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About me

I am passionate about living a fulfilled life. I believe this is rooted in positive and satisfying relationships. Sometimes, these relationships become stuck, hit an obstacle, or become overwhelmed by disagreements and conflicts.

Sometimes, our bodies do not perform or function sexually in the way we would like them to, which can have a significant impact on our well-being, our sexual satisfaction and ultimately our relationships.

I offer a safe and supportive space – for both individuals and couples – where you can be real, be heard, and be free from judgement. I will work with you for as long as you need to resolve the difficulty that is causing you discomfort or distress. Everything we discuss is treated with the deepest respect and will always be held in the strictest confidence.

You can find me at The North Hampshire Clinic in Basingstoke every Tuesday for day-time appointments, or from my home in Guildford for evening appointments. I also offer a few Saturday morning sessions.

COVID UPDATE: All psychotherapy appointments will be held online via Zoom, until further notice.

Training, qualifications & experience

  • Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships
  • London Foundation in Counselling and Psychotherapy
  • London Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy (PGDip)

Member organisations


College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT)

COSRT is the UK’s leading membership organisation for therapists specialising in sexual and relationship issues.

All members must abide by their Code of Ethics and the performance of accredited members is regularly monitored.


From £70.00 to £90.00

Concessions offered for

  • Trainee counsellors

Additional information

I charge £70 for individual therapy; £80 for psychosexual therapy; and £90 for relationship/couple therapy, for a full sixty-minute hour.

When I work

I currently have evening sessions available - please contact me for details. I also have limited sessions available on Friday and Saturday morning.

Guildford, Surrey, GU2

27 London Street, Basingstoke, Hampshire, RG21 7PG

Type of session

In person

Types of client

Older adults