Dilly Hilton Relationship/Psychosexual Therapist BACP (accred) COSRT (accred)

Dilly Hilton Relationship/Psychosexual Therapist BACP (accred) COSRT (accred)


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About me

Most people experience relationship difficulties at some point.   Often it can seem easier to try to ignore them, even if we’re feeling resentful, unhappy or fearful.

Relationship therapy provides the opportunity to bring about positive and effective change and to increase your understanding of yourself and others.  It offers a space to stop, think, reflect and re-assess.

My approach aims to help couples and individuals to make sense of what might feel confused, to take time to consider their situation in depth and to feel confident to make changes that will help them achieve their goals.

I have over 25 years experience of counselling.  My professional accreditation with both BACP and COSRT reflect the seven years of study I have undertaken to become a counselling psychotherapist, with specific interest and expertise in relationship and psychosexual therapy, fully trained to work with individuals and couples in a caring and supportive environment.


Counselling isn’t advice-giving and whilst I won’t tell you what to do,  I commit to working hard alongside you.  Should you find it helpful, I can offer strategies and approaches based on established research and knowledge, which can help to improve your relationship.

Common difficulties I work with include:

  • Arguments and lack of communication
  • Illness
  • Work related stress
  • Separation/Divorce
  • Sexual problems
  • Affairs
  • Feeling uncertain or stuck
  • Life changes such as
    • New baby
    • Children leaving home
    • Retirement

Psychosexual Therapy:

As an accredited psychosexual therapist I have experience of working with couples and individuals experiencing sexual difficulties such as:

• loss of desire or different levels of desire
• erectile difficulties
• rapid or delayed ejaculation
• orgasmic difficulties
• painful sex

My counselling practice is in Marlow within easy reach of High Wycombe, Maidenhead, Henley and Reading and the surrounding areas of Berks, Bucks, and Oxon

Training, qualifications & experience

I am an accredited member of BACP (number 7989) www.BACP.co.uk and the College for Sexual and Relationship Therapists (number 2577) www.cosrt.org.uk


I began working as a counsellor in 1995, have worked for Relate since 2000 and have been in private practice since 2005.  I have several years experience of working as a counsellor in educational and NHS settings as well as clinical work in the corporate EAP sector.


Postgraduate Diploma in Relationship Therapy (Psychosexual Therapy)

Postgraduate Certificate in Relationship Counselling

Certificate in Marital and Couple Counselling (Theory and Practice)

Diploma in Psychodynamic Counselling

Certificate in Clinical Supervision.

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited


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£55 per session - payable by cash, bank transfer or card.

Further information

An initial session is a chance for you to talk about your concerns and consider what you hope to get out of counselling. This helps us decide whether what I offer is best suited to your needs. If it is, and you wish to go ahead, we decide on a day of the week and time that we can meet regularly.

My counselling practice is in Marlow within easy reach of High Wycombe, Maidenhead, Henley and Reading and the surrounding areas of Berks, Bucks, and Oxon.

Off-road parking available.

Maps & Directions

Marlow, SL7

Type of session

Online counselling: No
Telephone counselling: No
Face to face counselling: Yes
Home visits: No

Practical details

Sign language: Unspecified
Other languages: None


Accessibility information
Wheelchair access: No


I offer daytime and evening appointments during the week

Types of client

Older adults
Employee Assistance Programme