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About me

Whatever your reason for considering counselling at this time of your life, the process of beginning can be daunting. I am Abby, a fully qualified counsellor and psychosexual therapist with several years of experience working with individuals and couples in a range of settings.

As your therapist, together we will work on

  • Exploring and building emotional resilience
  • Developing long term tools to manage conflict
  • Over-coming difficulties
  • Re-establishing goals to enable you to live the life you choose

I provide a safe, non-judgemental space for you to explore and perhaps understand the cause of your discomfort and discover options or new experiencing feelings that are more manageable. As an Integrative counsellor I tailor the therapeutic environment to meet your needs and help you achieve your goals.

I have developed my practice working in a number of settings. Through working for charities, specifically dealing with trauma and mental health as well as within the NHS and private practise I have successfully supported clients in taking steps to achieve their goals, over-come internal obstacles and live the life they desire. I specialise in working with-

  • Depression and Anxiety
  • Anger and Aggression
  • Self Esteem and Confidence
  • Trauma
  • Sexual Difficulties
  • Relationship Difficulties

Training, qualifications & experience

Training and Qualifications
Post Graduate Diploma Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy
Certificate in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
Advanced Diploma in Humanistic Integrative Counselling
Diploma in Integrative Humanistic Counselling
Certificate in Integrative Humanistic Counselling

Member organisations


British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

BACP is one of the UK’s largest professional bodies for counselling and psychotherapy. Therapists registered with the Association fall into a number of different membership categories such as Individual Member, Registered Member MBACP and Registered Member MBACP (Accred), each standing for different levels of training and experience. MBACP (Accred) and MBACP (Snr Accred) members have achieved a substantial level of training and experience approved by the Association.

Registered members can be found on the BACP Register, which was the first register to achieve Accredited Voluntary Register status issued by the Professional Standards Authority. Individual Members will have completed an appropriate counselling and/or psychotherapy course and started to practise, but will not appear on the BACP Register until they've progressed to Registered Member MBACP status.

All members are bound by a Code of Ethics & Practice and a Complaints Procedure. Accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.

Accredited register membership

British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy

Accredited Register Scheme

The Accredited Register Scheme was set up in 2013 by the Department of Health (DoH) as a way to recognise organisations that hold voluntary registers which meet certain standards. These standards are set by the Professional Standards Authority (PSA).

This therapist has indicated that they belong to an Accredited Register.

Other areas of counselling I deal with

Sexual Difficulties including

  • Anorgasmia (inability to orgasm)
  • Delayed Ejaculation
  • Dyspareunia (pain during sex)
  • Erectile Dysfunction (inability to gain or maintain a satisfactory erection)
  • Low Desire
  • Premature Ejaculation
  • Vaginismus (tightening of the vaginal walls which prevents penetration)


Additional information

The initial consultation fee is fixed at £60 for individuals and £90 for couples.

Fees thereafter are charged on a sliding scale (dependant on circumstances) and range from:
£45 to £80 for Individuals
£65 to £90 for couples

(Some concessionary fees are available, please contact me for further information)

The Initial consultation is an opportunity for you explore what you would like from therapy and if you feel comfortable working with me, we will agree an initial number of sessions to start with and take it from there. Sessions last for 50 minutes and are usually at the same time every week.

Please contact me either by phone - 07515658903 or via email abby-taylorgilfillian@gmail.com with any questions or enquires.


Sessions are available at various times throughout the day. Please enquire for further details.

Further information

As a member of the British Association for Counsellor and Psychotherapists I adhere to the Ethical Framework for Good Practice in Counselling and Psychotherapy; this means I maintain confidentiality and keep your emotional well-being at the forefront of my practice.


Type of session

In person

Types of client


Key details

Wheelchair user access

Wheelchair user access

Wheelchair-accessible premises should have step-free access for wheelchair users and individuals who are unable to climb stairs. If a counsellor's premises aren't step-free, they may offer alternative services such as telephone/web-based appointments, home visits, or meeting clients in different location, so you can choose the option that suits you best.

You can contact the counsellor to discuss the options available.

Under the Equality Act 2010 service providers have a duty to make reasonable adjustments to ensure that individuals with disabilities can access their service. You can read more about reasonable adjustments to help you to access services on the CAB website.

Abby Gilfillian

Abby Gilfillian