About me
Hello, I'm Dr Primala Ashokan. I work with couples navigating conflict or disconnection, and with individuals working through trauma using EMDR. If you're looking for support that's warm, evidence-based, and tailored to you, I'd love to help.
I offer EMDR for trauma, anxiety, and phobias, and I work with couples who want to rebuild trust, improve communication, or work through conflict. My approach is integrative — drawing on EMDR, CBT, and psychodynamic understanding — and always shaped by cultural sensitivity and respect for who you are.
As a Consultant Psychiatrist with additional training in EMDR and in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy, I bring both medical and psychological expertise to my work. This means that if psychosexual difficulties — such as erectile dysfunction, vaginismus, or low desire — are part of what's affecting your relationship, I can help with that too, alongside the wider relational or trauma work.
I have over a decade of clinical experience and hold a post-graduate diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy from COSRT. My work is grounded in creating a safe, non-judgemental space where you can process difficult experiences at your own pace.
Please note I don't offer crisis intervention — if you need urgent support, please contact NHS 111, option 2.
Training, qualifications & experience
I have over 12 years of experience as a Consultant Psychiatrist in the NHS. I have a post-graduate diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy as well EMDR training. This has allowed me to offer an integrated approach towards my clients that combines medical expertise with psychological insight. My work is grounded in cultural sensitivity, shaped by both my own heritage and my years working with diverse communities.
Member organisations
COSRT is the UK’s leading membership organisation for therapists specialising in sexual and relationship issues.
All members must abide by their Code of Ethics and the performance of accredited members is regularly monitored.
Areas of counselling I deal with
Other areas of counselling I deal with
Psychosexual problems including vaginismus, pain during sex, erectile dysfunction, rapid ejaculation, low sexual arousal, relationship issues after an affair.
Therapies offered
Fees
£120.00 - £180.00
Health Insurance/EAP
Additional information
I charge £120.00 per 60 minute session for individuals and £180.00 for couples therapy.
When I work
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Further information
If you have complex needs and require support from someone who is both medically and psychologically training, then please do not hesitate to contact me. Please note that I do not offer crisis interventions and if you require urgent help then please contact NHS 111 option 2.
