Devang Vaidya - MBACP (Accred.), UKCP (Regd.)
Hello and welcome
I am an experienced and accredited counsellor and psychotherapist, and I offer one-to-one sessions on an ongoing or a time-limited basis. I practice counselling in Highbury & Islington (North London, N5), situated in a safe and easily accessible residential area, with a quiet, comfortable space for us to work through any issues you might be facing. I work with individuals and with couples.
All of us, at some point in our lives, can find ourselves thrown into difficult situations which seem to have no end in sight. Be it at home, at work or in our social lives, we can go through a period of struggle that affects our moods and attitudes, self-confidence and self-esteem. At times like these, routine activities and social relations can feel disappointing or meaningless. Or we can feel that something is terribly wrong but we can’t put our finger on why life seems to be slipping us by. At such times, I think it is quite usual to feel anxious, depressed or stressed, and to want to seek help in moving through these difficulties.
Counselling can help by providing a secure and trustworthy place where you can talk honestly about yourself without fear of judgement, freely express your feelings without holding back, and be deeply understood by someone who is mature, competent, experienced, genuine and impartial - someone who will not merely agree or disagree with you because of their own prejudices or vested interests. Quite often this is difficult to ask of, or even expect from, partners, family members and friends.
What is Counselling
I regard counselling, or therapy, to be a gentle yet powerful process for people who want to move forward, grow, and become more able to meet the challenges and opportunities in life. Counselling primarily involves you talking and the counsellor listening. It is, however, an active dialogue in which both participate. During the counselling process, it is quite common to begin to see a new angle to an existing problem, to get in touch with an unexpected feeling, or to gain a new insight into an old situation. This might lead you to recognise links to the past or even the future, pointing you towards your next possible step in life. An open and non-judgemental exploration between us can lead to a deeper self-understanding which can increase your capacity to live life more fully by prompting your natural talents, vital strengths and inner resources to emerge, helping you to face life with meaning, purpose, energy, and courage. Deeper and lasting changes then become possible through discovering new, authentic, 'original', ways of being with one's self, in relationships, and in the world.
How I work
An open, attentive and accepting attitude underlines how I facilitate the process between us. It involves my listening deeply, having a genuinely respectful dialogue, with empathy, without judgement. I see my work as building with you a deeper understanding of your situation, how you are affected by it, and how you might overcome the difficulties within it. This, for me, is a creative process, full of openness, patience, sensitivity, and concern. Whilst I think that a sense of urgency, clarity and focus are essential in this work, it is not closed off to other qualities such as curiosity, experimentation, playfulness, and humour. I believe it is critical that we work at a pace that you set, and that we work together every step of the way.
Although I am an experienced practitioner in this field, I do not regard myself as 'the expert' on my clients' problems. Instead, I have found that working together leads to a more useful way of understanding any situation, and this allows you to guide and set the direction for your process.
What you might expect from counselling
Positive outcomes I see people achieve by engaging in this work, include:
- overcoming the effects of depression, anxiety and stress
- re-building openness, trust, and respect in relationships
- making effective and responsible decisions
- taking practical steps for building genuine self-esteem
- gaining a sense of moving forward in life
- living authentically
- learning to generate new options in everyday situations
- healing painful experiences
- working through unresolved feelings of anger, grief, loss etc.
- growing a capacity to feel, think and act, rationally, creatively, and passionately
- acquiring a clearer sense of self with worth, purpose and vitality
- living with enjoyment and pleasure in daily life
What to do next
Having been in long-term counselling and psychotherapy myself, I understand how important it is to find a counsellor you can trust and feel safe enough to work with. Therefore, if you would like to find out more about me or my practice, you might want to take up my offer of a free 30-minute consultation, either on the phone or in person. Please ring (07889 768120) or email me to book an initial no-obligation appointment.
Training, qualifications & experience
I have trained extensively as a Counsellor and Psychotherapist, with a Person-Centred, Existential and a Body orientation. This includes:
- Four-year post-graduate study in Person-Centred Psychotherapy at Metanoia Institute in London.
- Four-year training in Reichian Body Psychotherapy (Diploma in Deep Bodywork & Postural Integration) at Entelia Institute and ICRI in London.
- One year training in Somatic Trauma therapy with Babette Rothschild.
- Practitioner-level training in various body-centred approaches.
In addition to private practice, I have worked within the NHS, community care, and settings tailored for people with mental health and learning difficulties.
- I teach and run clinical seminars on psychotherapy training programs.
- I supervise other practitioners.
- I am an accredited member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and a registered member of the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) and work within their ethical framework.
- I am also a member of the World Association for the Person-Centred Approach (WAPCEPC), and the Society of Existential Analysis.
- My practice is supervised by qualified and experienced psychotherapists.
- I am continually involved in my own personal and professional development.
Accredited register membership
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Anger management
- Child related issues
- Childhood bereavement
- Family issues
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Passive aggressive behaviour
- Personality disorders
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
- Pregnancy and birth
Other areas of counselling I deal with
- Absent fathers, mothers or siblings
- Separation from loved ones
- Painful childhood or school experiences
- Family crises/breakdown
- Organisational dynamics and work-related stress
- Relocation / 'Dislocation'
- Culture and ethnicity issues
My standard fee per 50-minute session is £80 for individuals, and £120 per 75-minute session for couples. This is agreed during the initial consultation.
My North London counselling practice is in Highbury and Islington (N5), less than 15 minutes walking distance from Highbury & Islington, Canonbury, Arsenal, Drayton Park, and Finsbury Park stations.
Several buses (4, 19, 30, 106, 141, 236, 341, 393) come within a few minutes walk from where I work.
These excellent public transport links as well as street parking facility makes my service conveniently reachable by people in Camden, City of London, Crouch End, Dalston, East London, Hackney, Hampstead, Haringey, Highbury, Highgate, Islington, Muswell Hill, Stoke Newington and Walthamstow.
There are several friendly cafes as well as clean, safe public parks close by.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
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Supervision & training
The clinical supervision I offer is based on the same foundational principles of the Person-Centred Existential psychotherapy that I practice with my own clients.View supervision profile