Matthew Hughes Member of the Tavistock Institute of Medical Psychology and COSRT
Thank you for looking at my profile. I am specifically trained and qualified in relationship and couple counselling and also as an individual counsellor.
Post Graduate Diploma in Psychodynamic Couple Counselling. The Westminster Pastoral Foundation
Post Graduate Diploma in Couple Counselling. The Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships
COSRT The College Of Sexual and Relationship Therapists
BSCPC The British Society of Couple Psychotherapists and Counsellors
RELATIONSHIP AND COUPLE COUNSELLING
Through out a long-term relationship, we can face many important decisions and crossroads. Sometimes, it is difficult to talk about these problems with our partners. Couple counselling can be away of opening up communications through gaining a clearer understanding of what is really going on for each person. Whether you are able to come with your partner, or alone; whether you are married or single, I will provide you with a safe and confidential place to talk about and explore your difficulties
Couple Counselling can greatly help in the following areas
- Increased confidence
- Improved and effective communication
- Self knowledge
- Better understanding of your partner’s needs
- Stronger family life
- Enhanced sexual life and affection
Fees £40 per session or a course of 12 sessions for £380
Sometimes we know that the things we experience and struggle with are about us, our life and our past. It can be very isolating to suffer without feeling that we are being heard, understood or helped. Here, in my counselling room, you will find a safe place to talk, to unburden and to feel heard and understood. We will be able to work together on the things that are troubling you. Counselling has the potential to help you achieve the following:
One to one counselling can help in the following ways
- Understand yourself better
- Change the way you feel about yourself
- Change behaviours and your reactions to situations
- Deal with conflict and angry feelings
- Feel more confident and act with more confidence.
- Understand the links between your past and your present situation and feeling
- Have a sense a being heard and understood, leading to less stress and isolation.
Fees £40 per session or a course of 12 sessions for £380
We agree a regular weekly time and your counselling session will be available to you for as long as it is helpful. My practice is with in easy distance of Orpington, Bromley and Chelsfield and close to the M25 by road. Please call on the telephone number above or email me to arrange an initial consultation.
COUNSELLING FOR THOSE IN TRAINING
If you are considering training as a counsellor, I have experience in working with students and have had 10 years experience at two well-known training institutions, Westminster Pastoral Foundation and Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships. Reduced fees of £35 are available for those in training and an over all fee can be negotiated for course required hours
HOW DOES COUNSELLING WORK?
After you have made contact we will arrange to meet and talk. If you wish to proceed we can then arrange a regular time. Counselling works by creating a space for you to talk. Over a period of time you will begin to make sense of the underlying reasons behind your difficulties and issues, leading to greater self awareness and real change. Effective counselling is never a quick fix solution and if you are using either drugs or alcohol then counselling will not work until you are clear of addiction.
Training, qualifications & experience
Nine years experience working with individuals and couples
TESTIMONAILS FROM FORMER CLIENTS
'couple counselling really helped us to start talking again. Before we were very stuck and arguing a lot. Now we do not feel so angry with each other.' Melanie and Stephen (names changed).
'Through our counselling sessions we have learnt to understand each others thoughts and feelings helping us to feel more confident about resolving our difficulties on our own' Ray and Diane (names changed)
Matthew helped me to come to terms with myself and the world after two miscarriages and other bereavements came all at once. He helped me to understand my anger so that I could deal with the underlying causes, which, with Matthew's guidance, we unpacked together. In a safe space, where I could think and have my thoughts gently but persuasively challenged, I understood for the first time the extent that a childhood trauma had affected my whole attitude to life.After a year with Matthew, I am facing the world with renewed vitality, confident in myself and my thoughts and feelings. I am forging new friendships and building relationships with my parents at a new level.
British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy
BACP is one of the UK’s largest professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy. Therapists registered with the Association fall into a number of different membership categories such as Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP and Registered Member MBACP (Accred), each standing for different levels of training and experience. MBACP (Accred) and MBACP (Snr Accred) members have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by the Association.
Registered members can be found on the BACP Register, which was the first register to achieve Accredited Voluntary Register status issued by the Professional Standards Authority. Individual Members will have completed an appropriate counselling and/or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but will not appear on the BACP Register until they've progressed to Registered Member MBACP status.
All members are bound by a Code of Ethics & Practice and a Complaints Procedure. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.
Accredited register membership
Accredited Register Scheme
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Areas of counselling I deal with
- Couples: £40 or 12 sessions for £380
- Individuals: £40 or 12 sessions for £400
- Students in training £35