May Tomkinson

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Manchester, Greater Manchester, M21

About me

I'm May, an BACP accredited counsellor offering counselling sessions online. I'm based in South Manchester.

I'm qualified with a Postgraduate Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy and a BSc in Psychology, and I'm also trained in EMDR - a therapy for working with trauma, whether that's a specific traumatic incident, difficult experiences you're finding hard to process, or trauma rooted in early relationship patterns. I've been working as a counsellor in private practice since 2016.

I offer you a counselling service that is:

Safe – confidential, a place of warmth and acceptance. I welcome issues you may be finding difficult, uncomfortable or traumatic.
Human – connection with a real person.
Empowering – if you are looking to make changes in your life, I can support you through this process.
Informed - about working with LGBTQ+ issues and alternative relationship styles.

Having our sexuality, gender or relationship misunderstood by a counsellor can be a harmful and all-too common experience for those of us who are outside the mainstream. I provide a place where people of all genders and sexual orientations, those who practice kink, and those in or exploring non-monogamous relationships can be understood, feel safe and be heard.

I am queer, non-binary and autistic. I try to be aware of my privilege and how this might affect our counselling relationship. I love being in nature, dancing , and hanging out at my allotment.

Finding a counsellor I could trust and feel understood by has helped me to navigate stressful and traumatic life events, build self-acceptance and connect with who I really am (which is an ongoing project!).

Training, qualifications & experience

I've been running my private practice since 2016. I undertake regular CPD. My main qualifications are:

  • BSc Psychology
  • BACP Accredited member
  • PgDip Counselling and Psychotherapy
  • Standard EMDR Europe Accredited training

I have also completed trainings on many other topics including; Wheel of consent, Embodiment, Internal Family Systems  (IFS), Goal Setting, Queer/trans issues, Race, Kink/BDSM, Neurodivergence, Trauma, and Flash Technique.

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

Registered / Accredited

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BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

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Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Areas of counselling I deal with

Therapies offered

Fees

£65.00 per session

Concessions offered for

  • Low income
  • Trainee counsellors
  • Unemployed

Additional information

The session fee is £65 for 50 minutes.

I offer a free consultation call of 10-30 minutes. This gives us a chance to talk about what you want to bring to counselling and for us to get to know each other a little.

I am sometimes able to offer concessionary rates for people on a low income - this varies on my current workload and income, but please ask.

When I work

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Early morning
Morning
Early afternoon
Late afternoon
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Manchester, Greater Manchester, M21

Type of session

Online
Phone

Types of client

Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)

Key details

Having video on during sessions helps me connect with you, but if you prefer, we can work using voice only. You are welcome to use stim toys or to do other activities during the session if that helps you focus, and eye contact is not essential!

Online platforms

VSee
Zoom
Whatsapp
Microsoft Teams
May Tomkinson
May Tomkinson