Della Cain

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Counsellor/Psychotherapist (MNCPS Accred)
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Hockley, Essex, SS5
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About me


I have many years experience of helping people to understand why they think, feel and act in negative ways. Once you understand why you are thinking, feeling and acting negatively, together we can start to rebuild your life focusing on a positive healthy future.

I am a trained counsellor/psychotherapist and therapeutic foster carer, I specialise in childhood trauma and emotional development. I have many years experience helping adults and children, who experience many aspects of trauma such as bereavement, anxiety, sexual, physical and emotional abuse, and addiction. 

Many of my clients come to me confused and unsure how to move forward, they have looked at the 'here and now', tried to find peace without success, they keep formulating repeated patterns of negative emotions  or dysregulated behaviour, impacting on their lives. I help clients to understand why they think, feel and behave in the way they do.  I help them to understand how their brain developed through childhood, how this is influencing them now.

Please call if you are nervous or unsure about counselling, most people feel nervous or anxious when making these sorts of decisions especially when it involves ourselves.

Best wishes


Training, qualifications & experience

  • Listening Skills - Open University
  • Counselling Skills Level 2 - AQA - VCTS
  • Foundation Certificate in Counselling Children & Younger People - VCTS
  • Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling, Unit 1, 75 Hours, Therapeutic Perspectives – VCTS
  • Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling, Unit 2, 100 Hours, Cognitive Behaviour Theory - VCTS
  • Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling, 250 Hours, Higher Training and 100 hours supervised counselling placement - VCTS
  • Practitioner Diploma in CBT - VCTS
  • Certificate in Counselling Supervision - VCTS

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited

Registered / Accredited

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National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society (NCPS)

The National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society

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In 2013 the NCS register was accredited by the Professional Standards Authority under the Accredited Voluntary Register Scheme. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP)

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Registered and accredited members are listed on the BACP Register, which shows that they have demonstrated BACP’s recommended standards for training, proficiency and ethical practice. The BACP Register was the first register of psychological therapists to be accredited by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).

Accredited and senior accredited membership are voluntary categories for members who choose to undertake a rigorous application and assessment process to demonstrate additional standards around practice, training and supervision.

Individual members will have completed an appropriate counselling or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but they won’t appear on the BACP Register until they've demonstrated that they meet the standards for registration. Student members are still in the process of completing their training.

All members are bound by the BACP Ethical Framework and a Professional Conduct Procedure.

Accredited register membership

National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society
Accredited Register Scheme

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National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society

Areas of counselling I deal with

Other areas of counselling I deal with

I specialise in childhood trauma. Many of my clients are looked after children who experience mental health which developed through childhood experiences. I also work with adults who find themselves with mental health difficulties and deregulated behaviours later in life. I help people understand why they think, feel and behave, how their brain develops through childhood, how this development results in negative thinking and behaviour in the 'here and now'. I use my own 'Childhood Development Model' to help clients make sense of their deregulated awareness, which in turn, enables them to formulate and regulate a secure and calm alternative awareness.

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£60.00 per session

Concessions offered for

  • Students
  • Trainee counsellors

Additional information

Cost per client session - clients £60

Cost per supervision -  90 mins £70

Monday to Wednesday  Days 9:00am - 7pm

When I work

Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun

I work Monday to Wednesday 9:00am - 7pm, I have limited availability with the evening slots. 

Further information

Off Street parking available...

Hockley, Essex, SS5

Type of session

In person

Types of client

Young people (13-17)
Young adults (18-24)
Adults (25-64)
Older Adults (65+)
Employee Assistance Programme

Key details

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In person

Throughout my working life I have gained a lot of knowledge and skills, ranging from running my own business, managing teams of staff and working and living alongside traumatised children and young adults.

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