The Relationship Hub - Mary T Aaron (MBACP)
The Brentwood Clinic
31 Shenfield Road
If you struggle in your relationships, whether single, married or in a partnership.
If you are dealing with affairs, lies cheating any kind of infidelity to share and talk about this is very difficult and scary and can change your life completely. If your marriage is failing, this can be very scary especially if there are children. If you are newly single after a relationship break down it can be difficult to admit to people how lonely and isolated you are feeling. This confusion, fear, loneliness can create depression and anxiety and it’s at this time we look to go into counselling/therapy
How can I help?
In my experience when we are struggling with our intimate relationships it seems to have a ripple effect on all our relationships including work, siblings and friends.
We can feel isolated from others like friends and family, we can feel like the relationship is all you can think about, this can have the effect of seeming to spill over into everything else you do, work, children, family, and friends.
Being in a relationship that is struggling can make us feel unhappy, lonely, you can feel like a failure, sometimes embarrassed, shame and a feeling of being scared of what is going to happen.
Conversely, when we are single and have struggled in past relationships, this too can have a debilitating effect, we see friends, family in relationships, this can leave us feeling isolated, we have to tolerate others view of us being single, that we must be sad or lonely, or friends trying to find us 'the right partner', we may question our decision or reasoning for being single.
Talking to my clients who are single, by choice, some say they love the freedom to do what they want, the independence, but most say, they do lose out on intimacy, not purely sexual intimacy, but the intimacy of sharing, and being with another person to share their world.
“Therapy can help you start feeling more in control of your life and all your relationships, not just partners, but co-workers and siblings."
So therapy can help, which I believe is true but in my experience the scariest place for us at this time, at our most vulnerable, is to be deciding on therapy/counselling as the next step and then finding a therapist to lay bare all your secrets and life history and ‘trust’ them to keep you safe, and enable you to share and open up at a time in your life when “trust” is the hardest thing for you right now.
Why choose me?
My name is Mary Aaron. MBACP, I am an Integrative Psychotherapist. Qualified and Experienced couples therapist, having trained at The Tavistock Centre, London, UK, internationally renowned experts. I work with individuals and couples.
I’ve been told I am warm and honest and make clients feel safe and confident. I offer a free 30 minute call/Skype session, to see if you wish to take it forward. I offer this to give you the opportunity to meet me, albeit on the phone or skype, no commitment, you can then make a choice whether single or in a relationship. If I’m not right for you that is OK, I understand it’s scary and you will have lost nothing.
Give me a call on 07539738191 or email me to arrange a free initial phone consultation.
Training, qualifications & experience
- BA integrative psychotherapy.
- Certified CfD Couple Therapist.
- Family Therapy Certificate.
- Foundation Degree in Humanistic Therapy.
- Certified Rewind Practitioner for Trauma.
- Certified Rewind Trainer.
- Past experience, 20 years in the field of domestic violence.
- Basildon Mind. Counsellor
- NHS primary Care Therapist.
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Asperger's syndrome
- Avoidant personality disorder
- Dependent personality disorder
- Domestic violence
- Emotional abuse
- Family issues
- Feeling sad
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Narcissistic personality disorder
- Passive aggressive behaviour
- Relationship problems
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Couple counselling £75
Individual Counselling £50
Online counselling, same price.
The Relationship Hub offers online therapy, whether single, newly divorced, separated, in a relationship, short term or long.
The amazing news with online therapy it has been shown to be just as effective as face to face. So you can live anywhere and you can choose the therapist that works best for you.
- If you prefer not to meet in-person, online is a practical option.
- If you’re busy and find meeting for a 50/60-minute appointment a struggle, online is convenient.
- If you live in a rural area and geographically isolated, or ill and housebound, online is an accessible solution.
- If you live abroad, online is the solution for you to have choice over your therapy.
- Whether on holiday or temporarily or permanently relocate, we can continue our work together.
It has been proven that it does not really matter what style of therapy is used, the main factor affecting the success of therapy is whether the client can identify with, relates to, get on well with or just plainly likes the therapist.
This ‘therapeutic relationship’, as it is known, will obviously have a far better chance of being successful when the client has a wider selection of therapy to choose.
Call, text or email for a free 20 minute consultation.
Maps & Directions
Type of session
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Types of client
|Employee Assistance Programme|