Rose Buxton

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(previously Rose Whiteley) UKCP & COSRT Senior Accredited
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Bedford, Bedfordshire, MK40
Available for new clients
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This professional is available for new clients.

About me

I am a very experienced, accredited psychotherapist, couples counsellor and sex therapist working from Bedford town centre. Issues I work with include anxiety, panic, depression, anger, low self-esteem and many more. 

I have special expertise and training in couples therapy including communication problems, arguments and conflict, sexual difficulties of all kinds, affairs and sexual compulsivity. I also see couples who are considering separation or divorce, and want to work things out as amicably as possible for themselves and their children.

Most people refer themselves to me through Counselling Directory.  In addition I am often recommended by former clients and I also receive referrals from GP's/other health professionals.

In our first session I will take time to find out what specifically is bringing you into therapy, and what you are hoping to change, understand or feel differently about. I will go on to find out about your past so that I can look for any recurring patterns.  Often  things from the past still influence us in the present, even though we aren't aware of it!

Gender and sexual diversity clients are very welcome, as are those in open or polyamorous relationships.

Training, qualifications & experience

2003: Post-graduate Diploma in the Theory and Practice of Psychotherapy for Sexual Dysfunction

2001: Advanced Diploma in Humanistic-Integrative Counselling

I was a Principal Tutor on the Diploma in Humanistic-Integrative Counselling at CPPD Counselling School in North London for over 10 years.  I still Guest Tutor there.

In addition to over 20 years' private practice, I have also worked as a therapist at an inner city young people's agency, an NHS Sex Therapy Clinic and at a maximum-security prison.

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

Registered / Accredited

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UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP)

The UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) is a leading professional body for the education, training and regulation of psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors. Its register is accredited by the government's Professional Standards Authority.

As part of its commitment to protect the public, it works to improve access to psychotherapy, to support and disseminate research, to improve standards and to respond effectively to complaints against its members.

UKCP standards cover the range of different psychotherapies. Registration is obtained by training or accrediting with one of its member organisations, or by holding a European Certificate in Psychotherapy. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.

College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT)

COSRT is the UK’s leading membership organisation for therapists specialising in sexual and relationship issues.

All members must abide by their Code of Ethics and the performance of accredited members is regularly monitored.

Accredited register membership

UK Council for Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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UK Council for Psychotherapy

Other areas of counselling I deal with

These are some of the reasons people come to me for psychotherapy or counselling:

* Are you suffering from anxiety, panic attacks or depression?

* Do you have low confidence or self-esteem, or struggle with managing anger?

* Do you struggle to cope with things that happened to you in the past such as emotional, physical or sexual abuse?

* Are you in a rut, or unsure about what you want from life?

* Are you struggling to cope with bereavement or other painful loss?

These are some of the reasons people come to see me for relationship, couples or psychosexual therapy:

* Are you having difficulties around jealousy/trusting each other?

* Recovering from an affair?

* Are you constantly bickering or arguing?

* Are you finding you no longer seem to desire sex, even though you might sometimes "want to want" it?

* Do you have problems getting aroused? For men, this may mean problems getting or maintaining an erection; for women, a lack of physical enjoyment or lubrication.

* Do you find it difficult to reach orgasm?

* Do you ejaculate before you want to, leaving yourself and/or your partner dissatisfied?

* Do you find penetration painful or impossible?

* Are there issues from your past which are stopping you from being able to enjoy sex now, such as sexual trauma or negative childhood messages about sex?


£55.00 - £125.00

Health Insurance/EAP

  • Aviva
  • Axa Health
  • BUPA

Additional information

My fee for assessments and ongoing sessions is usually between £55 to £75 for individuals, and £75 to £125 for couples, depending on household income.  

My fees reflect the fact that I am trained (and train others) in both general and psychosexual therapy.  I have a high level of expertise with a wide range of issues, gained over more than 20 years' practice.  However, in these difficult financial times, feel free to contact me to discuss if you think you'll need a lower fee.

When I work

Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun

Weekdays, first thing to early evenings, and Saturday mornings.    Currently working via video only, but do ask if you are interested in seeing me but would prefer face to face.

Further information

You can read my blog here: Rose Whiteley's Blog

Bedford, Bedfordshire, MK40

Type of session

In person

Types of client

Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)
Employee Assistance Programme

Key details

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Working online only at the moment, but open to the possibility of face to face if you would prefer that

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Qualified supervisor offering supervision for both general psychotherapy/counselling and also couples / relationship / psychosexual work.

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Rose Buxton
Rose Buxton