About me
You know something in your relationship needs to change – but you're not sure where to start.
Maybe you've tried talking about it, only to end up having the same conversation again. You find yourself thinking about your relationship over and over, trying to work out what's going wrong or why you keep getting caught in the same patterns.
Or maybe you're the one thinking about the relationship, reading about it and trying to make things better—while your partner seems much less concerned.
Perhaps some of this feels familiar:
“I'm tired of being the only one trying.”
“I've tried talking about it so many times.”
“My partner doesn't think there's a problem.”
“But I still love them. So what can I do?”
You don't have to wait for your partner before you begin.
I'm Bella, a relationship counsellor and coach. I help people understand what's happening in their relationships, work out what they can influence, and begin making practical changes—including when their partner isn't ready to join them.
My approach is warm, practical, and forward-looking. We'll make space for what's difficult without spending all our time analysing what's gone wrong. We'll also look at what you'd love to be different and what might help you begin moving towards it.
“After working with Bella, I feel like I have my life back. I've never felt this peaceful within myself or my relationships.”
Not sure where to start? Begin with a Relationship Roadmap—£48
You don't need to commit to months of counselling to find out what is happening in your relationship.
We'll start with one focused 50-minute session.
Together we'll explore:
- what's happening in your relationship
- what you'd most like to be different
- what you can—and can't—influence
- where it makes sense to start
After our conversation, I'll create your personalised Relationship Roadmap – a clear, visual summary of what we've discovered, what you'd like to move towards, and a practical next step to try.
I'll also choose two resources specifically for you, based on what we've explored together. These might be an exercise, article, video, podcast, or something else that helps you engage with the pattern and do something differently.
There is no obligation to continue afterwards.
If you'd like some help putting your Roadmap into practice, we can start by working together for one month.
We'll meet twice, try small personalised experiments between sessions, and have a short written check-in so we can notice what's happening in real life and adjust as we go.
You'll also receive hand-picked resources to support your growth, chosen around what we're working on together and how you learn best.
“Bella has given me the tools to understand and to help me navigate my own thoughts when things get tough. Through this, it has also made a difference to my husband, and the way in which we communicate with each other has improved greatly.”
One month – £198.
After that, you decide what you need next. You might feel ready to continue on your own or choose to work together for longer.
The aim isn't to keep you indefinitely. It's to help you understand what's happening, experience meaningful change, and become increasingly confident navigating your relationship yourself.
Ready for your next step?
Book a Relationship Roadmap – £48.
One focused 50-minute conversation, your personalised Roadmap afterwards and two resources chosen specifically for you.
You don't need to have everything figured out before you begin.
Training, qualifications & experience
- Diploma in integrative counselling
- Clinical Foundations in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1 and Level 2)
- Treating Trauma and Affairs
- Group Leader Training (Seven Principles)
- 7 years+ of experience
Member organisations
The Association of Christians in Counselling and Linked Professions (ACC) is a Christian professional membership organisation for those involved in counselling/psychotherapy and linked professions, i.e. pastoral care, coaching and spiritual direction, in the UK. The organisation is made up of various different membership categories, including Counsellor and Accredited, and requires all members working as counsellors to undertake Continuous Professional Development on a regular basis.
Accredited register membership
The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).
This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.
Areas of counselling I deal with
Other areas of counselling I deal with
- Couples Counselling
Therapies offered
Fees
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Additional information
I offer an initial clarity session at 48 GBP.
After that the Love Catalyst costs 598 for a 3-month journey.
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