Rosemary Sandham BSc .BA. MA. MBACP(Accred.) UKRC Reg.
0208 621 1378 / 07880 706420
There are times when we may feel overwhelmed or find life difficult . Maybe trying to cope with stress, anxiety, depression, panic attacks or relationship issues. Sometimes we may want to get to know and understand ourselves more and explore how we really want to live our lives.
Having support from somebody on the outside can help you understand what’s going on and create new ways to think about yourself and your relationships with others.Discovering obstacles that may be holding you back, you can learn to make better choices, feel calmer and more optimistic about your life.
Helping You Now
You may feel you have tried everything and feel rather hopeless about making changes. I am very approachable and I can support help you explore your difficulties and find effective solutions that really work for you now.
How I work
I am a BACP (British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy) Accredited Person Centred Counsellor with more than 20 years experience helping many people make significant changes in their lives.I have worked effectively with people with various issues including relationship difficulties, managing change, bereavement, dealing with anger, panic attacks, depression, anxiety and alcohol problems.
Therapeutic approaches such as Person Centred Therapy, Mindfulness and Therapy including; Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction, Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy, Mindful Self Compassion along with the most recent science from the fields of neuroscience and interpersonal neurobiology inform both counselling and mindfulness. Mindfulness can really enhance counselling, providing a wonderful toolkit for you to use in between sessions.
Mindfulness helps us stay fully present in each moment rather than getting entangled in the past or the future. And so we are able to feel more in control, balanced and have more choice in how we react to daily demands.Mindfulness helps us live more joyful and meaningful lives.
Neuro-scientific research indicates that people who have a regular mindfulness practice are calmer, more relaxed, more focused, more productive, and happier than others.
What to expect
We can arrange to meet for an initial session to explore how we could work together. I would support you and work with you in a way that suits your needs. We will look at how you can find a way through problems so your life can be more satisfying and enjoyable.As you become more self aware, you can relate to yourself in a way that will really make a difference and offers the opportunity to change.
I offer a time limited, solution-focused approach for issues which may have occurred relatively recently in your life such as bereavement or relationship issues. I also provide psychotherapy for any problems that are more complex and long term including anxiety and depression.
Having worked in large organisations at senior level and ran various companies, I understand the challenges related to work and career and I can help you achieve a better work/ life balance in order to improve your well being. I also have considerable experience as a careers counsellor and coach.
I work from west London in private practice 5 minutes walk from Ealing Broadway Tube and Rail station.
If you would like to find out more about me please see my websites; www.sandiar.com
MINDFULNESS-BASED STRESS REDUCTION (MBSR)
MINDFULNESS-BASED COGNITIVE THERAPY (MBCT)
MINDFUL SELF COMPASSION (MSC)
I also teach mindfulness on a one to one basis either face to face or by Skype/telephone.
If you are unable to meet in person or attend a group course, because of,work, care or other commitments, or illness, I offer a Distance Learning course which enables you to learn Mindfulness in a way that is convenient for you.
The Distance Learning course follows a similar format to the 8-Week Group Mindfulness Course, but consists of 8 weekly individual sessions of one hour, by telephone or Skype, at a mutually convenient time.
Click on the link at the top of this page.
You can also ring me for a chat on 0208 621 1378 or 07880 706420
Training, qualifications & experience
Training, Qualifications & Experience
BSc in Reflective Therapeutic Practice (Hons) 2010
BA Sociology (Hons) (1982)
MA Film & TV Studies (1988)
Diploma in Person Centred Counselling Accredited BACP (1999)
Attachment Based Psychotherapy (2011-12)
Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy/Mindfulness Based Stress reduction (2013)
Mindfulness & Therapy (2009)
Mindfulness Based Approaches (2008)
Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy (2013)
Mindful Self Compassion (2014)
Diploma in Executive Coaching & Leadership Mentoring Level 7 Accredited by the ILM (Institute of Leadership & Management) ( 2006)
NLP Practitioner (2001)
I am an accredited member of the BACP (British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists) and adhere to its code of practice.
Accredited register membership
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Attachment disorder
- Carer support
- Child related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Panic disorder
- Passive aggressive behaviour
Other areas of counselling I deal with
Mindfulness Based Approaches; including Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) and Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) Mindful self Compassion (MSC)
Living with chronic illness
Individuals £65 per session
I offer a flexible range of sessions daytime and evenings and Saturdays
BENEFITS OF COUNSELLING
Increased self awareness and the ability to know what you want and how to get what you want.
Enhanced awareness of your feelings and the ability to act appropriately.
You will value yourself more and want to satisfy your needs rather than doing what others think you should be doing.
Your relationships may change; you may enjoy improved relationships or be able to end relationships that don't satisfy you.
"I have been reflecting that it is about a year since I stopped seeing you.I am well and happy and have, what I suspect, are entirely normal day-to-day thoughts. I am convinced that you have helped me to change the way that I think, see myself and approach the world. On that basis, I felt it was important that I convey my thanks again and let you know quite how important a job it is you have done for me"ST.
"I started seeing Rosemary to help with anxiety and obsessive thoughts that were dominating my life. I had tried counselling before but hadn't felt comfortable or that things were getting any easier and so eventually gave up. Rosemary was immediately different - I found her supportive, non judgmental and involved. We combined therapy with an eight week mindfulness course. The mindfulness has given me strategies to deal with my anxiety and to change my pattern of thinking while therapy helped me to get to the bottom of why I had developed my issues in the first place. We did 90 minute sessions so that there was time for both mindfulness and therapy and I found that starting the session with a mindfulness practice put me in the right frame of mind to talk openly about my difficulties. Ten months on and I feel a thousand times more confident, positive and in control of my thoughts. I couldn't recommend Rosemary more highly and feel entirely in her debt for helping me get this far" ST
"I Started seeing Rosemary in Jan 2014 for Some Issues I had with Anxiety and Depression. It was my second time seeing a Counsellor. I Didn't get on with my first experience of counselling and was a bit concerned that all counsellors where like that.However Within My first couple of sessions with Rosemary I knew that it was going to work as she really listened to what I had to say and what my issues were. Something that my previous counsellor hadn't done. She gave me great approaches to use including mindfulness,and offered me support when I needed it.
My Counselling came to a natural end in July 2014. And I left feeling a lot stronger emotionally and with a toolkit of coping Stratagies that I use in my daily life now.
I wouldn't hesitate to recommend Rosemary to anybody who Needed help dealing with Anxiety and Depression". KY
We train our bodies to become fit, flexible and healthy, however, we often ignore our minds which may lead to unhealthy or troubled minds.
Learning mindfulness enables you to develop a healthier mind, enabling you to become more focused, centered, calm and self aware.
Mindfulness is fitness training for the mind.
What is Mindfulness?
We often find that when we are stressed, depressed, anxious or suffering from pain or chronic illness, we tend act in a habitual manner, adopting ways of coping which may not help us and could actually exacerbate the problem. We may be continuously thinking of ways to resolve our problems or to distract ourselves by over eating, drinking too much or procrastinating. We may be judgmental, criticising ourselves in a way that is harsh and unkind. This can leave us feeling exhausted, debilitated, with our confidence and self esteem spiralling ever downwards.
When we become mindful, paying attention to the breath, the body, thoughts and feelings, we are able to fully be with our experience. This can help us notice when we are engaged in automatic negative thinking, being judgmental or entertaining our inner critic. We develop wisdom and the skillful means to relate more effectively to our difficulties in a way that is kind and compassionate. Accepting what we cannot change and letting go of resistance to what is actually happening.
This liberates us to start to really feel alive rather than living life on automatic pilot.
We are not striving to change anything but paradoxically by becoming present to all of our experience we often discover that life becomes more enjoyable. We are able to develop a more intimate relationship with ourselves and enjoy improved relationships with others. We also become more productive and happy.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf".
I can also include mindfulness as part of my counselling and coaching.
Mindfulness Therapy combines mindfulness with therapy. This approach uses mindfulness to enable you to become centered and fully focused so that you can then be more receptive to the therapy session that follows. It involves learning various mindfulness practices in the session which you can practice in between sessions.
I also use mindfulness when working with attachment issues as mindfulness can help people develop a secure internal base which enables healing of attachment wounds to take place.
To learn more about mindfulness and the comprehensive research that supports its effectiveness see:
I AM AN ACCREDITED AND REGISTERED MEMBER OF THE BACP
Maps & Directions
Type of session
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Daytime, evenings and weekends