Mary McNeil

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MSc, BSc, MBACP
Dunbar, East Lothian, EH42

About me

Hi, I'm Mary
I'm a counsellor based in Dunbar, East Lothian. I work from a cosy counselling pod in my garden, where I offer face-to-face appointments, and I also work online if that suits you better.

I believe therapy should be a place where you don't have to pretend you're coping, have all the answers, or even know where to begin. Sometimes it takes time to untangle what's going on. Simply finding the words for something you've been carrying can be the start of real change.

People often tell me that I'm easy to talk to and that they quickly feel comfortable opening up. My aim is to create a space where you feel listened to, understood, and accepted.

You might be:

Feeling anxious, stressed, or low.
Struggling with confidence or constantly doubting yourself.
Living with the effects of trauma, abuse, or sexual violence.
Trying to make sense of painful experiences within a faith community.
Affected by substance misuse, whether it's your own or someone else's.
Finding family or other relationships difficult.
Feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected from yourself.
Looking for a place where you can simply be yourself and be heard.

I won't pretend I have all the answers, but I do know that healing rarely happens by being told to "just get over it."

Some sessions are difficult. Some are hopeful. Some are unexpectedly funny. I don't shy away from hard conversations, but I also believe people are far more than the things that have happened to them. 

Training, qualifications & experience

Training and Qualifications

MSc Counselling (Merit), Abertay University

BSc Adult Nursing, Queen Margaret University

Dactari Foundation Training in Domestic Abuse Counselling

LivingWorks ASIST (Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training)

Fundamentalist religious childhoods and adult health: implications for practice in one-to-one therapeutic encounters.

Introduction to Motivational Interviewing.

As part of my postgraduate counselling training, I conducted specialist research into trauma and abuse, including exploring these issues within systemic and relational contexts.

Experience

Before training as a counsellor, I worked for 10 years in learning disability services, supporting individuals with complex needs and their families with care, communication, and advocacy.

I volunteered for two years in a city centre counselling service, I worked with a wide range of clients who brought different issues including depression, anxiety, work related stress, difficult family dynamics, boarding school trauma, religious difficulties, academic stress.

I have worked as a counsellor within a specialist service supporting women who have experienced sexual violence. Alongside this, I have provided mental health mentoring for students in further and higher education, helping them to navigate emotional wellbeing, develop study skills, and manage academic pressures. I currently work part-time within a service supporting individuals affected by substance misuse.

In my counselling work, I draw on a range of therapeutic approaches, including person-centred counselling, trauma-informed practice, psychoeducation, and elements of cognitive and compassion-focused therapies. This allows me to tailor sessions to each client’s needs and offer both emotional support and practical strategies to help them move forward. I am committed to ongoing learning and professional development to ensure I offer safe, up-to-date, and effective support.

Member organisations

BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

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Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Areas of counselling I deal with

Fees

£60.00 per session

When I work

Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun
Early morning
Morning
Early afternoon
Late afternoon
Evening

Dunbar, East Lothian, EH42

Type of session

In person
Online

Types of client

Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)

Key details

PVG Scheme

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Online platforms

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Mary McNeil
Mary McNeil