Everybody's family is a bit dysfunctional right? That's what you tell yourself anyway, when your heart sinks as 'Mum' appears on your phone. And you're ok now anyway. Mostly. You have a good job and friends and you go out. You're a proper adult. You have the Valentino shoes to prove it.
The only thing that gets in the way is this never-ending fear that if someone really looked inside you they would see that you don't actually belong. Your adult card would be revoked. You'd go back to feeling the confusion that you felt as a child, like something was missing, like you'd lost something you never had.
Even with your friends, you push away the doubts and the worry they don't like you. Did you say the wrong thing? Were you too honest? Should you have hidden the crazy a bit better? Did you drink too much?
You need someone who sees past your bravado and who sees the flicker of sadness that you're constantly holding at bay. I work online, so you can get the best therapist for you instead of the closest. You don't need to do this on your own anymore. Contact me to arrange a free 15 minute discussion.
Training, qualifications & experience
I took a counselling skills course at Metanoia Institute in London before undertaking a 4 year post graduate diploma in Integrative Psychotherapy. I'm UKCP accredited which means the UKCP check that I meet their high standards.
I've had additional training in sexual abuse and abusive relationships, trauma and cptsd (complex trauma).
I've had a lot of personal therapy to help me differentiate my 'stuff' and your 'stuff'. You don't need to worry about whether you're sharing too much or if I'll be ok. I'm happy for you to tell me as much as you feel comfortable. Whether you want to talk about dying, feeling suicidal or why you feel like a failure, I'm happy to listen.
The most important indicator of success in therapy is how you connect to your therapist. I want you to find the right person and if that's not me, I'll see if I can direct you towards someone who can help.
Registered / Accredited
Being registered/accredited with a professional body means an individual must have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by their member organisation.
UK Council for Psychotherapy
The UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP) is a leading professional body for the education, training and regulation of psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors. Its register is accredited by the government's Professional Standards Authority.
As part of its commitment to protect the public, it works to improve access to psychotherapy, to support and disseminate research, to improve standards and to respond effectively to complaints against its members.
UKCP standards cover the range of different psychotherapies. Registration is obtained by training or accrediting with one of its member organisations, or by holding a European Certificate in Psychotherapy. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.
Accredited register membership
Accredited Register Scheme
The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).
This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.
Areas of counselling I deal with
Other areas of counselling I deal with
C-PTSD, CPTSD, Complex trauma, developmental trauma,
£105.00 per session
Free initial telephone session
EAP/Health Insurance Providers
I charge £105 per 50 minute session.
I'm a registered provider with Aviva. Please check your policy if you would like to use your insurance.
I'm available in the mornings and afternoons on Monday, Wednesday, Friday. I work online via Zoom. Clients attend weekly or twice per month.
My practice is LGBTQIA affirming and I am committed to anti racism work. I work online via Zoom.