About me

I am passionate about living a fulfilled life. I believe this is rooted in positive and satisfying relationships. Sometimes, these relationships become stuck, hit an obstacle, or become overwhelmed by disagreements and conflicts.

Sometimes, our bodies do not perform or function sexually in the way we would like them to, which can have a significant impact on our well-being, our sexual satisfaction and ultimately our relationships.

I offer a safe and supportive space – for both individuals and couples – where you can be real, be heard, and be free from judgement. I will work with you for as long as you need to resolve the difficulty that is causing you discomfort or distress. Everything we discuss is treated with the deepest respect and will always be held in the strictest confidence.

You can find me at The North Hampshire Clinic in Basingstoke every Tuesday for day-time appointments, or from my home in Guildford for evening appointments. I also offer a few Saturday morning sessions.

COVID UPDATE: All psychotherapy appointments will be held online via Zoom, until further notice.

Training, qualifications & experience

  • Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships
  • London Foundation in Counselling and Psychotherapy
  • London Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy (PGDip)

Member organisations


College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists

COSRT is the UK’s leading membership organisation for therapists specialising in sexual and relationship issues.

All members must abide by their Code of Ethics and the performance of accredited members is regularly monitored.

Therapies offered

  • Couples counselling
  • Existential therapy
  • Gestalt therapy
  • Integrative
  • Mindfulness
  • Psychodynamic therapy
  • Psychosexual therapy


£60 for Individuals (60 minutes)

£80 for couples (60 minutes)


27 London Street
RG21 7PG

Type of session

In person
Home visits

Practical details

Sign language
Other languages None


Wheelchair user access

Wheelchair-accessible premises should have step-free access for wheelchair users and individuals who are unable to climb stairs. If a counsellor's premises aren't step-free, they may offer alternative services such as telephone/web-based appointments, home visits, or meeting clients in different location, so you can choose the option that suits you best.

You can contact the counsellor to discuss the options available.

Under the Equality Act 2010 service providers have a duty to make reasonable adjustments to ensure that individuals with disabilities can access their service. You can read more about reasonable adjustments to help you to access services on the CAB website.

Wheelchair user access Unspecified


I currently have evening sessions available - please contact me for details. I also have limited sessions available on Friday and Saturday morning.

Types of client

Older adults
Steven Hayward

Steven Hayward