10 tips for online counselling and therapy
Written by listed counsellor/psychotherapist: Andrew Harvey Counsellor & Therapist, In Nottingham
12th September, 20160 Comments
Here are ten top tips for using Skype or other related online therapy platforms:
1) Close other internet using programs
You may not be using them, but they will be using some of your available internet resources which can cause the connection to be problematic. For example, browsers, other online communication tools and cloud backup can slow your system down. Other devices connected to your internet will also slow things down.
2) Get the lighting right!
You need to be seen and by having good lighting this can make all the difference.
Put the do not disturb sign on the door, put your mobile out of reach and on silent, switch off anything that alerts you to messages on your screen. This is your time, you need to remove the possibility of distraction… including the cat!
4) What’s the picture like?
You should be at least head and shoulders in the picture, and sitting comfortably...think passport photo.
5) It’s often a good idea to wear headphones
Headphones can reduce echo and enables an extra level of confidentiality for you. Having the headphones on, I feel, can really bring you into the session.
6) Can you be overheard?
Because if you can, or even wonder if you can be, that won’t work. You need to know that your session is confidential.
7) Have a backup!
If all else fails (technically) you and your therapist should have a plan. The one I have with clients is I will call them on their landline or mobile.
8) Research and know the level of confidentiality offered by the technology you are using
Make sure you are happy with it. Google will help you find this information and the technology provider’s privacy statement.
9) Take a break
When people come to face-to-face therapy they often have a bit of time to process the session, this can be the journey home or to work, when they do their session online at home or work, they often go straight back into their day. Try and have a bit of a break between your session and being pulled back into your day.
10) Share your concerns
If you are concerned about any aspect of your therapy, including the medium you are using, talk with your therapist...share your concerns.
About the author
Andrew is a therapist and counsellor working in private practice. He works Worldwide via Skype of face to face with clients in Nottingham. He is a full member of the BACP and has worked for The Priory Group and other leading therapy providers. For more details please see his profile here on this directory or take a look at his website.
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