Kirsty Cartwright

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About me

You may feel held back by the way you’re living your life and wish things could be different — calmer, clearer, and more in your control.

I offer a collaborative, supportive space where you can talk openly about what’s going on in your life without fear of judgement or criticism. Together, we can explore how you got here, deepen your understanding of yourself, and begin to untangle patterns such as people-pleasing or coping strategies that feel automatic. Over time, this can help you feel less caught in old cycles and more able to respond to life in ways that feel intentional rather than reactive.

Clients often find that as this process unfolds, they begin to feel more grounded in themselves, more able to trust their own decisions, and less overwhelmed by internal or external pressures.

I often work with people who feel “not good enough,” overwhelmed, or stuck in familiar patterns — whether in relationships, at work, or in how they relate to themselves.

My approach is relational and trauma-informed, meaning I pay close attention to your unique experiences and how these have shaped you. Together, we can make sense of what’s been happening internally, reduce self-criticism, and support you in developing a steadier, more compassionate relationship with yourself.

Many clients find this leads to feeling:

Less overwhelmed by their emotions
More able to regulate and understand what they’re feeling
Clearer about their needs and boundaries
More confident in how they move forward in their life
 
Alongside this, I have additional training in Autism-informed counselling and I am currently training in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing).

I work in a way that is respectful of neurodiversity, adapting sessions to suit your needs and processing style. Whether you are autistic, exploring a diagnosis, or identify with autistic traits, I offer a space where you can feel less pressure to mask, and more permission to be yourself - just as you are.

Where past experiences or distressing events continue to feel present in your life, EMDR can support you in processing these in a safe and contained way, helping to reduce their emotional intensity and the impact they have on your day-to-day wellbeing. I provide a calm, consistent, and stabilising environment where we can explore them at a pace that feels manageable.

Over time, clients often describe feeling:

More understood and less alone in what they’re carrying
More in control of emotional responses, rather than feeling overwhelmed by them
Better able to pause, rather than react automatically
Clearer, steadier, and more confident in themselves
 
I also have experience supporting clients with misophonia, helping them understand how it affects their daily life, develop practical coping strategies, set boundaries, and build a personalised toolkit to reduce distress and regain a sense of control.

 If you’re unsure whether counselling is right for you, I offer a free 15–20 minute introductory phone or video call. This is a relaxed, no-pressure conversation where you can:

Share a little about what’s going on for you
Ask any questions
Get a sense of how I work

You can then decide whether it feels like the right fit for you — no pressure, just space to think it through. 

Training, qualifications & experience

  • Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling, Level 4
  • Qualified Trauma Informed practitioner
  • Qualified Autism Informed practitioner
  • Qualified Online and Telephone Counselling practitioner
  • Currently training in EMDR
  • Experience of working with adults and young people
  • BA (Hons) Sociology and Marketing

I am committed to regular Continuous Professional Development (CPD), which means maintaining and developing my knowledge through undertaking relevant training and research.

I am currently training in EMDR and look forward to integrating this into my client work.

Member organisations

BACP
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

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Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
Accredited Register Scheme

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Areas of counselling I deal with

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Misophonia

Therapies offered

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Fees

£55.00 per session

Concessions offered for

  • Trainee counsellors

Additional information

Concessions are available for current counselling students/trainees who are working towards their counselling hours. The charge will be £45

It is possible to pay by card at the session, or by bank transfer.

When I work

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Reflection Rooms, 13-14 Barton Street, Tewkesbury, Gloucestershire, GL20 5PP

Type of session

In person
Online

Types of client

Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)
Organisations

Key details

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Wheelchair user access
Wheelchair user access

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Under the Equality Act 2010 service providers have a duty to make reasonable adjustments to ensure that individuals with disabilities can access their service. You can read more about reasonable adjustments to help you to access services on the CAB website.

Please see reflection rooms access statement for information about the accessibility of the room we would be using. It is called 'Chai' and is located on the ground floor https://reflectionrooms.co.uk/access-statement

Online platforms

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