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Hello, finding the way forward is not always easy. As an experienced, qualified counsellor I can offer you an assessment session to help you work out what is right for you at this time. Perhaps you need the space to talk through what you can expect from counselling and what kind of counsellor might be best to help you with your issues. There will be no obligation on you to commit to further sessions.

I am 'Relate' trained and as such I have considerable experience of Couple Counselling and Relationship issues where there are communication difficulties and relationship breakdown. Our initial session is an opportunity for each person to speak and to be listened to so we can work out a way forward based on your needs. I welcome couples from traditional or same sex relationships.

I specialise in personal and relationship work with individuals, couples and young people and I will help you to gain a clear overview of your current situation and to plan a way forward for you tailored to your needs. I offer your initial assessment at the special rate of half price.

I have worked with clients on issues such as anxiety, depression, panic disorder, anger, conflict, bereavement, loss, abuse,self harm, low self esteem and relationship breakdown.

When something is really troubling, it can be tough to talk about this with friends and family for a variety of reasons. Counselling offers a clear space and a chance to step back from your situation so you can work out what your choices are. Sometimes you don't know where to go for help; I am here to work with you honestly, without judgement and with confidentiality assured.

A qualified and professional counsellor, I offer short and long term personal and relationship counselling in a comfortable therapy centre with easy access and good parking. I have fifteen years experience of clinical practice with a variety of clients with a respected charity and I am qualified to MA level and a fully accredited member of the professional body, the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).  I am also a fully qualified counselling supervisor.

After the initial consultation we can decide together the best route for you to take, should you wish to continue seeing me we can agree a number of sessions to begin with or we can take it on a week by week basis. If that is not the best option for you at this time we can discuss other modes of counselling or support that may be open to you.

During the pandemic Therapies Clinic has been deep cleaned and redecorated, the rooms are well ventilated and the waiting room is no longer in use.  Hand sanitiser is provided and we and ask clients to arrive exactly  at their appointment time . I hope to be able to offer face to counselling again soon.

Training, qualifications & experience

MA Relationship Therapy. University of Hull/ Relate. Nov 2011.

Certificate in Clinical Supervision. Relate Sept 2016

Post Graduate Diploma Relationship Therapy (Couple Therapy) University of Hull/Relate. Oct 2009.

Graduate Certificate foundation in Couple Counselling. University East London/Relate. Sept 2006

Relate Certificate in Counselling Young People.  June  2008

ADCH, Advanced Diploma in Clinical Hypnotherapy, Surrey College of Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy (2018).

Neuroscience for Therapists, Peter Afford , Jan - Dec 2020.

I have also undertaken some shorter training which includes:

Externship in Emotionally Focussed Therapy, (EFT).  2012.

Introduction to CBT - Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

Understanding and Recognising Sex Addiction

LGBT Inclusion certificate Relationship Service Providers

The Art of Focussing

NLP - Neuro Linguistic Programming -   Foundation Diploma - 2018

Working with Transgender Issues - Mermaid - Oct 2019

Supervision the Delights and Difficulties - Robin Shohet Jan 2020

BEFT  Emotionally Focussed Therapy Conference - Mar 2020

Sex and Sexuality - Christiane Sanderson May 2020

The power of transference in therapy - WPF Feb 2021

As an Accredited member of British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) 053066_logo%20(2).jpgI adhere to strict professional codes of practice based on the BACP Ethical Framework. I am a listed member on the recent counselling and psychotherapy register held by BACP.

I am committed to personal and professional development and attend courses and workshops on an ongoing basis.

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

Registered / Accredited

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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

BACP is one of the UK’s largest professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy. Therapists registered with the Association fall into a number of different membership categories such as Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP and Registered Member MBACP (Accred), each standing for different levels of training and experience. MBACP (Accred) and MBACP (Snr Accred) members have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by the Association.

Registered members can be found on the BACP Register, which was the first register to achieve Accredited Voluntary Register status issued by the Professional Standards Authority. Individual Members will have completed an appropriate counselling and/or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but will not appear on the BACP Register until they've progressed to Registered Member MBACP status.

All members are bound by a Code of Ethics & Practice and a Complaints Procedure. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.

Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Accredited Register Scheme

The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).

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From £40.00 to £80.00

Concessions offered for

  • Students
  • Trainee counsellors

Additional information

Initial consultation half price

Individual counselling £60 - initial appointment £30

Couple counselling £70 - initial appointment £35

Family Counselling £80 - initial appointment £40

Young person counselling 12-25 yrs £40 - initial appointment £20

Concessions may be available


Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday

Thursday afternoon/evening Monday morning/afternoon

Further information

If you are experiencing financial hardship i would be happy to discuss concessions with you over the phone or at the first session.

90 Limpsfield Road

Type of session


Types of client

Young people
Older adults

Key details

Wheelchair user access

Wheelchair user access

Wheelchair-accessible premises should have step-free access for wheelchair users and individuals who are unable to climb stairs. If a counsellor's premises aren't step-free, they may offer alternative services such as telephone/web-based appointments, home visits, or meeting clients in different location, so you can choose the option that suits you best.

You can contact the counsellor to discuss the options available.

Under the Equality Act 2010 service providers have a duty to make reasonable adjustments to ensure that individuals with disabilities can access their service. You can read more about reasonable adjustments to help you to access services on the CAB website.


In person supervision
Online supervision
Telephone supervision

I am a qualified and experienced clinical supervisor with individual and group supervision. I trained with Relate in 2015 and commit to regular CPD.

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Barbara Wilkinson

Barbara Wilkinson