Olga Gelfman-Gratwick UKCP

Olga Gelfman-Gratwick UKCP



About me

Where do you start with addressing your problems and how do you know how to choose the right therapist? The most important factor is the relationship with the therapist we choose. We have to feel safe and confident that we are in good hands in which we can share most private thoughts and feelings.

I am a psychoanalytical psychotherapist in private practice based in Kingston, Surrey, I also work in Bowlby Center (Center for attachment based Psychoanalytical Psychotherapy ) in London.

I work with adults and adolescents who have experienced a wide array of personal and work-related difficulties. My approach is informed by attachment theory and research, relational psychoanalysis, the literature on trauma, affect regulation, reflective functioning and developmental neurobiology.

I began my 4 years professional training as a psychotherapist in the Center for attachment based psychoanalytical psychotherapy. Since then I have become a Mother to 2 beautiful children and have developed a particular interest in child-parent relationships and childhood traumas.

People come to counselling and psychotherapy for many reasons from being rocked by a significant life event, to a general sense of dissatisfaction and distress with life that they are struggling to make sense of. Working with me will give you an opportunity to gain more insight and awareness into yourself, your situation and the way you relate to others. I will help you to make your own decisions and to take more control over your life.

I continue to learn from life and the clients with whom I have worked.

Training, qualifications & experience

- BA from Moscow University,Russia
- Graduated member of the Center for Attachment based Psychoanalytical Psychotherapy.
- Before training as a therapist , my background included teaching in Primary schools and teaching Russian language to adults.
- UKCP registered

Member organisations

Registered / Accredited


Accredited register membership

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Parent-child conflict
Child development issues


I operate a sliding scale of between £50 and £60. The fee decided upon is dependent on such factors as the frequency of sessions, whether client is available during the daytime or requires an evening appointment.

Maps & Directions

Surbiton, KT6

Type of session

Online counselling: No
Telephone counselling: Yes
Face to face counselling: Yes

Practical details

Sign language: No
Other languages: Russian


I work some evenings and Saturdays.