About us
I’m Ester, a kink-affirmative Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist. By the time people seek sex therapy, they’ve often tried everything they knew on their own. When addressing sexual difficulties, I often guide my clients to explore the question, “What does my body need that it’s not getting?”. Sex therapy gives us space to make sense of your experience, work through the specific issues you’re facing, and reconnect you with your needs so sex can feel satisfying and confident again.
What are the effects of sex therapy?
At the end of the therapy journeys, clients often describe to me 3 common themes:
- Improvements in their sexual function - such as increased desire, stronger or more reliable erections, enhanced orgasms, or reduced sexual pain.
- Increased understanding - of what contributed to the sexual issue, their needs, relationship patterns, and helpful strategies.
- Sexual empowerment - feeling more confident in knowing own sexual desires, feeling more able to communicate needs and boundaries.
Sexual issues sex therapy can help with:
I work with a range of sexual and relationship issues, some of those that I specialise in are:
- sexual desire and confidence
- erectile dysfunction
- impact of trauma on sex
- vaginismus and sexual pain
- relationship issues
- orgasms and ejaculation (premature or delayed)
- relationship styles, sexuality, and gender expression
- compulsive sexual behaviours
My approach:
I would describe my approach as two-fold:
- Mind-body approach - focussed on exploration and understanding of the issue and self
- Practical, experiential approach - consisted of practical exercises focussed on the specific sexual issues
In my work, I utilise a range of therapeutic techniques including mindfulness, embodiment, and creativity. We will hold your sense of safety at the centre of our work and focus on co-creating a process that feels right for you. For some clients, words feel difficult so we can invite work with images, poetry, metaphors, or dreams. I see this work as tender and not easy, but rewarding and empowering.
My therapeutic style is rooted in sex and body positivity, recognising the uniqueness of each person’s sexual needs, desires, and expression. I believe that sex and intimacy, when nurtured and attended to, can provide us with a unique space for self-expression, play, empowerment, creativity, and connection.
Who I work with:
I work with individuals, couples, and multiple partners in non-monogamous relationships.
My background:
I have a background in Psychology and Counselling with my undergraduate degree from the University of Derby. I trained as a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist at the University of Lancashire with the completion of my postgraduate diploma in Psychosexual Therapy. I’m registered with the Colleague of Sex and Relationship Therapists (COSRT), ensuring I meet high standards of practice and codes of conduct. I’m deeply passionate about the work I do, and feel honoured to support people willing to touch the vulnerable parts of themselves in order to create the sexual life they wish for.
Free 20-minute consultation:
If this approach resonates, I invite new clients to book a free 20-minute video consultation where we get the chance to meet, discuss your specific situation, and answer any questions. To book our free consultation, please visit my website at https://www.esterbellissimotherapy.co.uk/
Training, qualifications & experience
Pg Dip in Psychosexual therapy, University of Central Lancashire
BSc (Hons) in Psychology with Counselling and Psychotherapy Principles and Practices
Level 2 Certificate in Counselling Studies, Manchester Counselling Training Centre Ltd
Mental Health First Aider, MHFA England
Member organisations *
COSRT is the UK’s leading membership organisation for therapists specialising in sexual and relationship issues.
All members must abide by their Code of Ethics and the performance of accredited members is regularly monitored.
Areas of counselling we deal with
Therapies offered
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Fees
£100.00 per session
Additional information
Book our first 20-minute consultation for free:
I invite new clients to book a free 20-minute video consultation where we get the chance to meet, introduce each other, and answer any questions. To book our free consultation, please visit my website at https://www.esterbellissimotherapy.co.uk/
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Further information
My services:
- Individual Therapy - £100
- Individual therapy is suited for those seeking psychosexual therapy as an individual. All sessions take place online via Zoom and are 50 minutes long.
- Relationship/Couples Therapy - £100
- Relationship therapy is ideal for couples or other constellations wishing to attend therapy together. All sessions take place online via Zoom and are 50 minutes long.
