Maria Hartshorn

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Senior Accredited Psychotherapist

About me

Thanks for clicking in. I'm Maria - a neurodivergent (ASC and ADHD/AuDHD) affirming couples and individual therapist.

Resonance Counselling is a space where difficult or confusing experiences can begin to make sense, especially when you have spent a long time feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, or “different” without fully understanding why.

Many of the people I work with come to therapy carrying anxiety, chronic self-criticism, emotional exhaustion, or a sense of not quite fitting in. For some, this becomes clearer following a late ADHD or autism diagnosis, or through beginning to recognise patterns of masking, overwhelm, or relational stress that have been present for many years.

At the heart of my approach is the idea of resonance — the experience of feeling genuinely heard, understood, and emotionally met. I believe therapy is most helpful when you do not have to translate or minimise your experience, but instead can begin to explore it in a way that feels safe, steady, and meaningful.

I am an integrative psychotherapist, drawing from person-centred, psychodynamic, and cognitive behavioural approaches. This means we can work both with your present-day difficulties and the deeper patterns that may be shaping how you relate to yourself and others. I adapt how I work to each person, rather than applying a fixed model, with the therapeutic relationship at the centre of the process.

I have a particular interest in working with neurodivergent adults, including ADHD and autistic individuals, especially where diagnosis has come later in life or is still being explored. Many clients describe experiences of masking, feeling misunderstood in relationships or education, burnout, and long-standing self-doubt shaped by environments that did not fit their needs. My practice is neurodiversity-affirming, meaning I work with neurodivergence as a valid and meaningful difference, not something to be corrected.

Alongside this, I also work with trauma, grief, anxiety, low mood, relationship difficulties, and life transitions. I am particularly interested in how early relational experiences and repeated emotional patterns can continue to shape how we see ourselves, often outside of conscious awareness.

Therapy with me is not about being given advice or being told what to do. It is a collaborative process where we explore what has been difficult, make sense of patterns together, and create space for change that feels authentic and sustainable for you.

If this resonates with you, you are very welcome to get in touch to arrange an initial session or ask any questions before deciding whether therapy with me feels right for you.

Training, qualifications & experience

Experience

NHS secondary care

Complex mental health and psychological problems. I worked for the NHS in the psychological care team for 2 years.

Criminal Justice System 

25 years in the criminal justice sector (domestic abuse specialism; child protection, sexual abuse, family court systems - safeguarding and social services connection)

Relate 

Couples therapy including intimate and non-intimate relationships. Systemic and relationally trained. 4 years at Relate North and East London.

Other therapeutic roles include:

Helen Rollason Cancer Centre

Children & young people's counselling service (CYPCS)

Private Practice - 8 years

Safelives (domestic abuse)

Qualifications

Degrees

  • Doctorate Counselling Psychology & Psychotherapy by Professional Studies
  • Post Graduate Clinical Diploma Integrative Psychotherapy
  • MSc Psychology
  • MA Psychotherapy
  • BSc Criminology

Diplomas

  • 2 X Diploma Counselling & Psychotherapy
  • Relational & Systemic Diploma

Certifications

  • Couples Counselling Certificate
  • EMDR certificate
  • Autism and Mental Health Certificate 
  • Supervision certificate

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

Registered / Accredited

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UKCP
UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP)

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As part of its commitment to protect the public, it works to improve access to psychotherapy, to support and disseminate research, to improve standards and to respond effectively to complaints against its members.

UKCP standards cover the range of different psychotherapies. Registration is obtained by training or accrediting with one of its member organisations, or by holding a European Certificate in Psychotherapy. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.

BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

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Accredited register membership

UK Council for Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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UK Council for Psychotherapy

Areas of counselling I deal with

Therapies offered

Fees

£75.00 per session

Concessions offered for

  • Low income
  • OAPs
  • Students
  • Trainee counsellors

Health Insurance/EAP

  • Aviva
  • Axa Health
  • BUPA
  • Health Assured
  • Vitality
  • WPA

Additional information

Individual Session fee is £75 for 50-minutes

Couples/relationships are £90 per 60-minutes

I offer sessions online and/or in-person (if applicable), and work with adults seeking both short-term and longer-term therapy depending on your needs.

Availability is updated regularly, and I will always let you know if I have space or if there is a short waiting period.

I offer a brief introductory contact before booking, so you can get a sense of whether working together feels right for you without pressure or obligation.

  • Individual session (50 minutes) £75
  • Couples/Relationships (60 Minutes) £90
  • Introductory Session (15 Minutes) Free                                                  Concessions My ethos is that good therapeutic support is something that should be open to everyone. Whilst being a therapist is a career choice - it's also a role that allows me to choose people at a humanist level. On this basis, I give back. I recognise my privilege and extend an invitation to those needing mental health support to reach out to me, regardless of your individual situation. In other words - speak to me.  My concessionary fees are offered as standard where the following circumstances apply:
  • Low income
  • Student
  • Erratic income streams
  • Pensioners
  • Emergency Service Workers (Police, Fire, Ambulance)
  • Volunteers

15b Park Mews, Park Lane, Romford, Hornchurch, Essex, RM11 1BB

Type of session

In person
Online

Types of client

Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)
Couples
Families
Groups
Organisations
Employee Assistance Programme

Key details

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Ground floor premises with wheelchair access and parking on site in a location within distance to stations and transport links around Romford, Upminster, Hornchurch, Harold Wood, Essex. London Suffolk Surrey

Online platforms

Google Meet
Microsoft Teams
Zoom

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