What situations cause you to get into a "pre-conflict" mode?

Sanford Mabel (1994) developed from research a list of identifiable triggers for anger and aggression, I think that most of them land me in the pre-conflict mode and push my red buttons.

• Interruption of goal-directed behaviour when time is important
• Experiencing personal degradation or unfair treatment and being   powerless to stop it
• Being treated unfairly, unkindly or in a prejudicial way, whether or not you are present
• Being the object of dishonesty or broken promises, being disappointed by others or oneself
• Having your authority, feelings or property disregarded by others
• Being ignored or treated badly by a significant other
• Experiencing harm because of your own negligence towards yourself
• Being shown by others’ behaviour that they do not care
• Being the object of verbal or physical assault
• Being a ‘helpless victim’

Sanford Mabel PhD (1994) Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology.