Vaginismus is a diagnosis usually given to heterosexual women whose vaginas go into an involuntary spasm causing the vagina to close so tightly that intercourse becomes impossible or extremely painful. It is easily reversible depending on the...
In this piece I am specifically writing about men and the sexual changes that occur with age. This includes organic and non-organic factors alongside treatment options. There is a normal change in men when they age and often this is not something...
As most of us know, psychoactive substances are believed to be aphrodisiacs, but in reality they have damaging effects on all aspects of sexual function. The interrelationship of alcohol use and sexual activity is well established, but in reality it...
Today, I'm talking SEX. When working with couples, sex should and will come up. In fact it should be talked about explicitly. We don't necessarily want to know blow by blow (excuse the pun) but we do want to know:
Are you having it? Do you...
In current times it can be very challenging for people to find the time for intimacy. Just as couples might head for bed they will check their phone or iPad looking at emails and social media sites. So distracted by news from friends or demands from...
What does it mean to be ‘kink aware’? There are many kink aware professionals, from lawyers to doctors and of course therapists. The term ‘kink’ refers to diverse sexual preferences, alongside lifestyles sometimes described...
As humans, we all need water, food, shelter, identity, self-actualisation, self-esteem and love. These items may seen pretty basic to existing as a human being, but without them, everyday life can be very difficult. These elements help us to manage...
So when and where do we learn to have good sex? A sexual relationship that lasts beyond the initial passionate lust of the early days. Perhaps all our relationships throughout our lives play their part in the development of our ability to be a...
Recently, I was kindly asked to speak at Hull and East Riding diabetes network meeting on the effects of diabetes on sexual functioning and relationships. On arrival in the foyer, I got myself a coffee and had a look at some of the...
It is true that not everybody who watches porn is indulging in problem behaviour. If your use of porn is not causing you any harm and not adversely affecting other parts of your life, then it could potentially be viewed as a lifestyle choice and,...
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