Sarah Lighten

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About me

Short term and open ended counselling available. 

You might be looking for counselling because you’re asking yourself these questions:

  • Why does everything feel harder for me than it seems for other people?
  • Why am I exhausted all the time, even when I’m not doing that much?
  • Why do small tasks feel so big?
  • Why can’t I stop replaying conversations in my head?
  • Why do I feel socially anxious even with people I like?
  • Why do I overanalyse everything I say?
  • Why do I feel “too much” or “not enough” at the same time?

You may be experiencing:

  • Cycles of burnout and recovery
  • Constant overwhelm and overthinking
  • Anxiety that never fully settles
  • Low mood or depression or cycles of PMDD
  • Difficulty with focus, organisation or emotional regulation
  • A deep sense of being different
  • struggles with addictive behaviour

My practice is increasingly focused on supporting clients who identify as neurodivergent, whether formally diagnosed or self-identifying and those who care for children who are diagnosed. I recognise that many people live with traits of ADHD, autism, dyslexia, or other forms of neurodivergence—sometimes without a clear label—and that this can shape how they experience the world, relationships, and themselves.

I’m interested in this and how these intersect with experiences of anxiety, depression, enmeshment, school, trauma, abuse, or family difficulties/relationship with parents.

I offer a space where difference is valued rather than pathologised. Together, we can explore both the challenges and strengths that come with a neurodivergent profile. My approach is collaborative and tailored, helping you to make sense of your story, feel understood, and find ways of moving forward that honour who you are.

  • Free 15 minute phone call
  • £50 50 minute weekly ongoing sessions. This helps to create a sense of consistency, predictability and certainty which can feel soothing when life is hard. 

The way I work can help with a wide range of things, but particular interest areas/experience are as follows: 

  • Generalised Anxiety Disorder and feelings of anxiety.
  • Depression
  • Neurodiversity – diagnosed ADHD, Autism, Sensory Processing Disorder, OCD or awaiting for or thinking about diagnosis
  • Womens health and links with neurodivergence
  • Parent/and adult child relationships – challenging relationships with parent or adult child
  • Estrangement, enmeshment
  • Young adult (18-25)
  • Parents facing challenges with their young children – this may be behavioural, special educational needs or additional needs/disabilities and the impact this can have on the parent/carer and wider family.

Training, qualifications & experience

I’m a Registered Member of the BACP with a Diploma in Psychodynamic Psychotherapeutic Counselling and a Certificate in Adult ADHD+ with Dr Kustow. 

Particular interest areas from personal experience, additional training or previous volunteering:

Anxiety and or Depression 

Parent/and adult child relationships – challenging relationships with parent or adult child. Estrangement, enmeshment.

Young adult (18-25)

Perinatal period – thinking about starting a family /planning a family /IVF/postnatal (postnatal depression) and ongoing parenting.

Parents facing challenges with their young children – this may be behavioural, special educational needs or additional needs/disabilities and the impact this can have on the parent/carer and wider family.

Neurodiversity – diagnosed ADHD, Autism, Sensory Processing Disorder, OCD or awaiting for or thinking about diagnosiS

Member organisations

BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

BACP is one of the UK’s leading professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy with around 60,000 members. The Association has several different categories of membership, including Student Member, Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP, Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Accred) and Senior Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Snr Acccred). Registered and accredited members are listed on the BACP Register, which shows that they have demonstrated BACP’s recommended standards for training, proficiency and ethical practice. The BACP Register was the first register of psychological therapists to be accredited by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA). Accredited and senior accredited membership are voluntary categories for members who choose to undertake a rigorous application and assessment process to demonstrate additional standards around practice, training and supervision. Individual members will have completed an appropriate counselling or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but they won’t appear on the BACP Register until they've demonstrated that they meet the standards for registration. Student members are still in the process of completing their training. All members are bound by the BACP Ethical Framework and a Professional Conduct Procedure.

Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Areas of counselling I deal with

Other areas of counselling I deal with

The way I work means I can help with a number of challenges. This list is not exhaustive nor specialist so please always reach out so I can get a better understanding if your needs. 

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Fees

£50.00 per session

Additional information

My slots for low fee clients are full. 

When I work

Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun
Early morning
Morning
Early afternoon
Late afternoon
Evening

I have availability for a hybrid client who can do online and once a month at The Pavilion in Chichester on Wednesday either 10am or 2pm. 

Further information

I work online and in person.

Type of session

In person
Online

Types of client

Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)

Key details

There are around 6 shallow steps up to the property. Parking is available directly outside or close by. Online sessions available to those unable to leave their home.

Online platforms

Microsoft Teams
FaceTime
Whatsapp

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