Neil Coburn

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MBACP (Accred); MA Couple and Individual Psychotherapy (TR)

About me

I am a psychotherapist and counsellor working in central Esher and online.  I work with both couples and individuals with a special focus on relationship challenges.  

As well as a post graduate diploma in counselling and therapy, I am qualified to an MA level at arguably the UK's leading training institution for relationship and couples  therapy.

As well as couples, I also work with individuals who are facing relationship difficulties, such as finding and/or keeping a partner,  a dilemma in an existing relationship, when one partner is not ready to attend couples session; or more general challenges about managing their daily lives.

I work with couples on their relationship difficulties, whether it's arguments or other conflicts, a loss of a loving connection, parenting concerns, or if there's been an affair.   Sometimes I work with couples at the end of a relationship on matters such as co-parenting and communication.

My aim is always to help my clients to have better conversations, with each other and also with themselves as individuals, in order to see if they can find a fresh start. 

I am a fully accredited member of the BACP and have been for eight years. I work from my own consulting room in the heart of Esher. This allows a degree of flexibility as to when I see clients for their weekly sessions. I also work online if face-to-face isn't a practical option. Home visiting sessions may be available (however my travel time is charged for as well as the session time).

Training, qualifications & experience

After a long and successful career in marketing and business leadership, I decided to change direction.  I  trained first to PG Dip and then to MA level at one of the world's foremost centres for couple relationships. I work with individuals and couples both long and short term, depending on what they want to get out of therapy and how longstanding the issues are. I am fully Registered and Accredited with the BACP, and have eight years post-qualification experience in private practice and previously in institutions.

My commercial background can help me recognise the demands that busy Surrey couples, families and individuals face in their daily lives, which can make many relationship challenges feel harder.

As a male psychotherapist with a particular specialism on relationships, I sometimes work with men on what it means for them to be a man in the 21st century, and with women who wish to understand their relationship challenges with a male perspective.  I also have experience working with a number of same-sex couples, and couples and individuals from different heritages and how traditional family cultures can conflict with more contemporary values.

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

Registered / Accredited

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BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

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Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Areas of counselling I deal with

Therapies offered

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Fees

£80.00 - £140.00

Concessions offered for

  • Low income

Health Insurance/EAP

  • Aviva
  • Axa Health
  • Cigna
  • Vitality
  • WPA

Additional information

My standard fees are £130 for couples, £90 for individuals.  However for those with limited means I can offer negotiated reductions depending on specific circumstances.

Grapes House, 79a High Street, Esher, Surrey, KT10 9QA

Type of session

In person
Online
Home visits

Types of client

Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)
Couples

Key details

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My main consulting room is not wheelchair accessible. However I may be able to offer sessions in a nearby alternative location with accessibility.

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