Ashley Cootes

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MA, PGDip, MBACP (Accred)

About me

I offer a calm, steady space where you can slow down, feel understood, and explore what’s been weighing on you. My approach is relational and collaborative — we work together at a pace that feels safe, respectful, and attuned to your needs. People often come to me when they’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or carrying experiences that are hard to name. You don’t need the “right words” to begin.

I’m trained to Level 7 as an integrative psychotherapist, with experience in NHS Primary Care, university counselling services, and private practice. I draw from different therapeutic approaches depending on what supports you best, always within a warm, grounded relationship. I am well equipped to support people experiencing stress, anxiety, depression, low self-worth, bereavement, trauma, and more - we tend to be complex. 

How I work
Therapy with me is not about judgement or pressure. It’s about creating a space where you can make sense of your experiences, understand patterns that no longer serve you, and feel more connected to yourself. I pay close attention to safety, pacing, and what feels manageable, especially when working with trauma.

Some people come for short‑term support around a specific issue; others choose longer‑term therapy to explore deeper themes. Both are welcome.

What you can expect

  • A warm, secure therapeutic relationship
  • Space to explore difficult feelings without fear of being overwhelmed
  • A trauma‑informed approach that respects your pace
  • Support in understanding patterns, relationships, and emotional responses
  • A culturally aware, inclusive space
  • A therapist who listens to the whole of you — thoughts, feelings, body, history, and hopes

Training, qualifications & experience

Qualifications: MA, PGDip, MBACP (Accred)
I am trained to Level 7, and I work with adults across all life stages—from young people to older adults. My experience includes both short and long term therapy.

Professional Background:
Alongside private practice, I’ve worked as a counsellor for university students and in NHS primary care services. I’ve supported individuals facing a range of challenges, including depression, anxiety, stress, PTSD and CPTSD, complex bereavement, poor self-identify/image, addictions, eating disorders, relationship difficulties, and neurodiversity.

Special Interests:
While I work with diverse issues and clients, I have a particular interest in trauma, intergenerational trauma and recovery, addiction, and parenting.

Additional Experience:
Beyond formal qualifications, I’ve devoted many years to volunteering as a mentor and group facilitator, supporting individuals in their personal journeys. My background in the arts, higher education and student support enriches my perspective, and I’ve practiced mindfulness and meditation for many years.

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

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BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

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Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Areas of counselling I deal with

Therapies offered

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Fees

£65.00 - £70.00

Concessions offered for

  • Low income
  • Keyworkers
  • OAPs
  • Students
  • Trainee counsellors
  • Unemployed
  • Refugees

Health Insurance/EAP

  • Vitality

Additional information

Concessionary fee sessions available, please contact for details. 

When I work

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Early morning
Morning
Early afternoon
Late afternoon
Evening

I run a busy practice with working hours daytime Monday to Friday. Currently, I have availability for new clients daytime on Mondays face-to-face in Harold Wood and daytime Tuesdays online.

Harold Wood, Romford, Greater London, RM3

Type of session

In person
Online
Phone

Types of client

Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)

Key details

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My usual counselling rooms are accessible via a staircase, so please tell me if you require step-free access and I will arrange for an accessible room.

Online platforms

Google Meet
Whatsapp