About me
Hi, I’m Thomas—a couples therapist with a passion for helping people reconnect, repair, and rebuild relationships that last. I specialise in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), one of the most effective, evidence-based approaches for couples in distress.
With extensive training in EFT and other powerful therapeutic methods, I bring a grounded, compassionate, and results-driven approach to my work. I’ve helped countless couples move from stuck and disconnected to secure, supported, and in love again.
Why work with me?
- I’ve been featured in top publications like Newsweek, Bustle, AskMen, and HuffPost for my insights on relationships.
- My clients consistently rate me 5 stars on Google.
- I don’t offer quick fixes—I help you make real, lasting change.
In our sessions, you’ll find a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your emotional patterns, heal past hurts, and build the closeness you’re both craving. Whether you're struggling with communication, conflict, or emotional distance, you're not alone, and you're not beyond repair.
Let’s work together to get your relationship back on track, and stronger than ever.
Training, qualifications & experience
Thomas Westenholz is a highly trained couple therapist with specialised expertise in Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFT). EFT is a proven, evidence-based approach designed to help couples rebuild trust, improve communication, and deepen emotional connection. Thomas has undergone extensive training in this method, equipping him to guide couples through even the most challenging relational dynamics with empathy and understanding.
In addition to his EFT qualifications, Thomas is a Humanistic Therapist, grounded in the belief that every individual and relationship has the potential for growth and self-actualisation. His approach emphasises creating a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their feelings, develop greater self-awareness, and foster meaningful change in their relationships.
With his combination of specialised training and deep compassion, Thomas is committed to helping couples overcome obstacles and achieve stronger, healthier, and more fulfilling partnerships.
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school Registered / Accredited
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The National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society This Not For Profit association of counsellors and psychotherapists aim to support the counselling profession, members and training organisations. In 2013 the NCS register was accredited by the Professional Standards Authority under the Accredited Voluntary Register Scheme. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.
Accredited register membership
The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).
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