
As well as counselling, I have spent a number of years in Further Education, where I supported and empowered adults returning to education and worked with teenagers and young adults closely. I have also been trained to coach colleagues facing difficulties at work in the teaching profession.
As a qualified psychotherapist and lecturer, I contribute to the teaching at CPPD Counselling School,N8 and on Level 4 Therapeutic Counselling (CBACP) at Marriotts Counselling Academy, Herts. I am also a Weight Management Coach with 'Practically Slim', Enfield & Barnet.
- Advanced Diploma in Humanistic Integrative Counselling
- Diploma in Humanistic Integrative Counselling
- Diploma in Person Centred Counselling
- Working with Adolescents
- Time Limited Counselling
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy or 'CBT'
- Psychiatry, Psychopathology & Psychodynamics
BA (Hons) English Lit & Education studies (including Counselling in Education)
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Anger management
- Anorexia nervosa
- Attachment disorder
- Binge-eating disorder
- Bipolar disorder/Manic depression
- Body dysmorphic disorder
- Bulimia nervosa
- Carer support
- Chronic fatigue syndrome/ME
- Domestic violence
- Drug abuse
- Eating disorders
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Feeling sad
- Gender dysphoria
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Hearing voices
- Internet addiction
- Learning difficulties
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Panic disorder
- Passive aggressive behaviour
- Personality disorders
- Physical abuse
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Postnatal depression
- Pregnancy and birth
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal affective disorder (SAD)
- Separation and divorce
- Sex addiction
- Sexual abuse
- Suicidal thoughts
- Work-related stress
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from £45 per session in EN2
£55 in N8.
Some concession fees available.
Early appointments can also be made by arrangement and evening appointments are available.
Session are 50 minutes. your first session may be slightly longer.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
|Face to face counselling:||Yes|
Types of client