About me
Helping teens build confidence, resilience, and emotional wellbeing
Hi, I’m Ben—a qualified teenage counsellor and self-esteem coach with over 20 years of experience working in education and youth wellbeing. My journey into counselling began with my own experience of seeking help. I remember how daunting it felt walking into that first session, unsure and overwhelmed. But that moment changed my life. With support, I rediscovered my energy, set new goals, and learned how to manage anxiety and low mood. Now, I help others do the same.
Why I Do This Work
After attending a course about assessing teens as risk run by a psychology in London, I found my calling. Inspired by the power of connection, I trained as a counsellor and launched my private practice to support teenagers facing anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and life’s many pressures. My mission is simple: to help young people feel heard, understood, and empowered to thrive.
My Approach
No two teens are the same, so I offer flexible, personalised support through:
Walk & Talk therapy in the Chiltern Hills
Home visitis
Face-to-face sessions
Online counselling via google meet
I create a safe, non-judgmental space where teens can explore their thoughts and feelings. Whether they’re struggling with school stress, friendship issues, or emotional challenges, I help them build their own “climbing frame”—a framework of confidence, coping strategies, and self-belief.
Therapeutic Methods
I use a blend of approaches tailored to each client’s needs:
Person-Centred Counselling
CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy)
Transactional Analysis
Solution-Focused Coaching
Mindfulness Techniques
I’m a registered member of the BACP and committed to ethical, compassionate care.
Experience & Expertise
Volunteered with Bucks Mind and Time to Talk, supporting children and adults in the community
Founded Teen Self-Esteem Clubs for different age groups
Trained as a Certified Self-Esteem Coach
Oversaw teen wellbeing in schools, supporting students with anxiety, depression, exam stress, and friendship challenges
Worked closely with international students and those with Special Educational Needs, including ADHD, Dyslexia, and ADD
Passionate about helping every teen feel seen, valued, and capable of change.
What Parents Say
“Thank you for being so terrific with my 10-year-old son who was suffering with high levels of anxiety… Your kind and gentle approach eased him back onto an even keel with regained confidence. His fears have melted away.”
If you’re a teen—or a parent of one—looking for support, I’m here to help. Let’s build that climbing frame together, one step at a time.
Book your session today and take the first step toward a brighter, more confident future.
Training, qualifications & experience
Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling 2020
BA Hons Degree with QTS (25 years)
Graydin Coaching Journey Course 2024
Testimonials
15/10/25 (16 Yr old)
My son really enjoyed the sessions. They helped him open up and begin to untangle everything that had been weighing on his mind. It also made a big difference in how he coped with all the changes happening in his life at the time.
10/01/25 (14 Yr old)
I’d like to thank Ben for his help with our son. Initially he did some walk and talk sessions and then when the light went he went online. He was always professional, on time and patient with our son. He is now feeling much better and able to face some of the challenges of the world. Thank you
01/02/24 (11 year old)
My son I are were saying this morning how far he had come and how significantly positive your guidance for him was. He said you gave him the solutions to help him move forward when he was always hitting that wall of anxiety.
I am so grateful for what you did for him and I know he is too.
10/02/23
I took my teenage Daughter to see Ben as she had been finding , in her own words, life was getting on top of her. A friend mentioned counselling and we reached out to Ben for assistance.
After the initial consultation she immediately felt relieved that the issues she was having were normalised. After four or five sessions we now have the loving, bubbly daughter that we once had. She is more aware of her feelings and is being proactive in discussing how she feels. We, as parents, are also aware of changes in behavioural patterns and are pleased to see the lines of communication between us as a family are stronger than ever.
I wholeheartedly recommend using Ben’s services as he has demonstrated excellent counselling and professionalism throughout this on-going process.
23/01/23 - We came across Ben when looking for some help for our 14 year old daughter who was struggling with low self esteem, low confidence and lack of motivation following a move to a new area and school. Ben‘s professionalism, patience, kindness and care was greatly appreciated in helping our daughter manage her transition. I have no doubt at all that Ben loves what he does and offers a much needed and invaluable space to talk and connect to any child or teen that may be struggling with life’s challenges.
05/01/23 - I’d like to thank you for all your help, my 15 year old son is in a much better place and is so much happier, I’m really grateful.
06/02/22 - Regular sessions allowed me to feel at ease speaking with Ben about personal things in my life and I felt a weight had been lifted after every session. I will use some of the strategies he taught me for the rest of my life.
25/01/22 - I approached Ben to support my daughter. She was struggling with low self esteem and confidence challenges. Ben was incredibly easy to communicate with and had a clear idea of how he would support my daughter. She absolutely loved her sessions with Ben and applied everything she learnt from working with Ben to her day to day life. Within a month her confidence is soaring and she is enjoying school again. We are so grateful to Ben for his support.
01/12/21 - I wanted to take this opportunity to say the most enormous thank you. You have helped him accept himself in a new way....you picked up the pieces when I as a parent could not.
06/04/21 - My son is 13 years old and he suffered from anxiety after joining a new school. Ben was a calming and sympathetic counsellor who provided a range of strategies for him to deal with his issues. I’m pleased to say Ben has had a super impact!
Ongoing Training
2025
Good enough Parenting - Dr Tara Porter (Clinical Psychologist)
2024
(1) Building Resilience in Girls - Doctor Maryham Baker
(2) Positive Psychology - Emily Kenefick (School Psychologist)
(3) Supporting Teens to Flourish - Ben Kerr-Shaw (Director of Character Formation)
(4) Raising Future Ready Girls - How not to screw your girls up! Doctor Maryham Baker
2023
(1) Neurodiversity and Wellbeing with Sarah Jane Critchley
(2) Eating Disorders and difficulties. Understanding and responding with Pooky Knightsmith
(3) OCD and Anxiety in Children: A Parents’ Guide with Dr Anna Conway Morris
(4) The Importance of Sleep for Wellbeing with Doctor Gabriella Romano
(The Sleep Charity)
(5) How to Build Positive Relationships with Emily Kenefick
(6) Graydin Coaching methods (recap)
(7) When Girls Fall Out - Teenage girls and friendship groups and what to and not say to girls.
(8) Ringleaders and Side Kicks by Rosalind Wiseman- How to help boys cope with classroom politics, bullying, girls and growing up.
2022
(1) Mental Health Champions Foundation Course
(2) Teaching Emotional Literacy: How to Support Pupils Behavioural Development
(3) Data Protection Essentials
(4) Supporting the Mental Health and Wellbeing of children with Autism.
(5) Mental Health and Wellbeing: Supporting Teens Transition from Yr 6 to Yr 7
(6) CAMHS School IN Reach workshop - ‘Supporting Young People to become Mentally Healthier’
(7) CAMHS School IN Reach workshop - ‘The Road to Independence’.
(8) Supporting the Mental Health and Wellbeing of pupils with Autism.
(9) Mental Health and Wellbeing: Supporting Teenagers Transition from Yr 6 to
Yr 7
(10) OCD and Anxiety in Children: A Parents’ Guide with Dr Anna Conway Morris
(11) The Role of a Clinical Psychologist in Supporting Children and Teen Mental Health with Dr Tamsyn Noble
Member organisations
BACP is one of the UK’s leading professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy with around 60,000 members. The Association has several different categories of membership, including Student Member, Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP, Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Accred) and Senior Registered Accredited Member MBACP (Snr Acccred). Registered and accredited members are listed on the BACP Register, which shows that they have demonstrated BACP’s recommended standards for training, proficiency and ethical practice. The BACP Register was the first register of psychological therapists to be accredited by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA). Accredited and senior accredited membership are voluntary categories for members who choose to undertake a rigorous application and assessment process to demonstrate additional standards around practice, training and supervision. Individual members will have completed an appropriate counselling or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but they won’t appear on the BACP Register until they've demonstrated that they meet the standards for registration. Student members are still in the process of completing their training. All members are bound by the BACP Ethical Framework and a Professional Conduct Procedure.
Accredited register membership
The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).
This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.
Areas of counselling I deal with
Other areas of counselling I deal with
CBT
Solution focuses
Therapies offered
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Fees
£40.00 per session
Concessions offered for
Additional information
Counselling £40
Self Esteem Coaching £20
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Flexible hours but generally work Thursday evenings from 17:00.
Call me on 07817 341910
Email me on benevers87@gmail.com
Further information
Please call or email me if you would like any further information.
