Haran Rasalingam

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UKCP (Psychotherapist), MA Psych, NLP, CMC Accred Mediator

About me

You may be here because something in your life doesn't feel right. Perhaps you're anxious, overwhelmed or low, struggling in a relationship, facing a difficult change, or questioning what you want from your life. Or perhaps it's harder to explain than that – you just know that things can't carry on as they are.

You don't need to have everything worked out before starting therapy. We can begin with whatever is happening for you now and try to understand it together.

I offer a thoughtful, confidential and non-judgemental space where you can talk openly about what is happening in your life. I won't tell you how you should live or give you a formula to follow. Instead, I will help you explore your experiences, relationships and choices, understand patterns that may be keeping you stuck, and consider what you want for yourself and your life.

I work with you as a whole person, rather than seeing you as a problem to be solved or a collection of symptoms to be treated. What is happening in one part of your life often connects with other parts: your relationships, work, family, identity, past experiences, hopes and choices. Our work is about understanding these connections and helping you find a way of living in which the different parts of your life can work more harmoniously together.

This way of working is known as “existential” psychotherapy. It gives us space not only to address the difficulties that brought you to therapy, but also to explore the bigger questions that may sit alongside them: what gives your life meaning and purpose, how you relate to other people, your sense of identity, and how you respond to loss, uncertainty and change.

My practice covers a wide range of difficulties, including anxiety, depression, stress, relationship and family problems, bereavement, low self-esteem, work-related difficulties and significant changes in life. Sometimes the focus is less on a particular problem and more on feeling lost, stuck or dissatisfied, or wanting to understand yourself and your life more deeply.

I see adults and young people, as well as couples. You can also see me individually about relationship difficulties.

I also offer mediation for relationship, family, workplace and other disputes.

Identity and cultural issues are an area in which I have considerable experience, including questions around ethnicity, belonging and navigating different cultures. My practice also includes neurodivergent clients, including people with ADHD and autism.

Alongside longer-term psychotherapy, I offer short-term therapy and couples counselling.

Sessions are available in person in Finchley, North London (N3 and N12), and online.

Training, qualifications & experience

I am a UKCP registered psychotherapist with over 20 years’ experience as a therapist. I hold an MA in Psychotherapy & Counselling and an Advanced Diploma in Existential Psychotherapy.

My qualifications and professional training include:

  • MA Psychotherapy & Counselling
  • Advanced Diploma in Existential Psychotherapy
  • Accredited Mediator
  • NLP Coach and Practitioner
  • Cognitive Hypnotherapy qualifications
  • Member of the Society for Existential Analysis

I am in private practice, working with individuals and couples, and also supervise trainee therapists. During my training, I worked as a psychotherapist and counsellor at Mind, the mental health charity.

Alongside my clinical practice, I have extensive experience in coaching, training, mentoring and facilitating individuals and teams in organisational settings. This gives me a strong understanding of workplace relationships, leadership pressures, career change, conflict and work-related stress.

I am also a published author and have spoken professionally on psychotherapy, identity, ethnicity, psychology and phenomenology.

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UKCP
UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP)

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UKCP standards cover the range of different psychotherapies. Registration is obtained by training or accrediting with one of its member organisations, or by holding a European Certificate in Psychotherapy. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.

Accredited register membership

UK Council for Psychotherapy
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Areas of counselling I deal with

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Identity issues - ethnicity, gender, sexuality, adoption

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Fees

£75.00 - £500.00

Concessions offered for

  • Low income
  • Keyworkers
  • OAPs
  • Students
  • Trainee counsellors
  • Unemployed
  • Refugees

Additional information

  • Online Consultation: FREE 

One-to-one:

  • £75 per session (block of 24 sessions)
  • £85 per session (block of 12 sessions)
  • £95 per session (block of 6 sessions)
  • £105 per session (single session)

Couples:

  • £95 per session (block of 12 sessions)
  • £105 per session (block of 6 sessions)
  • £115 per session (single session)

 Hypnotherapy:

  • £500 (intensive stop-smoking package)
  • £250 (2-session pack - for example for phobias, changing habits)
  • £150 per additional session

Concessions: exact pricing and structure are worked out during free consultation call) - concessions eligibility includes: students, refugees, low income, unemployed; please enquire for details.

When I work

Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun
Early morning
Morning
Early afternoon
Late afternoon
Evening

Further information

  • Free consultation
  • Daytime, evening and weekend slots available
  • Nearest tube: Woodside Park/Finchley Central
  • Short and long-term therapy
  • In-person (Woodside Park and Finchley Central)
  • Remotely via Google Meet, Zoom, Skype, etc

Type of session

In person
Online
Phone

Types of client

Young people (13-17)
Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)
Couples
Families
Organisations

Key details

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Additional languages

French
Italian
Spanish
Tamil

Online platforms

Zoom
Google Meet
Microsoft Teams
Webex
Whatsapp
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Supervision

In person
Online

Existential clinical supervision informed by over 20 years’ therapeutic experience and a broad understanding of other approaches.

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