Mary Cade

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DipHe. Humanistic Counsellor. MBACP

About me

Often, the struggles that bring people to therapy, such as anxiety, low mood, grief, relationship difficulties, anger, guilt, addiction, questions around identity, and the impact of childhood experiences, sit alongside deeper questions around self: who am I? What do I actually want? Why do I feel disconnected?

Central to my work is an interest in identity and authenticity - how we adapt in order to survive, belong, or care for others, and how parts of us can become hidden or silenced over time.

I believe meaningful change happens when you feel safe, seen and accepted. From that place, we can begin to understand what lies beneath the surface and gently reconnect with the parts of you that may have been pushed aside.

How I Work

My approach is person-centred and relational. I don’t impose a fixed treatment plan; instead, I work alongside you from your unique starting point. I’m curious about your experience of life.

Together, we might explore the beliefs you hold about yourself, patterns in relationships, attachment dynamics and early experiences, the ways you’ve learned to cope, and the patterns that may no longer serve you.

Alongside careful exploration, I offer gentle psychological insight where helpful.  We may also work more experientially - paying attention to what you’re feeling in the moment, noticing bodily sensations, or using simple exercises to connect with parts of yourself that feel stuck or conflicted.

Over time, therapy can help you:

Feel more grounded and self-assured
Recognise and shift unhelpful patterns
Reconnect with your needs, feelings and values
Develop a kinder, more accepting relationship with yourself

As a mother of three, I have a lived understanding of how identity shifts across life stages and how easily we can set parts of ourselves aside while caring for others. This perspective quietly informs my work, particularly with those navigating transitions, parenthood, or changing roles.

Alongside my private practice, I work within the NHS and a Brighton-based charitable organisation.

I offer sessions in person from my home on the border of Brighton and Hove, online, and in some cases outdoors through Nature-Based counselling.

Next Steps

If you’d like to explore how therapy could help, I offer a free 20-minute phone or online consultation so we can see if working together feels right for you.

You can get in touch through my website or click the contact button on this page. 

Training, qualifications & experience

Diploma in Higher Education in Humanistic Counselling

Diploma in Counselling Skills 

Certificate in Counselling Skills

I have experience working within the NHS, counselling for anxiety and depression

I also have experience working for Samaritans, helping people in acute distress. 

Member organisations

BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

BACP is one of the UK’s leading professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy with around 60,000 members. The Association has several different categories of membership, including Student Member, Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP, Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Accred) and Senior Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Snr Acccred). Registered and accredited members are listed on the BACP Register, which shows that they have demonstrated BACP’s recommended standards for training, proficiency and ethical practice. The BACP Register was the first register of psychological therapists to be accredited by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA). Accredited and senior accredited membership are voluntary categories for members who choose to undertake a rigorous application and assessment process to demonstrate additional standards around practice, training and supervision. Individual members will have completed an appropriate counselling or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but they won’t appear on the BACP Register until they've demonstrated that they meet the standards for registration. Student members are still in the process of completing their training. All members are bound by the BACP Ethical Framework and a Professional Conduct Procedure.

Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Areas of counselling I deal with

Therapies offered

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Fees

£60.00 per session

Concessions offered for

  • Low income
  • Keyworkers
  • OAPs
  • Students
  • Unemployed
  • Refugees

Additional information

I offer a free, no-obligation phone or video call. This gives us a chance to:
Talk about what you're looking for
See if I’m the right fit for you
Ask any questions
Explore possible next steps
If it turns out I’m not the right person for you, I’ll do my best to point you in the right direction.

When I work

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Early morning
Morning
Early afternoon
Late afternoon
Evening

Further information

I have experience in counselling within the NHS and as a listening volunteer for Samaritans.

15 York Road, Hove, East Sussex, BN3 1DJ

Brighton, East Sussex, BN1

Type of session

In person
Online
Phone

Types of client

Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)

Key details

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Unfortunately, my practice is not wheelchair accessible due to stairs. I also have a cat, which may be an issue for those with allergies.

Online platforms

FaceTime
Microsoft Teams
Zoom
Whatsapp