About me
I have worked in the field of personal change and development for over 25 years now. After working as a minister of religion for eight years, I trained as a hypnotherapist and mindfulness coach and then as a counsellor. I am currently training to become a Psychotherapist.
My work with my clients centres around the idea that we all have the most remarkable abilities and resources and the capacity for change and growth but sometimes we just get stuck.
Life is sometimes complex and the difficult times can leave us doubting ourselves, feeling low, isolated, anxious, or frustrated. We often bounce back but there are times when we need support, someone to listen to us in confidence, and a safe space to say what's on our minds.
Counselling and psychotherapy offer the opportunity to process difficult experiences, explore unpleasant feelings and to get in touch with our own inner strengths and resources.
My work philosophy is influenced by many roles in my professional life and more recently, my many years of training in Transactional Analysis, as well as being a husband, father and family business owner.
I aim to provide an open and safe environment, free from judgement, which allows you to speak freely so that we can work collaboratively towards agreed aims and goals.
Ultimately, we all want peace of mind and the freedom to live authentic lives of joy, connection and meaning, something that I believe is a journey of discovery, a journey which we are all on together.
Couples Counselling and Therapy:
Navigating the complexities of our relationships can be challenging. We humans are complex creatures and when you get two of us together, things get even more complex.
I view difficulties in our most important relationships to be par for the course, part and parcel of the journey - a journey of ups and downs, of wonderful times and troubled times.
I have worked with couples and families for many years, first as a minister of religion and later as a therapist. I have been married many years to my wife (who is also my business partner) and I recognise the challenges and obstacles that modern life creates. I am also a father of two adult children and I believe family responsibilities apply a special kind of pressure to a partnership.
Mostly, my work involves promoting understanding, intimacy and learning how we can accommodate our own needs as well as the needs of our partner. I aim to provide a non-judgemental and unbiased environment where we can talk, listen, share our hurts, our experiences, and our wisdom - as we work together towards a greater sense of closeness and partnership.
Sometimes my work involves exploring how to best move forward when it becomes clear that a relationship is ending.
Often there are many factors to consider during the process of therapy, including other loved ones, such as children, family and friends, as well as the more practical aspects of life such as work, finances and property.
For couples work, each appointment lasts slightly longer (1.5 hours) and in that time I offer time and space for each partner to share their thoughts, feelings and reflections, ensuring an opportunity for open dialogue both ways.I use Transactional Analysis as my main approach towards the work we do together, as well as other training I have done in other psychological theories, and my own life-experiences and influences. During our first couples appointment, we will spend a good part of the session establishing and agreeing upon what you would like to achieve from the sessions. This can be revisited again as the sessions progress.
Training, qualifications & experience
I worked as a minister of religion for eight years before training as a hypnotherapist in 2006 and registering with the NCH (National Council for Hypnotherapy). In 2014, I trained as a mindfulness teacher with Nick Cook at the Central England College and the Mindfulness Now programme.
I am a Certified Transactional Analysis Psychotherapist (CTA). To hear more about TA, you can listen to the podcast I co-founded, "Transactional Analysis Podcast".
I am also a business owner, alongside my wife, and a father of two adult children - one of the roles that I think brings a lot of life experience to my work.
Member organisations
BACP is one of the UK’s leading professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy with around 60,000 members. The Association has several different categories of membership, including Student Member, Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP, Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Accred) and Senior Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Snr Acccred). Registered and accredited members are listed on the BACP Register, which shows that they have demonstrated BACP’s recommended standards for training, proficiency and ethical practice. The BACP Register was the first register of psychological therapists to be accredited by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA). Accredited and senior accredited membership are voluntary categories for members who choose to undertake a rigorous application and assessment process to demonstrate additional standards around practice, training and supervision. Individual members will have completed an appropriate counselling or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but they won’t appear on the BACP Register until they've demonstrated that they meet the standards for registration. Student members are still in the process of completing their training. All members are bound by the BACP Ethical Framework and a Professional Conduct Procedure.
Accredited register membership
The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).
This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.
Areas of counselling I deal with
Other areas of counselling I deal with
Work and career-related issues, such as direction, motivation, stress and life-purpose.
Therapies offered
Fees
£80.00 per session
Concessions offered for
Health Insurance/EAP
Additional information
I charge £80 per hour and offer discounts for students, and I offer discretionary rates on a sliding scale.
For couples, I charge £110 for a 1.5 hour appointment.
I offer a free 15-20 minute telephone consultation where I can assess whether I can help and where you get to see if I am the kind of therapist you are looking for.
Drop me an email or call the clinic number, and one of our admin team members will organise a call.
When I work
| Mon | Tue | Wed | Thu | Fri | Sat | Sun | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Early morning | |||||||
| Morning | |||||||
| Early afternoon | |||||||
| Late afternoon | |||||||
| Evening |
I work only online on Mondays
And I work in clinic on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Fridays - I can also see online clients on these days.