Rachel Seymour

I’m Rachel, a sex and relationship therapist based in London. I am queer, kinky, and non-monogamous and my pronouns are she/they.

I work with people on all sorts of issues related to sex and relationships. A lot of these issues can be uncomfortable or difficult to talk about, and I strive to create an environment where people feel safe and able to open up and go on and grow and thrive from there.

I specialise in working with other people who, like myself, identify as a gender, sexuality or relationship diverse (GSRD) - basically anyone who sits outside of the ‘norm’ that society dictates. Whether you are kinky, polyamorous, a member of the LGBTQ+ community, or otherwise feel as though you don’t quite fit in, I’m here to help you.

My therapeutic style is very collaborative - I strongly believe that you know yourself far better than I ever could - and so I will pull from a variety of different therapeutic techniques to help you in the best way I can. 

Choosing a therapist and starting therapy can be overwhelming,  so please book a free chat with me so you can tell me a little about what’s going on for you, ask any questions you have, as well as make sure you’re comfortable and feel a good click with me.

Sex therapy:

• difficulties with erections (ED, erectile dysfunction)
• vaginismus (and GPPPD)                                     
• anxiety related to sex                                                   
• compulsive sexual behaviours (sex "addiction")     
• premature ejaculation
• delayed ejaculation
• difficulties having orgasms (anorgasmia)
• pain affecting sex (eg dyspareunia, vulvodynia)
• cybersex issues
• pornography issues (sometimes known as porn "addiction")
• body image and low self-esteem
• life transitions
• sexual aversion, and/or phobias related to sex
• sex and disability
• sexual health and illness and traumas affecting sex
• chemsex                                                                           
• low desire, low interest in sex                                     
• sexual identification​      
• gender dysphoria 
• questioning gender / sexuality                                                                                

Relationship therapy:

• affairs and betrayals, infidelity                                   
• relationship enhancement models
• relationship development                                             
• separation and divorce                                                 
• resolving conflict                                                           
• communication issues
• developing trust
• mismatched desire
• attachment issues
• lack of intimacy
• jealousy
• sexual dysfunction in relationships
• argumentative relationship styles
• challenges of power and control
• monogamous to non-monogamous lifestyle / opening up a relationship
• metamour issues / triangulation 
• polyamory struggles
• kink knowledgeable couples therapy

£100 for individuals, £120 for couples. I have a limited number of sliding scale spaces where clients pay what they can anything between 50-100% of my standard rate. These spaces fill up quickly but I do have a waitlist.