About us
Every relationship begins with one essential connection - the one you have with yourself.
I founded "The Dating Psychologist" to help people understand themselves, become the best version of themselves and build the kind of relationships that feel emotionally safe, deeply aligned with their values and are genuinely fulfilling.
For over twenty years, I have dedicated my career to understanding what truly drives human connection, why we love, why we lose, and how we grow.
The Dating Psychologist is where psychology meets human connection - blending science, compassion and real-world insight to help you build a relationship that starts with you.
Whether is supporting someone to move on from heartbreak, navigate modern dating, or rebuild after relationship trauma, my goal is always the same - to help you reconnect with yourself and create relationships that feel secure, grounded and real.
Training, qualifications & experience
In my work as a Consultant Practitioner Counselling Psychologist and Cognitive Behavioural Therapist across the UK NHS, the Ministry of Defence, and private practice, I helped individuals find strength, clarity, and confidence in how they relate to themselves and others.
At "The Dating Psychologist", I bring together the science of psychology and the art of human relationships. My approach blends Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), and trauma-informed methods such as EMDR, ensuring that every session is both evidence-based and deeply personal.
My Qualifications:
- MSc & Post-MSc in Counselling Psychology, City University London
- Post-Graduate Diploma in CBT, Institute of Psychiatry
- HCPC Registered Practitioner Psychologist
- Chartered Counselling Psychologist, British Psychological Society (BPS)
- British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies Member (BABCP)
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Being registered/accredited with a professional body means an individual must have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by their member organisation.
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They keep a register of health professionals who meet their standards, and they take action if registered health professionals fall below those standards. They were created by a piece of legislation called the Health Professions Order 2001.
Registration means that a health professional meets national standards for their professional training, performance and conduct.
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Further information
Do you find yourself repeating the same relationship patterns and wondering why things never seem to change?
Are you ready for love but tired of the anxiety, self-doubt or emotional confusion that relationships seem to bring?
Do you want to understand yourself more deeply so you can build a relationship that finally feels emotionally safe mutual and lasting?
You don’t have to keep repeating old patterns or wondering why things don’t change. During the course of therapy, you will gain greater clarity about what’s holding you back and what steps you need to take towards creating healthy, lasting connections. If any of these sound familiar, you’re in the right place.
Issues I can help with:
- Dating Apps burnout
- Relationship and dating difficulties
- Low self-esteem and confidence in relationships
- Anxiety, stress and overthinking
- Past relationship or attachment trauma
- Emotional detachment, fear of intimacy or vulnerability
- Heartbreak, loss and rebuilding self-trust
- Perfectionism and people-pleasing patterns
- Burnout and difficulty balancing work, self and relationships
Book a free discovery call with me to discuss what’s been happening and how you can move forward with confidence and self-understanding with the help of "The Dating Psychologist".
