Erotic transference and counter-transference

Erotic transference is a term used to describe the feelings of love and the fantasies of a sexual or sensual nature that a client experiences towards their therapist. Erotic countertransference is about the therapist’s feelings towards their client. The therapeutic experience is designed to bring up issues around love, belonging and relationship. The resultant emotions can be confusing and destabilising. It is hardly surprising that both clients and therapists can at times struggle to make sense of their feelings. As therapists, it is our responsibility to hold the difficulty and uncertainty of the client as they explore this unfamiliar territory.

This workshop will:

• Define types of erotic transference and counter-transference.
• Explore typical use and purpose of fantasy.
• Consider ways to spot erotic horror and erotic pleasure in the therapy room.
• Consider the dangers and excitement of paying attention to the erotic.
• Help you develop an ability to speak about the erotic immaterial between you and clients in supervision using an integrative model.