About me
Hello, I'm Gianluca Failla, a COSRT-registered Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist based in London. I work with individuals and couples, both in person and online, around sex, intimacy and relationships.
People often come to me with something they've found difficult to talk about, perhaps a change in sexual desire, anxiety around sex, erection or orgasm difficulties, painful sex, shame, relationship conflict or a growing sense of emotional or sexual disconnection.
Sometimes the difficulty isn't easy to name. You may simply know that something doesn't feel right.
My professional background includes over 10 years' experience across sexual health, LGBTQIA+ support, addiction and Chemsex services. I work affirmatively with LGBTQIA+ clients and with people in diverse relationship structures, including polyamorous, open and ethically non-monogamous relationships.
I also have particular experience where sex, substances and emotional wellbeing intersect, including Chemsex and compulsive sexual behaviour. My approach is compassionate and harm-reduction informed rather than based on shame or judgement.
Alongside my psychosexual and relationship work, I support neurodivergent adults, including autistic clients. I recognise that communication, sensory experiences, relationships and sexuality may be experienced differently, and I adapt our work accordingly.
As an Italian therapist living and working in London, I also understand that culture, family expectations and identity can shape the way we experience ourselves and our relationships. I offer therapy in both English and Italian.
What is therapy with me like?
I won't sit silently analysing everything you say.
My approach is warm, collaborative and thoughtful. We'll try to understand what's happening together , what may be contributing to the difficulty, what keeps it going and what you would like to feel different.
Some people find practical strategies useful. Others need space to understand patterns, relationships or previous experiences. Often, we use a mixture of both.
You don't need to arrive knowing exactly what's wrong or having the right words for it.
Sex and relationships are deeply personal. My aim is to give you somewhere you can speak openly without having to censor yourself or fit somebody else's idea of what a relationship or sex life should look like.
Training, qualifications & experience
I am a COSRT-registered Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist and completed the London Diploma in Psychosexual & Relationship Psychotherapy (LDPRT) with Distinction.
Alongside this, I bring over 10 years’ experience in sexual health and relational work, supporting individuals and couples with low desire, communication difficulties, intimacy challenges and confidence-related concerns.
My background includes work in NHS and specialist settings, supporting people with sensitive and complex issues using evidence-informed approaches, including motivational interviewing and behavioural change interventions.
I am currently completing the Advanced Diploma in Relationship Psychotherapy at the NAOS Institute, which further deepens my work with attachment, couple dynamics and relational processes.
I engage in regular clinical supervision and ongoing professional development to ensure my practice remains safe, reflective and ethically grounded.
Member organisations
COSRT is the UK’s leading membership organisation for therapists specialising in sexual and relationship issues.
All members must abide by their Code of Ethics and the performance of accredited members is regularly monitored.
Areas of counselling I deal with
Therapies offered
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Fees
£70.00 - £120.00
Concessions offered for
Additional information
- £70 Individuals
- £120 Couples
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Further information
Sessions are available in-person in London and online, with flexible appointment times where possible. I work with individuals and couples and tailor therapy to your needs and pace. You’re welcome to contact me to arrange an initial free 15 minutes appointment or ask any questions before booking.
