About me
You care deeply about your relationship, and you’re ready for something to change.
I’m Bella, a relationship counsellor and coach. I work with people who find themselves overthinking their relationship, feeling disconnected, getting caught in the same patterns, or longing to feel more secure and at ease in a relationship that matters deeply to them.
Often, the people who come to me are ready to work on things, while their partner isn’t.
You don’t have to wait for your partner before you begin.
My approach is practical, warm, and forward-looking. We’ll explore what’s happening while focusing on where you want to be, what you can influence, and what could begin to make a meaningful difference.
Love Catalyst – a journey designed around you
Love Catalyst is a personalised three-month journey designed around what you want to be different in your relationship.
There isn’t one standard programme that everyone follows.
We begin with an initial 50-minute session to understand what’s happening, what you would like to be different, and where change may be possible.
After that session, I’ll create a personalised three-month journey around what you want to change, what we’ve discovered together, and where I believe our work could make the greatest difference.
You can then decide whether you’d like to take that journey with me.
The initial session is £48, with no obligation to continue.
What happens during Love Catalyst?
Love Catalyst includes six 50-minute sessions, usually every two weeks, with small personalised experiments between sessions.
Explore → Try something different → Notice what happens → Adjust → Build on what works
Depending on what you bring, we might focus on recurring patterns, feeling more secure, communicating differently, reconnecting, responding differently to conflict, or finding practical ways forward when you feel stuck.
Together, we’ll explore your Love Blueprint, looking at patterns around connection, distance, and protection in your particular relationship.
Between sessions, you’ll try small changes in everyday life. We’ll use what you notice to shape what we explore or try next.
You’ll also have access to our Connection Toolkit, a curated collection of practical relationship resources, with personalised recommendations along the way.
The aim isn’t simply to understand your relationship better. It’s to begin experiencing something different within it and discover what genuinely helps you.
My approach
My work is primarily solution-focused and centred around the changes you want to create.
Where helpful, I also draw on attachment theory, Gottman relationship research and other evidence-informed relationship approaches. We can explore difficult experiences when they matter while continuing to look towards where you want to go from here.
If your partner isn’t ready
You can still begin.
We will explore what happens when things become difficult and what you can influence from your side. When one person begins responding differently to familiar patterns, the interaction between two people often begins to change too.
If you’re both ready
If you both want to work on your relationship, we usually recommend coming together.
We also offer 2:2 couples work with two practitioners – my husband, Roman, a life coach, and me – giving both partners space to be heard and actively involved in creating the relationship you want.
What clients have said about working with me
“My relationship with my partner has never been better.”
“After working with Bella, I feel like I have my life back. I’ve never felt this peaceful within myself or my relationships.”
“Bella’s ability to listen without judgement, combined with the practical tools and strategies she offered, helped me make meaningful changes in both my relationship and family life.”
Your first step
You don’t have to decide now whether you want to commit to three months.
Start with one 50-minute session for £48.
We’ll explore where you are, what you want to be different, and where change is possible.
If Love Catalyst feels like a good fit, I’ll create your personalised three-month journey, showing the areas I suggest we focus on and how our work could unfold.
You can then decide whether you want to continue. There is no obligation to do so.
Investment
Love Catalyst – £598 for the complete three-month journey.
Pay in full or across three monthly payments.
A limited number of supported-fee places are available.
Ready to take the first step?
Book your initial 50-minute session – £48.
Not ready for counselling yet?
Discover your Love Blueprint—the relationship patterns that can influence how you seek connection, respond to distance, and protect yourself when things feel difficult.
Take the free Love Blueprint Quiz → https://tally.so/r/lb1x2k
Training, qualifications & experience
- Diploma in integrative counselling
- Clinical Foundations in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 1 and Level 2)
- Treating Trauma and Affairs
- Group Leader Training (Seven Principles)
- 5years+ of experience
Member organisations
The Association of Christians in Counselling and Linked Professions (ACC) is a Christian professional membership organisation for those involved in counselling/psychotherapy and linked professions, i.e. pastoral care, coaching and spiritual direction, in the UK. The organisation is made up of various different membership categories, including Counsellor and Accredited, and requires all members working as counsellors to undertake Continuous Professional Development on a regular basis.
Accredited register membership
The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).
This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.
Areas of counselling I deal with
Other areas of counselling I deal with
- Couples Counselling
Therapies offered
Fees
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Additional information
I offer an initial clarity session at 48 GBP.
After that the Love Catalyst costs 598 for a 3-month journey.
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