David Wakely MA UKCP Reg.
I am a fully qualified, experienced and registered counsellor and psychotherapist, offering a constructive, grounded approach in a safe and confidential environment. My aim is to help you explore and gain clarity on aspects of your life and to resolve problems which are troubling you.
I work with people on a wide range of recognised problems, including anxiety, depression, confidence and self-esteem, anger, difficulties in relationships, sexual problems, addictions etc.
I also work with issues that are less easy to define - confusion and lack of direction, loss of joy or meaning in living, difficulties in relating to others, concerns about identity or sexuality.
My experience has taught me that everyone who comes to counselling brings with them a unique set of background, circumstances, values and and beliefs. Consequently, I do not have a "one size fits all" approach, but endeavour to work in a way that recognises and respects this uniqueness.
I have been working as a counsellor since 2003. I became a qualified and registered psychotherapist in 2006, having completed a masters degree in existential psychotherapy and counselling, validated by the University of Sheffield.
I have worked as a counsellor for the Terrence Higgins Trust in London, for EACH (Ethnic Alcohol Counselling) in Hounslow and for the DAS group in Bristol, enabling me to acquire a broad base of experience in the areas of mental and sexual health. I have also worked in private practice since 2006, first in London and now in Bristol.
Since graduating, I have continued to study, both formally and informally, and to undertake a range of professional development activities. This has included training workshops and courses in CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) techniques, narrative therapy and working with sexual minorities. (For a list of my qualifications and additional training, see below.) Most recently I have completed a year-long training in the treatment of sex addiction/sexual compulsivity, which has allowed me further to develop my knowledge and experience of addiction and of human sexuality.
If you would like to make an appointment, then simply e-mail me by using the link on this page or telephone me on the above number. I will get back to you as soon as I can. (Alternatively, take a look at my website if you would like to know more about my approach.)
The first meeting is our chance to decide whether we want to continue working together or not.
If we agree to continue, I will usually suggest a fixed number of meetings at first (normally six), which we can extend later if we wish to.
Training, qualifications & experience
MA Existential Psychotherapy & Counselling (University of Sheffield)
Certificate in Counselling Skills (New School of Psychotherapy & Counselling)
Additional training and professional development
Professional Certificate in Sex Addiction (award pending) (Association for the Treatment of Sex Addiction and Compulsivity)
Narrative practice level 1, intensive course (Institute of Narrative Therapy)
Essentials in sexual minority therapy, modules 1 & 2 (Pink Therapy)
Working with sexual compulsivity in gay and bisexual men, workshop (Pink Therapy)
Understanding and recognising sex addiction, seminar (Paula Hall/Listening Post)
Uncertainty: exploring our responses in an unpredictable world, weekend workshop (Ernesto Spinelli/Sulis Practice Masterclass)
Introductory training in ACT - acceptance and commitment therapy (Mindfulness Training)
8 week mindfulness course (Philippa Vick)
Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) for depression, anxiety disorders (panic disorder, social anxiety, OCD - obsessive-compulsive disorder, health anxiety) and anger, workshops (Jacqui Porter)
Current developments in cognitive behavioural therapy, workshop (Jacqui Porter)
Relationship therapy with sexual minorities, workshop (Pink Therapy)
The homelessness of human experience, workshop (Greg Madison/Society for Existential Analysis)
Introduction to couple interaction, summer school (Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships)
Workshops on HIV/AIDS, working with sexual minorities and sexual health issues, bereavement (Terrence Higgins Trust)
Workshops on working with alcohol and substance addictions (Ethnic Alcohol Counselling, Hounslow)
Courses in psychonalytic psychology: Kleinian and object relations theories, Lacan and post-modernism, existential psychotherapy (Birkbeck College, London)
Accredited register membership
Areas of counselling I deal with
- Affairs and betrayals
- Anger management
- Asperger's syndrome
- Avoidant personality disorder
- Dependent personality disorder
- Drug addiction
- Emotional abuse
- Gender dysphoria
- Generalised anxiety disorder
- Internet addiction
- Low self-confidence
- Low self-esteem
- Narcissistic personality disorder
- Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD)
- Panic attacks
- Passive aggressive behaviour
- Personality disorders
- Physical abuse
- Relationship problems
- Schizoid personality disorder
- Separation and divorce
- Sex addiction
- Sex problems
- Sexual abuse
- Suicidal thoughts
- Work-related stress
£40 per session (£20 for introductory session)
(Please note that cancellations must be made with 24 hours notice. Otherwise, the full fee is payable, although I will always try to find an alternative time for us to meet.)
Maps & Directions
Type of session
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My working hours are generally weekday mornings between 9.00 and 12.30 and Monday through to Thursday evenings from 5.00 to 8.30 pm.