Hilary McMeeking | Counsellor | Counselling in Cheltenham
Who do I work with?
If you are feeling anxious, emotionally empty or if you have relationship issues with parents or partners, I can help you. Perhaps you have the feeling of not being 'enough'? Do you feel properly loved. Is it difficult to be kind to yourself? Do you hate to let anyone down or say 'yes' even when you are already completely overwhelmed. Have you ever wondered why you do this or feel this way? If you are thinking "that's just like me" then I can help you.
I feel passionate about helping people, like you, to find answers to why you feel this way and to start feeling good about yourself and less anxious or overwhelmed. If you feel ready to move forwards, we can work together towards making any changes that you would like to make in your life, for example you might decide you want to put some boundaries in for yourself or you may want to be able to say "NO" sometimes and not feel guilty about it. Working together you can discover who you really are and work towards positive change for your future.
What to expect from your first session
It can take courage to call or email to book a first initial session and I try my very best to help you feel ok about meeting me for the first time. I work compassionately and without judgment so you can bring anything to counselling, all is welcome, you are welcome.
During our first session I will take a little time to let you know about confidentiality and how I can keep you and your information safe. After that you are welcome to tell me whatever you would like to; why you are looking for counselling, how you are feeling and what has happened to you. You can just go ahead and splurge it all out or, if that feels way too scary, I can gently ask you some questions to help you through the process. At the end you can either book in again or go away and have a think about whether you'd be happy to work together with me going forwards then let me know y email. Often it has taken a long journey to get to where you are now in life, it is necessary to unravel it slowly, with someone you think you can build a trusting relationship with. I will encourage you to take time to be patient and compassionate with yourself, for some that can be a challenge in itself. However counselling works! Things will move forward, changes will happen and you can feel better.
I offer daytime sessions from Tuesday to Friday with evening sessions available at 5.15pm 6.30pm and 7.45pm on Wednesdays and Thursdays.
I also offer a free initial 30 minute session.
Contact me today
You don't have to work it all out alone, contact me today for a quick chat or a free initial session and we can talk about how I can help you.
During the pandemic I am seeing clients online or by phone.
I work mostly in the following areas:
- Anxiety, Stress and Worry
- Feelings of disconnection and emptiness
- Self Worth and Self Esteem
- Relationship issues with parents and partners
- Adults who have/had difficult relationships with mothers
- Adults who suffered Childhood Emotional Neglect
- People pleasing
Training, qualifications & experience
In 2009 I gained a BSc (Hons) in Sociology and Social Policy. More recently I achieved a Advanced Certificate in Counselling.
Whilst working in a low cost counselling agency I worked with a wide variety of clients and also gained my Diploma in Person Centred Counselling (BACP approved course) during this time.
I have a British Focussing Association Certificate in Focussing Skills.
Currently I am working with counselling students as a Counselling Skills Facilitator on the Advanced Certificate in Counselling course in Bristol.
I am a member of the National Counselling Society (MNCS) which is accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.
I continue to access CPD regularly, including the following:
- Working with The Impact of Childhood Complexity
- Working at Relational Depth
- Working with Shame
- Dealing with Distress - Working with Suicide and Self-Harm
Registered / Accredited
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National Counselling Society
The National Counselling Society
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In 2013 the NCS register was accredited by the Professional Standards Authority under the Accredited Voluntary Register Scheme. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.
Accredited register membership
Accredited Register Scheme
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Areas of counselling I deal with
I offer a free 30 minute initial session so that you can see if you'd like to work with me. After that I charge £50 for a 60 minute session.
Concessions offered for
When you call, text or email me I will reply as quickly as I can. If you haven't received a response by email within 24 hours, please check all your email folders as it may land in your junk/spam mail box.
Alternatively if you save my email to your contact list it will come straight to your inbox.
I look forward to hearing from you.