Marcus James Sly MFETC(Dip)
Qualified counsellor offering a safe, supportive space and a listening ear, to help you work things out and to re-connect you with your own strength, resilience and wisdom.
I also offer a range of effective tools to help you deal positively with anxiety, stress and trauma.
“I found Marcus to be extremely helpful, and empathetic offering me a way forward when I was going through a difficult period in my life. A great listener and I always left the consultation feeling much better in myself giving me the strength to move forward. A huge support and I would warmly recommend him - as a counsellor as he is fighting for you “in your corner”. — Joy Fletcher
My approach is flexible and eclectic, with sessions tailored to meet you needs. Apart from offering standard talk therapy it's also possible, if it suits you, to work with art and creativity, movement, embodiment, and breath and voice-work.
“From the first meeting with Marcus to the last he was always polite, professional and friendly. He put me at ease whilst talking about difficult subjects and encouraged me to work on issues that presented themselves physically as well as mentally. With his help and encouragement I was able to come to terms with things in my own time and way.” — Anna G.
I also offer sessions walking in the open air if you would rather not be stuck inside.
We can work online or outdoors during Covid-19.
Training, qualifications & experience
I have a Diploma in Emotional Therapeutic Counselling and am an accredited member of the National Counselling Society. I have regular supervision, and am fully insured.
Emotional Therapeutic Counselling is a humanistic and person-centred therapy, which means that while I hope to bring insight and helpful perspectives into the work we do together, I won’t ‘diagnose’ you, but will aim for us to explore and dialogue together, as feels right to you. Many people have found that ETC has helped them with a wide range of problems including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship and communication issues, anger, abuse, bullying, trauma etc.
"When I first met Marcus I was in a traumatised state from sexual abuse when I was a child. I spent a year in therapy with him and every Tuesday was one more step towards healing. He always made me feel safe and let me set the pace. In the midst of the worst state of anguish he also had the uncanny ability to lighten the intensity and sometimes, surprisingly, could make me laugh before I left the session. He walked alongside me in ways that surprised and encouraged me. Most of all, he is very sensitive and challenged me to be my most courageous self — but 'held my hand' when I felt unable to do it alone. It was worth every bit of courage I had to muster. Getting better is the prize." — Genevieve B.
All of us are more than just a ‘talking head’! It’s increasingly realised that bringing more awareness of the body into therapy can sometimes make things go much more quickly and effectively. For some people, allowing their body to fully feel, express and tell its story can bypass the 'stuck record' of thoughts, beliefs and words and enable them to let go of the past and open up to new experiences and ways of being more quickly. If it fits and works for you I can support you in the sessions to move, vocalise and express, let go of past hurt and trauma, and gently support you to open into new ways of being and experiencing yourself at a physical level. I am also more than happy to work in a more conventional way if that is a better fit for you, or for the issues you are bringing.
My approach to embodied therapy is based on the ‘body listening’ approach which I learned at the Brighton School of Embodied Therapy through formal training and ongoing mentorship. I am also a qualified and experienced Alexander Technique teacher, and I teach a therapeutic dance practice called Dance of Awareness.
Registered / Accredited
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National Counselling Society
The National Counselling Society
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In 2013 the NCS register was accredited by the Professional Standards Authority under the Accredited Voluntary Register Scheme. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.
Accredited register membership
Accredited Register Scheme
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Areas of counselling I deal with
Other areas of counselling I deal with
High Sensitivity/Highly Sensitive People (HSP)
INFP and INFJ personality types
Lack of confidence
Walking and outdoor therapy. The rhythm of walking can help us to relax and organise our thoughts, and for some people may feel more natural and comfortable than traditional chair-based talk-therapy. I offer sessions walking or just being in nature for those who find this helpful.
I charge £45 per session. Reductions may be available in cases of genuine need, please ask.
I offer a 10% discount for a block of six sessions booked for in advance
Free introductory session
It's important to make sure that whoever you chose to work with is a good fit for you. To help with this I offer a free, no obligation introductory session so that you can meet me and get a sense of whether you think we could work productively together.
Concessions offered for
I believe therapy should be available to everyone, and fees can be negotiated in cases of genuine need.